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Comments (24)Thank you for the input from everyone. It's quite obvious that many of you have had similar issues and can relate from both sides. I did feel a little bad at the time (hence the reason I posted) so it's nice to know that many of you can relate in one way or another. As a clarification, this is not a "rule" for the dinner table, it was a one time instance. I have made several changes to dinner as well since we began our arrangement of living together including smaller portions (her dad used to give her larger portions so now I control it since I seem to have a better idea of what she can finish and I know she will eat all of her favorite thing and get full if she's allowed to) and earlier dinner time so that it's not a huge rush. FSD takes a shower after dinner and also calls BM which generally takes about an hour between the two. There is no rule that she has to clean her plate (I think that leads to poor eating attitudes down the road), but she can't ask for dessert unless she ate all of her meal. Also, she is no longer allowed to get her own snacks because she was sometimes eating too close to dinner and then wouldn't be hungry. I think the main problem (which I've observed a number of times) is that Dad feels guilty that she doesn't have any siblings to play with. His behavior often mimics that of a sibling rather than a parent. It pisses me off when I am expected to be the "parent" and scold both of them for bad behavior. He likes to tell her how she "got him in trouble" when I tell him to stop distracting her from her food. It's like a whole "us against her" game that not only leaves me feeling left out but is so completely inappropriate for a parent. I assume this is something that stems back farther in their relationship. As for the time that he spends with his daughter - he has 50/50 custody so we have her every other week and he talks to her on the phone every night when she is at BMs. I talk to him regularly (when she is not around) about the things I notice that bother me for the sake of her development or my sanity. Oh, and he asked her to apologize to me for not listening which I politely told him the next day was totally unnecessary since he was the one that I expected an apology from (after all, she was just following him), but I suppose that does mean he brought it to her attention that she should listen to me. pinkhill: Just because a child lives in my house half time was not in my body for 9 months prior to their birth does not make me a "guest" in my own home. I understand what you are saying regarding Dad making the parenting decisions, but to imply that I am a selfish control freak for asking my FSD one night to be quiet and eat her food (BTW, Dad generally asks her this every night and I think had asked her several times already during that meal) seems a bit harsh. If only every future step parent took your advice and allowed themselves to be completely steam rolled by their partner and their partner's children there would be a 0% chance of step parenting survival. Maybe that's what you're hoping for though......See MoreMy favorite TV snack
Comments (6)Ex enjoyed stirring garlic in melted butter before adding to popcorn. I just like with salt and butter Here's some seasoning tips: Grated Parmesan Cheese with rosemary Herb Shake: Oregano, Basil, Parsley Salt & Vinegar: Spritz popcorn lightly with vinegar, sprinkle salt to taste NOW I wqould love this Lemon Pepper Tabasco Sauce (mixed into melted butter then poured over popcorn) Creole Seasoning Lime Juice Spritz & Lemon Pepper Dill Weed & Celery Salt Garlic sauteed in butter then poured over popcorn Taco seasoning mix...See MoreInitial Layout - critiques welcome
Comments (11)Thanks Benjesbride, there is already a pocket door there that we may keep in place, but just widen slightly. The reason is that it can be pulled mostly shut when laundry is running but my two small dogs access that area. A full door instead, with swing will come just short an inch or so of the dryer door. Right now the light switch for the laundry is on that short piece of wall between the pocket and the pantry and the one for the kitchen is on the LR side of the pantry, as well as on the supporting wall of the U where the cooktop is (which will be demolished). We are hoping the water line for the fridge can be brought through the wall after the pocket ends, since obviously nothing can be in the pocket. There should be enough room. Looking at your drawing, the whole pantry could be removed and that area reworked for traffic, and the pantry storage be placed elsewhere. But it doesn't separate the laundry enough from the living spaces. I will have to play with that, there is a bunch of electrical and another support post in that wall on the LR side. I think the support post next to the kitchen is about where you drew it, 5 feet in. So your idea of cabinetry there and widening it out is a good option. The regular size fridge made sense, but I think we both want a more shallow unit after many years of digging stuff out of the depths of our current and past models. But perhaps we could still use a 30" depth counter on that side and put the fridge back where it currently stands. Thanks for your time, it is helping me to have people provide more options and for me talk my way through what would work and what won't!!...See MoreVelvet chair maintenance suggestions
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