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Comments (5)He decided that the temporary crown was not fitting perfectly and he filed it off some. Since I have been in pain, he wants me to wait until Nov. 29 to come back for the permanent setting, because he said this was a old deep filling and he wants to be sure it doesn't need a root canal. I thought all teeth had to have root canals before a crown was done? I sure hope they don't put a permanent crown on and then later find out I needed a root canal. The filing of the temp. crown has completely eliminated the sore jaw. He said if your bite is off, it can cause your jaw to be sore and he was right....See MoreDo you ever beat yourself up?
Comments (14)Yes, of course. We have all made mistakes and regretted them, and spent some time beating ourselves up and feeling awful about it. Thank heavens most of our mistakes don't result in horrible consequences, and it doesn't sound like yours did. Golddust gave you good advice in that there are mourning periods for everything. The amount of time we mourn loss, or feel angry with ourselves is really determined by us. So figure what is a reasonable time, get into it and do a great job, and then knock it off and go on with life. Prolonged beating ourselves up generally results in our making more errors. If we're to do better in the future, we are helped by having confidence in ourselves. The pushy guy should be pretty easy to handle. Behavior that is reinforced tends to increase. When he is saying things you like and behaving as you want, hang on his every word as if he's the most fascinating person you ever met. Lean forward and look in his eyes when he's talking. Laugh at his jokes, smile a lot, wave off anyone who tries to interrupt him, do considerate things for him, offer him a homemade cookie, offer to get him a coffee when you get yours, etc. This is the most important part. Behavior that is neither rewarded nor punished tends to extinguish. When he is saying things or behaving in ways you don't like, pick lint off your clothes, yawn, sneeze, blow your nose, look at your watch, drop things and pick up things off the floor, polish your shoes, file your nails, stare out the window, daydream, pick at your cuticles, interrupt him mid-sentence to go to the can, remember suddenly that you have to talk to someone down the hall or upstairs, say you need to make a phone call and you'll get back with him -- in short, withdraw all your attention from him immeciately. If it's on the phone, say you have to hang up and you'll phone him back later. Boom, he loses your attention any time he's a butthead. Be subtle about this, not obvious. Vary how you do it. Don't confront him. Don't insist on anything. Don't "have a talk with him." Just be nice when he's nice and be "drifty" or disappear when he's not nice. If he points out you're not listening, say "Huh? Oh. Sorry. What were you saying?" Then as he launches into his garbage, you get drifty again. I promise you that if you do this consistently, it will just be a matter of days before you'll notice he's treating you better and better and acting like a jerk far less often, and eventually maybe never. Do the same thing with everyone you know. Works like a charm. My mom used to nag me on the phone all the time about just garbage. I mean, no I wasn't going to cut my hair because she said I should when I'm in my 50's, ok? So I started doing this to her. Mostly I'd say I had a pot boiling over, or an appointment I had to rush off to, or someone at the door and could I call her back? And boom, I was gone. When she was being nice I treated her like a goddess. Well ya know what? It took a few phone calls spread over a few weeks, but she stopped nagging me and we started having much more fun on the phone together. Forever. I've seen a lot of people improve a lot of relationships this way -- with their employers, their kids, their parents, spouses, exes, friends and relatives. Let me know how it works for you, please....See Moreever hurt yourself in the kitchen?
Comments (37)Earthlydelights, your story was just terrifying. Thank God you & your son were OK. Moosemac, I love you! I have been very, very lucky and have never had any serious kitchen incidents but I did have a close call with the griddle on my new, gas stove, paired with me making french toast first thing in the AM while wearing my jammies & no bra. As I leaned forward to put the slices at the back of the (24" deep) griddle I realized that this could possibly end very, very badly. I vowed never to cook without first having coffee (and a bra). My first actual accident was due to the fact that every single knife in my mother's house was dull to the point that the handles would probably cut better than the blades themselves. So here I am married, with my nice new knives and I learned right away why you should never cut down towards your finger. Did you know that knives with actual sharp edges don't just bounce right off skin? The mandoline with the taste for blood...love it! Nina...See MoreDid you ever discover yourself in the pages of a book?
Comments (12)Well, I can see you are "pups"! Rueing your lost youth when you are forty?! Wait until your sixties! Then fears and worries are replaced by a sort of dreary grim reality. I admire those women ahead of me who are teaching me by their example how to age sucessfully and live their life fully to the last gasp. I chuckled yesterday in reading the obits ....one beautiful woman was remembered as "leaving this life full of the grace and dignity with which she had lived". Beautiful. Yet I couldn't imagine anyone saying that of me....more probably: She left this life kicking and screaming , trying to wring out the last drop from it! It is especially disturbing to feel that perhaps there are few dreams left to realize.....and worse, that those which have been realized have crumbed to dust through the use and abuse of days. There's an answer out there somewhere.....and I'm not going until I fully understand it!! LOL....See MoreLukki Irish
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