Is my 8-yr old kitchen dated already?
rblodgett
2 years ago
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8 Yr old son soon to be 9 refuses to do his home work
Comments (10)My 9 year old stepdaughter doesn't refuse to DO her homework, but she has been 'forgetting' it or has flat out lied to me & said she didn't have any, when she hid it in her desk. So, in that way... she's not doing her homework. When I asked her why she lied (and I think the forgetting was also a lie & that she just left it in her desk so she didn't have to do it), she told me she didn't want to do it. So, I told her that I don't want to do some of the fun things she enjoys (like baking, helping me with dinner or most recently, carving pumpkins) if she isn't going to do the things we want her to do. It has only been a week and she's been caught in a few lies already... again. I personally think it works better to give it less attention or no attention and shrug your shoulders and say, "I guess you'd rather not watch tv with us, since you don't have your homework done." My husband used to spend half his evening frustrated beyond belief because SD would guess at the answers or write down the wrong answer that made absolutely no sense & DH would erase it, try to explain it & end up yelling at her out of frustration. One evening, he was running around, angry/frustrated looking for another eraser. He was all worked up and SD was calmly sitting on the edge of her bed, humming to herself. I grabbed DH aside & pointed out... if she isn't stressed out or upset over her work not being done, why are YOU? I walked into the room & told SD that daddy is NOT helping you with your work. When it's done correctly, the two of you can sit and play a game or watch TV until bedtime, but if you screw around until bedtime, you will take it back to school unfinished & I will call your teacher & tell her why it's not done. There were a couple of days that she took her homework back to school not done & I talked to the teacher. Her teacher said that it's explained in class & she should not need help, she should know what to do. She then lost her recess and did the work in class. After that, she would get it done correctly the first time.. sometimes with minor corrections, but she'd get it done & want to spend time with dad. While in counseling, she admitted she wasn't doing it right on purpose because it meant dad spent the majority of the evening focused just on her. She didn't seem to care that it was negative attention. He was too frazzled to realize what she was doing & after I pointed it out, he's better at recognizing it. Now, when she comes home and says she has no idea what to do, he knows she wasn't paying attention when the teacher was explaining it. She's had an ongoing problem with talking in class & not paying attention. It really helps to have good communication with the teacher....See More8 yr old Granite- Perfect till yesterday then the etch panic
Comments (5)I don't think that an overnight ring would be scale or calcium build up -- those tend to occur over time. I think the reaction between some cleaner on the bottom of a bottle and the sealer is the most likely culprit. If you don't know what sealer was used and it hasn't been done for years (and assuming it is a granite that needs to be sealed), I'd remove the old sealer and apply one or two coats of a good penetrating sealer -- and then try to chill out a bit. Your attempt at humor sounds like a heart attack waiting to happen. But then, I love my marble -- and it does etch....See MoreHELP Me Renovate This 900 Yr Old Kitchen!
Comments (18)I agree with lazygardens above. Great solution. When my DH and I bought our 1925 bungalow it came with a kitchen that was remodeled in the 1950's. It had cabinets about the same style and color of your kitchen. The counters were old ugly red-ish formica which, like yours, were also on the backspash all the way to the base of the upper cabinets. We hated it and because we had just bought our house, we were on a shoestring budget. We sanded and painted our cabinets white, changed the hardware, and installed new laminate over the existing one with contact cement. For the backspash we pre- sized the formica and installed pre-pasted vinyl wallpaper over the top of it. (use vinyl wall paper because it is washable.) We updated the faucet. Those changes alone made the kitchen much more bearable and it was pretty cheap to do! For this being a rental I'd go with the paint, wallpaper and new laminate. You are lucky that your landlord is flexible and will let you do it. This solution for our kitchen tided us over for 20+ years. We are just now doing a full kitchen remodel....See MoreMy kitchen feels old already
Comments (16)So, you don't have The One True Kitchen that 97% of Gardenweb has. You've got what looks like quality cabinets in a nice wood, uber expensive appliances, and really nice granite. Most people would kill to have your kitchen. +1. That is a seriously lovely kitchen with gorgeously warm toned, upscale cabinets , great appliances, and a beautiful stone. Probably 98% of the population would love to upgrade to a kitchen like that! Perhaps the burgundy wall isn't doing it any favors, but I think a light or even white/cream backsplash and a cool fixture over the island/peninsula is all this kitchen needs. Personally I love the applique ver the range hood, but then I've always been a corbel and applique kind of gal....See Morerblodgett
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