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Comments (16)There is a difference between forgiveness and acceptance. Like many people, when it comes to personal loss, I often cannot make that last step from acceptance into forgiveness. Many years ago, my baby daughter died from pneumonia, early in the morning of the day that we had expected to bring her home from the hospital because she had "almost recovered". I can accept that illness can quickly and unexpectedly kill a baby. I have not been able to forgive the nurse who decided not to call us with the sad news, "because you were coming in, anyway." I can accept the death of my best friend; I cannot forgive the young man driving the vehicle that lost control and smashed her car. Officially, he wasn't DWI; he had consumed only 3 beers before driving. I'm having trouble with accepting the "official" stance on impairment due to alcohol. I can accept reality, but I cannot forgive those who deliberately choose to harm others. My heart cries for those who have lost a loved one; I can only admire those who have the courage to forgive the unforgiveable....See MorePinus yunnanensis
Comments (4)Hi Dax, No idea what the problem is, but you'll never keep it alive in zone 5 anyway! It is at best zone 8, realistically zone 9. Think of it like Pinus elliottii in terms of climate/ecology. Resin...See MoreFigs are failing
Comments (5)Thanks for thoughts, Herman and James - I'm inclined to think it's not *specifically* the pine bark though the ones with higher pine bark seem more prone to it. The reason I say that is that one of Paradise Nursery's mystery figs (which I didn't re-pot this year) is showing signs of stress out of nowhere, so that means it's not in the same kind of soil mix as the other ones. When I thought about it as carefully as I could, it seemed that the ones that had this, were those which had been under some drought stress within the past week to ten days (in other words, they'd undergone some drying out) and then been rehydrated, but what I can't remember is if I then gave any of these any feeding with a fertilizer solution too quickly after rehydrating, maybe it's a "burn" or maybe it's just heat stress to where they got too dry and some of the leaves didn't bounce back. But that doesn't even seem right to me, either, because of the amount of rain of late (and the one fig isn't buried, so it has good drainage, plus it's in part-shade after the very hottest part of the afternoon). The main thing I want to do is help these figs hold onto what leaves are left and then do what's best by them, by changing soil mix, adding something, moving them to different location, whatever. I'll go to Walmart and look for some pH tester, per Herman's idea - what's the easiest and cheapest method for short-term testing, and does anyone recommend any particular kind of pH meter for longer-term use? (I should really have one anyway, since I have all the potted blueberries and a few potted citrus plants, which are finicky on the "taste" of their soil.) Appreciate you all answering, on and off forum (got some encouragement and ideas emailed to me, too). Sherry...See Morecannot understand
Comments (3)Apparently you and your wife have put up with this behavior for years. I assume it is HS graduation? If so, just ignore them and invite your friends etc. How do the rest of the family treat you and them? Usually grad parties (here) are come and go and open to all. Are they your parents or your wife's? If yours, you should told them years ago, not after 18 years, same goes for the wife. Your kids know the story, they are not stupid. Just ignore them and talk it over with your family and tell them why. Be up front and honest. Yes I did with DH's family. Now we have moved 2000 miles away, and probably will never see them again. My kids understand why and they agree. So sad to loose cousins like this. Their loss....See More- 6 years ago
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