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A few weeks ago I chopped my jade ruthlessly and
Comments (3)Hi Denise, I live in zone 7a southeast Missouri. My jade usually goes on the porch around Halloween and comes in around Thanksgiving. I was reluctant to cut back so late but jade likes the cold anyway so I did it! I am a firm believer in cutting back and pruning jade. Its so much prettier if you do. In spring I also like to attack crown of thorns. I dont just let them do as they please. Im pretty brave usually. If convinced it will benefit in the long run I'll go for it!...See MoreI went shopping for Drought Tolerant Plants...
Comments (19)* Carex hachijoensis, 'Evergold' (Evergold Japanese Sedge) Part sun - Morning light Only - cream and green grasslike leaves - mounding, clumping perennial - interesting swirling habit - great edging or groundcover - water usage -Semi-moist - Average size 16"-16" - Cold Hardiness (zone 5): -10 to -20 degrees F * Pennisetum setaceum, 'Rubrum' (Purple Fountain Grass) - Water - low, once established - Average size - 4-5 'X 4-5' - Cold Hardiness - (zone 9): 30 to 20 degrees F - requires excellent drainage * Juniperus horizontalis, 'Wiltonii' (Blue Rug Juniper) - 6 hours of full sun - water wise / deer resistant - Water - Low, once established - Average size - 1" X 6" (low and wide) - Cold hardiness: -20 to -30 degrees F - Note: deer resistant but not deer proof, depending upon scarcity of food. * Spirea X bumalda, 'Anthony Waterer' - (Flowering) - Full sun (6 hrs) - Compact deciduous shrub - New leaves are purplish red - bright red flowers - good filler or bank cover - Water - semi-moist - bloom time - Summer - Average size - 4' X 6' - Cold Hardiness: -30 to - 40 degrees F Not: Likes Sandy Soils * Spirea X bumulda, 'Goldmound' (Goldmound Spirea) - Full sun 6 hrs - low-growing, deciduous shrub - Pink blooms in late spring - Lovely golden, rounded foliage - Good for accent and shrub borders - Water: semi-moist - Average size: 3' X 4' - Cold hardiness: -30 to -40 degrees F * Chamaecyparis pisifera 'Sungold' (Sungold Threadleaf Falsecypress) - Water : Semi-moist - Average size: 3-5' to 4' - Cold hardiness: -20 to -30 degrees F Note: Mulch with 3-4 inches of bark chips to help keep roots cool in hot summer weather. So, there you have it! I have several 'fancy" spireas and all of them said "semi-moist" soil. All have gotten through every summer we've had so far, including this one. The key is mulching them thickly and watering them deeply. I set the hose to run slowly under them and allow the water to soak down deeply. Between these deep waterings, I water to keep the top mulch soil damp and help cool the topsoil. I consider these plants to be "Drought Tolerant" because even though they might need to be watered, they still grow well and look good through drought and high temps when many plants called "drought tolerant" burn up and look awful. It's a matter of perspective, I suppose. Shrubs do best here for me on the hilly prairies where summers and winters are both severe with lots of strong wind. (We have every- day winds like some of you experienced recently in the hurricane! When the wind gets up around 50-60 MPH you might hear someone say, "It's a bit windy today, ain't it." That's why we put our potato chips inside our sandwiches - so they don't blow away! (Hee hee hee) Springs and Falls are wonderful seasons here - moist and cool and that is when my gardens look their best. Even though Oklahoma is a relatively small state, there are 10 distinctly different Geological regions that cross the state diagonally from the northwest to the southeast. Altitudes range from nearly 4,000 ft above sea level in the highest region to 0 ft or sea level at our lowest point. Those 10 regions are so different. From desert lands and salt flats to woodland mountains and piney-wood forests; From prairie lands on flat lands or rolling hills to the hilly, rocky country with mixed wood forests. All distinctly different. Only two other states have that many geological regions: Texas and California. So, what it says on the tags vs what I KNOW will grow well here in my area of Oklahoma are not necessarily the same thing. Hope this clarifies things for all of you about my plant selections. Sorry again if it mislead any of you. ~Annie...See Morei too lost someone 3 weeks ago too
Comments (3)Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss, you loved your Al so much and you had done so much to make his life bearable with all his health problems, you are a wonderful person and a perfect wife to Al, he must have loved you so much too. I think it is absolutely disgusting that people would say that you are young enough to get another man, that is such a cruel thing to say to someone who just lost the love of their life. Yes, we are happy that our loved one isn't suffering any more but we still wish that they hadn't had to die for them to lose their pain. I hold onto the faith that I will see my darling husband in Heaven when I get there. I am glad that you have your children, they are a great source of comfort but the pain of the loss is excrutiating.There are a lot of things you have to take care of after a death and it can take months to get it all done but take your time. The best piece of advice I got from everyone was don't rush into anything, take you time and make sure the decision is right for you before you go ahead. My husband died three months ago and I still haven't taken his shirts out of the closet, I will soon, but when the time is right for me. The memorial by his apple tree sounds like the perfect thing and he will be smiling and saying "this is beautiful Debbie". God Bless you and your family, I wish you well. Mav. PS>If you can, find a bereavement group in you area, maybe the church or the hospital, I did and it has been a great source of comfort....See MoreI took in a female 12 week old tuxedo kitten less than a week ago.
Comments (20)Cathy, A week is not very long - she's still adjusting, and like cats who've come from other high-stress situations like some shelters it just takes time for them to relax andfor their true nature to come out. Dont worry about in breeding or whatever - it just sounds like typical kitten behavior to me. Young animals simply dont understand about people trying to sleep and they dont know that they're hurting someone, esp if they were taken away early and didnt learn from sibs/mom how to inhibit their aggression in play situations. ... or in this situation which was probably quite chaotic and stressful. I dont care for spray bottles - like you're going to have one at your finger tips at all times? Suppose you could get a holster for it, but as Cooper wrote a simple yell of OW accompoanied by shrugging her off will suffice. I had a cat who for whatever reason liked to take a flying leap and climb me like I was a tree. This was bad enough in winter, with layers of clothing on, but in summer - claws digging into bare skin - ouch! A couple of loud yells took care of it. If you arent already doing so, Id still be keeping them separate and then switching their spaces periodically so they can start getting used to each other's presence and scent but without having to confront each other all the time. Putting up a screen door temporarily is a good idea too. Let your old guy set the pace for how quickly the process takes. As much as possible, keep up your routines with him and he should have the esteemed positions like sleeping with you at night or whatever your routines were before the kitten came....See Moreschoolhouse_gwagain
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