I like shirlpp’s idea to trim out the cabinets. You could also paint that wall the dark grey color of your bed and it would camouflage the cabinets Then bring the focus back to the bed with a beautiful rug, bedside table lamps and bedding and your room will look great. Love the flooring,

I agree, cool color tones in here with all the warm wood. And some softness and curves. An upholstered headboard is soft. I think mixing woods is no problem if they have something in common as yours do (same era), it's mixing whites, so yes just the one distressed white nightstand. Instead of another nightstand get something light, unexpected and modern like a metal tray or pedestal table. Black will bring out the hardware in the other piece. A black picture frame with art in soothing colors. Paint will go a long way in a makeover. Go for a soft soothing blue/green color, Benjamin Moore "Healing Aloe". A touch of black in a picture frame and with art with a touch of that blue/gray. https://www.greatbigcanvas.com/view/olive-on-the-horizon-ii,2679429/?ref=also-in-similar-image This one might be too short but like this or the tray one. These rooms are Healing Aloe. See how the wood tones work with it in differing light settings.

Pick your bedding first, but I love the current color.

Joanne - I had to laugh at reading your explanation of the function of the small stool & trunk at the end of your bed. Of course those items must stay put! We all arrange our homes for our family members convenience & safety - including our 4 legged family members. I wondered if the lamps would be too tall for night tables with the sloped ceilings. I also realized they are black patterned not blue. They’re so pretty. I peeked at your prior posts & saw the close up of the one. How about a change to the arrangement of the floral prints on the wall so they’re not blocked by the lamps? The 2 end pieces could be hung higher making a sort of ”V” shape with the 3. Maybe another piece framed similarly or just another piece that relates to the 3 could be found & hung over the top of center piece - between the 2 that were hung higher. I hope that makes sense. I think it’d make for an interesting display & eliminate the look of too tall lamps on the dresser. I understand your point about great individual elements in the room but the effect of being disconnected or disjointed. I think having coordinating bedding and draperies is the key to connecting the pieces. I like the drapes but you don’t seem to. I also like the lighter floral duvet cover you show - it doesn’t quite coordinate with drapes though. Maybe decide on your window treatement first & then coordinate the bed cover & pillows with it. I’d look to the antique rugs for inspiration. The ginger jar lamps are great with the rugs which are great with the furniture pieces - connect drapes & bed covers to them.