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Comments (30)Andie, It's not too bad tonight, I can actually see sky and yellow sun - the smoke is not nearly as heavy. We are experiencing a great relief because the Fire Fighter's staging area is right here in our town, about 2 miles from my property. On the large field across the highway there is a tent-city, porta-potties, trailers from food-providers. I am sure they would not set up this big a facility if there was danger. Three miles or so north of here there is the Kate Wolf Memorial Concert, about 2,000 or so attending. All that makes us fell pretty secure. I am coughing and sneezing and my eyes water, I think the days of smoke are really hitting home now. My animals all are a bit under the weather, smoke gets to them, also. My Taffy and Joann's RocCat - both very independent - have not checked in today, usually nothing noteworthy, but because of the fires, there are more coyotes heard and I'm sure there are many hungry and upset beasts around, driven here by the fires, so that's a concern, even though those boys are pretty wise and careful. Taffy just may not have noticed yet that the house guests have gone; he tends to be invisible if there are strange cars around. All in all, right now it is all much more positive, and the T-storms have not materialized. Maybe the worst is over and pretty soon we can breathe again (with relief, that is)...See MoreMaybe I am not getting this watering thing?
Comments (8)Hi, Jessica. It IS possible to over-water when using the gritty mix, especially if the ingredients aren't screened or the grower decided to throw in a little extra peat/compost ....... fine particulates, for some 'extra water retention'. If most of your roots are in the upper few inches of soil, you should be watering more often than weekly. If you're worried about over-watering, just stick a wick in a drain hole temporarily and allow it to dangle below the pot after watering. That should virtually eliminate any chance of over-watering. Go ahead and fertilize. I often wait 2 weeks after repotting, but that isn't because the roots won't tolerate fertilizer immediately after transplanting. Roots extend faster after repotting if nutrients are slightly deficient. You can fertilize safely with a full recommended dose now, and decide what dosage/interval you'd like to follow. For the summer, weekly at half strength is good - or every other week at full strength. Best luck! Mike came looking for me because he knew you were distressed. He's watching out for you! ;-) Best luck - good growing! Al...See MoreI think I am getting the hang of this CL thing :) ;)
Comments (14)oceanna - Great idea! I have only sold one thing on CL. Took two postings, and about two weeks. Perhaps I should give it another try. The question is what to sell! LOL oceanna and flyleft - No, I do not drive a truck, it's a Toyota Sequoia SUV. It's come in quite handy, even though it cost an arm and a leg to fill it up. I'd like to downsize to something more economical, but I would have to give up that "truck like" space. Just to set everyone straight, the hutch is not old. It is a two piece 90's table and hutch set. The seller tagged it "Beautiful walnut and green, two piece country hutch - $75 Excellent condition." Of course the wood is a stained walnut colored wood, not the real thing. However, it's a sturdy piece. My daughter will eventually paint it. I actually have pieces of the like in my upstairs family room (a coffee table and sofa table.) I think I paid around $150 per piece when we bought it several years ago. The set is also larger than it looks in the owner photo. I will try to set it up and take a garage photo. Believe me. we have also been getting the college kids and the "Rodeo drive" listings. It's rare when something in between comes along. I am getting really tired of seeing the Office Depot, pressed-wood desk, used sofa's and bistro sets being listed from college students. It's one thing if they had bargain prices, but they are asking what they probably bought the things for at last years garage sales!...See MoreMaybe I'm imagining Things....
Comments (14)JNM - that is exactly what I was thinking. If you all remember my past posts, she is easily mind-controlled by BM. I think that SO COULD HAVE taken her from the BBQ, but I think that she would've not wanted to make BM mad by leaving while family was around. SO and I had a big arguement last night. After our arguement, I thought about how happy and relaxed he looked when he got home the other night, even after driving 10 hours. I thought about how stressed-out he looks when she comes here. I realized then that I am the one making him unhappy. I thought this whole time that he wanted more, but now I know that he is just fine with BM controlling everything and interferring. He's happier that way and things run smoother that way. I've been trying to help him fix something that he doesn't think is broken. I haven't really done more than encourage him to get some papers and give him information that you all have shared. But I guess by doing even that much, I've been causing him to be stressed. So.....I'm stepping away. As much as I don't want to and it hurts like hell. I'm not asking him about her, not making plans with her, not trying to make him feel better when things go wrong, not texting or e-mailing her or trying anymore. Because it seems like the more I try to stay connected, the more problems I cause for SO. And I most definitely don't want that. That's why I was glad that it worked out to where he'd have to go see her by himself. BM treats him differently when I'm not around. He's easier for her to control that way and it all runs smoother if she has the control. If he wants me to know something about his daughter, he'll tell me. I told him all of this last night. He says it's not me that's the problem, but really I don't see any other reason as to why he came back from this trip so happy and he's always so upset when she's been here. The main difference is the absence of me. I never wanted to be that girl like my X's GF is. You know.....the one that puts the thoughts in their head that they're being dealt a great injustice at the hands of the XW and they need to stop it? I realized last night that what I consider unbearable may not be unbearable for him....See More- 6 years ago
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