The gift from gdinie that just keeps giving
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so what happens if you just keep removing the pups from aloes?
Comments (7)Josh I agree, I have an Aloe Ibitiensis and have been removing offsets from her for a long time, she is rare. She is not growing any taller but still puts out offsets. She is been in the same pot since 1990. I do fertilize her and treat her well. A long story goes with this plant. I think that help keep her alive, she is not drained of energy. I have four healthy babies that I will be removing when I think of it again. Some Aloe continue to grow, other do not get taller and remain on the soil line. It will depend on the species. Norma...See MoreGift Giving Idea for Grandparents
Comments (4)Hi Melissa M, " ... a gift that I will benefit from and appreciate till the day I die". Who knows - maybe even beyond. Do you figure that the ones who couldn't play down here will automatically just know how to do it in the Great Beyond? How can there be satisfaction without effort expended? Humans are built to seek and accept challenges - and make something of them. Will that not be part of our nature after this life, do you think? Good wishes for a great spring. joyful guy/Ed...See MoreDo you help/encourage your child with gift giving for mom/dad?
Comments (8)Giving a gift is something you do because you WANT to, and I think it says a lot that your DD feels comfortable asking you to take her shopping to get her stepsister and dad a gift. I also understand why you reminded her to get SM something, it teaches her to think of others feelings, etc. though I'm not sure I would push much if she said she didn't want to get certain people gifts if she had an acceptable reason. As for your family, when they family say something like that, I'd tell them that I understand what they mean but if you stoop to dad's level and refuse to take your DD shopping, the only person that will be hurt by it is your DD. Besides, you are teaching her to be a better person. I wouldn't worry so much about showing her whether you are accepting of the situation, etc. You are showing her that you care about HER feelings, despite your own. I used to take my exBF's kids shopping for their mother on her birthday, mother's day & Christmas. I would also save the things they made in school for "mom" and put them in a box so when she rolled into town once a year, she had all the stuff they made her over the year, along with school pictures & presents. I didn't like nor dislike her. She wasn't around to know much about her except she chose drugs & her boyfriend over sticking around to raise her kids, but the kids wanted to give mom that stuff & it meant something to them so that is what I did for them. Now with SD, it's a totally different scenario. In the early years, I took her shopping for her mom. I also got BF's kids and SD's sister things too for Christmas. I made BM a scrapbook with pictures from all of SD's Christmases. It was my attempt to be friendly with BM. As things progressively got worse with BM & SD over the years, I stopped shopping for BM but still bought BF's kids things. I stopped shopping for SD's sister after she wrote nasty things about me on a social network. and this year, I have decided to give SD one gift for me & let DH do the rest of the shopping for SD. AS for taking SD shopping for her mom or anyone else, DH has always said no but didn't care if I did it. Of course, I agree that if the child earns money, they can spend it how they choose. I offered SD a job over the summer & she said she wanted to but never did it. Since now she isn't talking to me, she can't exactly discuss payment for chores with me and DH is not interested in paying her to do anything... he can't even get her to do her basic chores. Amber is right, you are teaching her something so valuable and hopefully your family will come to see it. On the other hand, if your DD asks dad to take her shopping for you but he refuses, then he will have to deal with the consequences... and your daughter will know who is cooperative and who is not....See MoreGift Giving Delima
Comments (34)One year I finally got smart. I bought all my in-laws clothing items at an expensive (to me)department store and included the receipts for each purchase when I wrapped the gifts. I got tired of being handed back gifts on Christmas with all sorts of excuses; "I can't wear wool. It scratches"."This isn't my size." "This color doesn't go with the things I already own." (Since when doesn't a woman own black pants or a skirt? The top was very pretty pale lavender.) Some people just can't be pleased. Have your DH shop for anyone on his side of the family....See Morerouge21_gw (CDN Z5b/6a)
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