Ladies, would you have a mammogram during this pandemic?
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Comments (13)You may not be in trouble. IKEA kitchen base cabinets do not sit on the floor. They sit on legs which raise them up. Therefore the pipe may fit underneath the cabinet. Your stove may have a cutout at the bottom rear for an electrical outlet and cord. For example, if you look at the installation instructions for the GE PHB920SJSS (picked at random) you will see that there is a 4" deep, 6-1/2" high cutout at the back of the range. This may be large enough space for the pipes at the back of the stove....See MoreCooking During the Isolation Pandemic
Comments (21)I drove to meet a friend at his boat slip this morning, to get a guitar that he is giving to DS. An Ovation Applause, nice step up from the cheapo guitar that DS has been learning on. During the drive home, I stopped to get breakfast from McDonald’s drive through. Not something I usually do, but was hungry and wanted to do something that felt “normal”. Then I got to worry about if the food was safe, how it is prepared, if it was heated enough to kill any virus. I concluded that it was safe enough, but having to do the calculation sort of put me off trying that again. I’m trying to support some local restaurants, especially Chinese ones, by ordering takeout sometimes. I bring the containers home and microwave them, so everything is heated to well over 140F (virus dies quickly at/above that temp). I’m not ordering burgers, sandwiches or anything that has a non-heated component - I’ll make that stuff at home. I was amusing myself with some calculations. Oregon has about 600 reported cases, suppose actual number is 6,000, and suppose they are all in Portland, that’s about 1% of city population. Assuming random distribution, for every person you encounter there is a 99% chance they are not ill. If you encounter 100 people a day, there is a 99% ^ 100 = 37% chance you have not encountered an ill person. Thus an 63% chance you do encounter an ill person. If there is a 1% chance you actually get exposed to virus each time you encounter an ill person, that’s 63% x 1% = 0.63% chance to be exposed to virus each day. Over a month, that’s ( 1 - 0.63% ) ^ 30 = 18% chance of being exposed to virus. Oof. People working in grocery stores etc should have protection. In one local grocery chain here, they are taking very, very good precautions. Only allow 20 people in at a time, you’re directed to avoid an aisle if someone else is in it, you must buy anything you touch, cashiers are behind acrylic shields, conveyor belts and PIN pads sanitized between customers, special hours reserved for elderly/vulnerable, etc. The big national chains are taking few precautions....See MoreCar Parades during the pandemic
Comments (41)I guess I was raised in a different world from most so although I feel sorry for all the disappointing things that everyone is experiencing, most of it is way down the ladder in importance to me. All the touchy, mushy stuff that people are doing such as the parades, etc. are trivial and useless activities to me but I don't begrudge people from participating in them if it helps them or others cope better. It doesn't take any energy or sacrifice to "care". I have a lot more respect for people who are actually doing something that requires sacrifices of their time or resources such as helping in a food bank or donating to a charity that is helping really needy people in their community. Personally, this really hasn't affected us because we aren't involved socially that much. We don't belong to any social or religious groups and since we live in a rural area we don't even see neighbors very much. So this hasn't affected us as much as more gregarious people. My biggest personal sadness about this is that it looks like our plans for something really special for our golden anniversary coming later this year aren't going to happen. But I'm not losing sleep over it. I'll be grateful that both of us are still alive after all this. We were so poor when we got married that we couldn't afford (and most definitely not our parents) a wedding and most of our lives have been spent working and making do without much traveling or fancy celebrations so this we can survive just as well. It's a disappointment but we will get over it. So, I guess I can see that parades and all these mushy FB videos, etc. might be helping young children and even teens and adults with childish tendencies get through the day - I think that beyond that there is more need of real help and sacrifice right now - IMO....See MoreBrainstorming ideas for 90th birthday during pandemic
Comments (25)Yes, those were the ones I thought would come. But they don't live in his neighborhood of condos. Actually, one of his oldest and very good friends lives there and they take a walk every day. I was there yesterday and the weather was gorgeous, sunny, mid 70s, and he saw them taking their walk just like always and told me but he refused to go out and say hello. I've known these folks since I was in diapers and even my grandparents were friends of their family. He went to school with them and they socialized a ton and best friends of my late mother. But he refuses their company. It's the depression and anxiety talking. Trying not to make it worse by allowing my Dad to isolate himself. He refuses medications, have been on that for over a decade. Absolute refusal for no logical reason. He's not senile but has cognitive decline as far as how well he functions. But it's not memory or task issues, just personality. My uncle just celebrated his 95th, he's far from his home now in assisted living due to a stroke and just sold his house and lifelong summer cottage. And yet, he managed to at least try and enjoy the company of those around him, including his family and folks at the assisted living facility. Also got letters and calls from many old friends. My Dad has a hard time with even these kinds of things. And yet, he'll risk covid and go out to the community dinner at the local church once a week to see and be seen, even complaining about the food . . . sigh! Friends call him and he complains about the conversations . . . he's getting pretty hard to converse with, a family friend told me that yesterday. The friend is battling cancer and hearing my Dad repeat the same gripes over and over is trying for him considering how he sees folks every day when he goes for chemo who would rejoice at my Dad's life, even limited by some infirmity. Dad obsesses over not being superman anymore . . . not celebrating 90 years of a quite remarkable life full of good things and accomplishments. He only focuses on losses. Dad says he feels like he is waiting for the bus of death to arrive. I say we all are, so let's try and make the best of the wait . . ....See More- 6 years ago
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