Oh Sheila, don't lose sleep over this. I will have loads more questions to keep you up at night! LOL Mayflowers, I have no idea what the new tile and backsplash will be. I'm going to the tile place on Wednesday with my GC. I thought I had something chosen, but when I saw a picture of a whole room, I didn't like it. I have hardwood floors open to the kitchen, so I'm struggling with that decision, too. I like every one of the lights you posted. The fourth one from mdln and the one from Olychick are similar, and very pretty. We have a lighting store that sells Progress lighting, so I'll see what they have on display. It's hard when you have to buy something without seeing it in person. Thanks all for the advice.

I personally like the middle one the best out of the options you've posted. I think the 1st is a little too heavy for the space, and the 3rd one looks too light (thin) next to your curtain rods and the thickness of the pendent bases. The middle one has a good balance of black without being too thick.

I can't tell from your picture exactly what your fireplace is like, but if is basically an open hole, any feeling for a firescreen? Don't know if the depth of your hearth would take one, or if suits your taste or ultimate style for the room, -- depends on what kind of light fixture you buy and what replaces the mirror. But they are not very expensive and even just a plain one might give a finishing touch to the space

I’d do the medium. We have a similar size round table and our light is 32” (similar style to yours) and it’s perfect, not too big.