I've done a little on-line research... Google on: door lock sets 3 5/8" center-to-center There are two "standard" center-to-center vertical spacings between lock "holes" 5 1/2" and 3 5/8". Likely your door's spacing is 3 5/8" NOT 3 1/2". Take a look at the below arrangement link and you'll see both arrangements. Worse comes to worse, as suggested earlier, go to a local locksmith or call a supplier or two. You may want to think out of the box and include possibly replacing with a two piece lock - the deadbolt and a separate handle/key lock. (May require patching holes and re-finishing door. Ugh!) Sorry I can't give you a specific look or brand, but I've stuck with Kwikset which used to be considered a "builder's grade" product... don't know about current quality. Best of luck. Here is a link that might be useful: Examples Of Configurations This post was edited by saltidawg on Wed, May 28, 14 at 15:01

Thank you - I think I found something from Fusion hardware that will work. The holes for the handleset are to be drilled 7.5 inches apart, but the bottom through bolt is adjustable so I should be able to match the bottom hole of the handle. I had also found Baldwin's Madison handleset which was smaller as well, but without the adjustable bottom through bolt.

I ended up using the nail on version of the perma foam weatherstripping that you linked above after trying several different things. Worked well and was easy. https://www.amazon.com/AM-Conservation-Group-KC600W-84-Weatherstrip/dp/B008BR9TBU/ref=pd_sbs_60_t_1/132-1711087-1630542?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B008BR9TBU&pd_rd_r=67bdf90b-3321-43b6-a523-e467fd1b66f1&pd_rd_w=YJcBL&pd_rd_wg=sokVL&pf_rd_p=5cfcfe89-300f-47d2-b1ad-a4e27203a02a&pf_rd_r=1JAZMHV3RJ26XZ2PC06N&psc=1&refRID=1JAZMHV3RJ26XZ2PC06N also https://www.swisco.com/Foam-Seal-Nail-Flange/pd/Prime-Door-Weather-Stripping/58-169 That was 2-3 years ago; the one from Amazon is the only one that I could find at that time.

We realized today that we have one decorative window in our house. Should we try to match the effect in the door glass, or does it not matter? For reference this window is on the stair landing between the first and second floors. The stairs start just after the foyer near the front door. The closest thing I could find was the Vapor glass. https://www.zabitat.com/u/odl-perspectives-low-e-door-glass---textured-vapor---24-x-66-evolve-frame-kit-686le-vpr We could also try to match the diamond cluster pattern. https://www.zabitat.com/u/western-reflections-door-glass-beaufort-24-x-66-frame-kit-686bft Any suggestions on which direction to go? 1. Match texture; 2. Match pattern; 3. doesn't matter do a simple rainglass.