Working at home? Online learning? Where’s this happening in your house
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Comments (4)For some reason, I was just browsing your documentations. I seen that there were some current posts from Garden Web and figured you made a final post here closing the book on your nightmare. Here is my guestbook entry from Nov 05: Lisa, Nice to see you forging ahead with good details. I'm sure you could go on the road with all of your field experience. What has been amazing fom me throughout this whole process has been your calmness regarding this whole mess. You are pretty amazing. I'm sure many others would've folded under the duress you've been put through. Another thing that amazes me is how well you grasped the whole concept of what was wrong and what the proper fixes should be. When bombarded with literally hundreds of differing opinions, you have managed to stay on task and make all the good decisions. I'm smiling for you and wish you and your family a happy ending to this problem.. Unfortunatley, the last sentence didnt come true and for that I am truly sorry....See MoreStay at home mom - OR - working mom - what is your choice??
Comments (26)Are you a stay-at-home mom? Yes If so, a) what age was your child(ren) when you began to stay home with them? since birth. I graduated nsg school 6 days before she was born but I've never put it to use YET why do you chose to stay home with your children? I find being at home keeps me very busy & fulfilled. I've never understood SAHM who claim they are bored. I have 1 daughter, 3 dogs, a home & my husband's business I do much of the work for plus I made sure to start involving myself & my daughter in school & plenty of activities. Gosh if I never have to work I would be so happy BUT chances are that when the last of my kids is in fulltme school I'll at last work part-time. are you financially secure enough to be home and not work? Like everyone else we could always use the extra $. We don't have a retirement a/c set up, we have to buy our own very expensive health ins., we havn't been on a great vacation in several yrs, we no longer go to fancy dinners, our home could use allot more remodeling, our cars are old but in good condition & paid for & I am always comparison shopping BUT we have no debt despite every month praising when we've paid the last bills. Our daughter is in private school & already takes 4 sets of lessons at age 3 & when we have our day trips or do happen to go out we truly go all out & enjoy, plus since I have no family help at all I have been lucky enough to be able to pay for a mothers helper or sitter for those times I need to catch up on the home, errands or the business paperwork or go to my many medical appts (I was diagnosed with MS a yr ago). All in all I'm happy, but my husband is self employed & he'd like to make a switch right now & he can't b/c we don't have enough $ in the bank nor another income. I had a stay at home Mom when I grew up & feel there is nothing better. I think that while kids are young I prefer being aorund for safety & to be involved in all the firsts, then they start activities & who else is going to chaperone them everywhere & then later on I want to be around so they have support & hopefully I can prevent them from making some bad choices that they might make had they not had any parent at home during the day after school. what are the ages and gender of your kids? daughter age 3 & working on #2 Michie...See MoreLearning to make a beautiful home
Comments (14)You are ahead of the game already, because you are asking the right first questions. The Meghan book is a wonderful idea, and everyone here has given you very good advice, too. I have three pieces of advice for you to take or leave, if you want to: 1. Buy yourself a big three-ring binder (2" is good) , one or two sets of tabbed dividers you can write on and a package of plastic sleeves to go in it, and a three-hole punch, if you don't already have one. Set up the sections that make sense to you. (I have always done it room by room, and also included sections for appliances, addresses and contact information for suppliers and recommended contractors, pure inspiration - things like that.) Then start collecting photos, thoughts, magazine pages, things you print from the web, fabric samples, paint chips, practical tips - anything that inspires you or that you want to record. 2. Designate one of your bedrooms (or another place you can close the door on) as your staging/junk room, and let it be where you stash things you are considering, bolts of fabric, or things you might want to get rid of...that kind of thing. If you can keep the decisions you aren't ready to make, and the general messiness of starting out, out of your mainstream, you're less likely to feel overwhelmed or pushed. 3. Once you have established your underlying ideas and your plan, try not to stray from them. A peaceful home is visually calm, and calm spaces are disciplined. What you leave out is as important as what you put in. And check back in here as you go. As lucky gal says, this is a forum full of nice, generous people...and we do love to say what we think!...See MoreDoes your spouse work from home (interesting detail from Sue B's post)
Comments (10)We've worked for ourselves for over 40 years. DH works from home and his truck (it stays a mess!) At one time we owned two large office buildings, so we had an office there to give him a place to go during the day. I stopped going when we moved out (took almost an hour to get there, another back). So I've been totally working from home all this time (with the exception of going into the office for a few years). He does all the legwork (checking on our commercial real estate properties, leasing, dealings with tenants, problems) and I do all the paperwork (leases, accounting, increases, etc). I've worked all morning (end of month, first of month) at the kitchen table, in my pajamas. Dogs at my feet. Cats on my paperwork. Can't beat that, especially since it's raining today. DH leaves daily, although he doesn't need to. He likes to work. He's gone by 4am. Walks, swims, showers. Checks on properties Usually goes to grocery store on way home, and is back here by 10. Sometimes earlier, sometimes later. We are slowly retiring, and should be fully retired by 2020. DH would like to travel more. Me? I'd rather stay at home. The only problem is as soon as he comes in the door, the TV is turned on. I like quiet. Especially when I first wake up... okay, all morning! He can't hear as well, so it's too loud for me. I think he gets bored sometimes, so we are trying to decided between pool or no pool, so he can entertain himself a few times a day. Working from home has always allowed us to make our own schedules. Taking time off for traveling is easy. When our parents were all living, it was extremely helpful. I think it is seen by some (one friend in particular) as being cushy, not much to do, we don't work our a$$es off. Maybe not as many hours as she and her DH (both residential RE agents) do, but we are always in working mode. It never fails on the way out of town or while traveling, we get phone calls. All times of the day. Not to mention, not being able to turn off our minds sometimes....See Morelocaleater
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