Help! Should I buy a home near a psychiatric hospital?
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Comments (9)Katie, From one mother to another I feel your pain. My son has a very high IQ...but not a drop of common sense in his bones. His father and I separated/divorced before his 2nd birthday and it was extremely hard. He lived with me and when he was 6 1/2 I remarried a wonderful man. He and I raised Eli and our lives were good until he was about 13/14 years old. Then we started to see a negative change in him. When we realized he needed to speak with a professional about the issues in his life (many surfacing later involving his feelings about the divorce), we received no emotional support from his father. His father never communicated with us about the day-to-day decisions that needed to be made, and there was always tension towards us from him. We felt like if we said black, he would say white. His father said there was nothing wrong, it was a stage he was going through, and basically shut us down. We pleeded with him, even enlisting the help of the school counselor and social worker and his father basically told us all to go to h--l. Now he's 21, has lived with his father and his father's girlfriend for the past 3 years and we have no contact with him. He hates both me and my husband and refuses to speak to us. It is so hard to get through every day and every day I think about him. People tell us that things will change, that he'll "come around", but at this point I don't know. I try to keep in contact with him through his aunts, since we have a good relationship with them. We send cards and letters, and have made efforts to contact him. All to no avail. I have also tried to contact him at his father's shop, but I always reach my ex-husband, who lets me know in no uncertain terms that I am not welcome to call. They have their home number unlisted and I don't even know where they actually live. My point is this...it's hard, but life needs to be lived. Your family needs you and you need to be healthy, because this is your life, too. I know that doesn't make it any easier, but it gives you a purpose. Without that, it seems so hopeless. You said that he hit you on the head when you visited him...I equate not having contact with Eli as being hit over the head in a metaphorical way. Stay strong, stay healthy, and realize that there are some things you have absolutely no control over. I understand that it doesn't make the situation easier, but it does make sense. And sense is something viable and positive. You said that "parenthood has not turned out how I thought it would"...I understand so deeply. I will say a prayer for you and all the parents out there who need one. I thank you for sharing your pain, beacuse sometimes it's not easy. And thank your for allowing me to do the same. Peace....See MoreBuying home near utility pole or service pole
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