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Comments (9)If your neighbors are home during the day, you can make arrangements for them to receive packages for you - I have received packages (even from UPS) for my next door neighbors. all I had to do was lower the package over the wall between our houses. The last one I received appeared to be shoes from Iowa that my neighbor's DM sent to him (they are mostly college students, or recent grads from Loyola Marymount). Lars...See MoreVENT - I can't stand it
Comments (6)remember that song, "If I Were a Carpenter"? The guy whines (demands) in a melancholy tone that, if he were on a lower social, economic, & educational scale & his girlfriend were on a much higher one, she would not only reduce circumstances to his level, but make herself subservient to him: "If I were a carpenter & you were a lady, would you marry me anyway, would you have my baby?" So she would no longer be able to move in her current circles; she would be a woman with a child, dependent on a melancholy, self-absorbed guy who needs her to constantly *prove* to him that he's the best thing in her universe, better than all those guys with education & money & social standing similar to hers. I always thought, "well, if she agrees, what's he going to do in return? What's he going to do for *her*?" I also wondered why he didn't ask instead, "Would you get me some introductions to people you know in the construction industry so I can improve my life & give you a better life?" "Bad luck" does rub off, but it doesn't *just* rub off; it's at least partially the result of the focus, priorities, & mindset of the person who has the bad luck, & it does indeed bring down those in his/her orbit. I sometimes wonder if there shouldn't be an 'everything-anon', like al-anon, to help families who get sucked into a relative's decaying orbit of whatever kind. I wish you the best....See MoreI can't stand it anymore!
Comments (33)Well, I made the trip this morning. I didn't meet the person from the infamous voice mail though. I told the clerk when the cat was taken in and what she looked like and the story about the kittens. She said that she didn't know of anything like that but that I was free to look at all the cats they had. There were some beautiful animals there, but I didn't see my hotel kitty. I can only assume the worst. I showed the lady the picture and she said she didn't remember seeing a cat that looked like that. I guess they get so many it's hard to keep up with each one. They had several kittens as well, but I don't know which if any were hers because I didn't get a look at them before animal control came. Maybe it worked out for the best. If I do get a second kitty as a companion for Jasper and myself it should really be a boy (according to everyone who seems to know), and one that is tame. I don't know why I wanted this kitty so badly... we didn't connect... I spent hours chasing it and watching it run full speed away from me. I asked myself why I really wanted this kitty. I think I just wanted to feel good about "rescuing" a "homeless" kitty. I want to expand my family, but I think when the kitty is right the situation will work out. There was a beautiful silver and grey kitty at a gas station 2 days ago that I tried to approach. It ran so fast, I thought it was going to dart into traffic. I think I would like to get a kitty of the street instead of going to a shelter (especially this one after my dealings with them!). I will just have to find one that isn't quite so scared if that is even possible. I would of course take it to the SPCA to have it speutered and vaccinated before I took it into my home. Anyway... that's the update... thanks to everyone who responded....See MoreI can't stand pool builders
Comments (8)harrylsg: First of all, it's banana_fanna, not bananaman: I'm a woman. Secondly, I can't find a tlbb anywhere on this forum to see where you're coming up with our same registration dates - can you tell me how to find his or her posts? I'd like to see whom I'm supposedly ghosting. Thirdly, lucky you! I gave you one more thing to believe in today - coincidences! I'm only one person, and not a poolbuilder, pool salesperson or anyone in the industry at all. Just someone that got a little torqued at how mean-spirited and unconstructive the posts were to moocat when she posted her pool blog. Like, really, people - the pool is dug, the rerod is in - how constructive is it to say, "your spa is so small!" or where you put your equipment is so ugly. Or whatever else was said. Very few kind remarks at all. Just jumped right in with all the negatives and what she shoulda/woulda/coulda done. And then people chiming in about how lousy her pool company is. I think trying to help someone see the forest thru the trees and not make mistakes in their endeavors is commendable. But what I read was neither constructive nor commendable in any way. Bottom line is, the topic of my original post was merely about salespeople, any salespeople in any industry, that feel the need to try to sell their product by being derogatory about other companies. But hey, it's business and it happens all the time. I, for one, won't do business with a company that will sink that low. It tells me something about their character overall. But that's just me. soccermom: I selected a poolbuilder in s/e Michigan....See More- 5 years agolast modified: 5 years ago
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