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Comments (22)Lets say you're invited to an event by a couple that has a predicable history of disaster. EVERY SINGLE EVENT this couple is part of turns out to be painful and not fun. Would you just say "Sorry, we can't make it" and leave it at that, or would you feel you have to come up with an excuse? I used to teach professionals a class called "Getting to NO" It was about how to deal with clients when you have to decline a loan etc in banking but invariably it turned into a social situation lesson as well, and for some reason mother in laws frequently came up :) My number one lesson, and one that people find the hardest to deal with is to just say NO. Thank you for the invitation, we are unable to attend. Say no more. If you offer an excuse than you open it up for debate...ie "Sorry we can't attend....We have regular Sunday dinners with Mom" Their response..."Bring Mom" You can't win with excuses. Just say NO. What if you have no reason not to attend other than the fact that you just do not want to go? Would you have a problem saying you have other plans? Even if those other plans meant lying on the couch watching a Gilligan's Island marathon? Again, don't offer up that you have other plans. "I'm sorry we can't attend" and no more so that you a) aren't a liar :) And b) offer no counter. If they press you just repeat, I'm sorry we can't attend. Or if someone asks you to help them move, and you really do not want to do it. What would you say? Would you feel obligated to do so, especially if they said that they can't find anyone to help? If this someone is a friend I'd offer to help pack (I'm known to be good at that) but beyond that I don't offer help aside from a moving company name. Friends don't ask friends to help them move :oP What if you owned a truck and they asked to borrow it so they could move? Would you feel obligated to help them then? We own several trucks, cars, etc. Again if this was a close friend I'd offer to drive it while they moved, but as our trucks are owned by the company we don't allow non-employees to drive them which everyone understands. We've many times though driven with a friend to pick up an antique or something in a flat bed and as long as I have time, I don't have a problem with this. I'm not neurotic about a car though. If someone needs to borrow a car we own personally and they're good friends (ie we know their habits etc) we'd loan it without question. We have done this more than once for friends visiting. You're asked by a coworker to spend even more money on yet another fundraiser for their kids school/Scout troop/sports league...would you dig in and do a pity order? If not, what do you do? Yes I do pity orders. The amount of pity depends on the closeness of the relationship :) I then donate the item to a soup kitchen. Win win for all. I used to take my son when I did this so he could see why we brought cookies to the shelter...he does not eat cookies so he didn't mind giving them away LOL But still, it's a good life lesson for kids....See MoreDoes anyone use GnuCash for their family finances?
Comments (2)Nope... Quicken user since the days of DOS. Hope you enjoy yours as much as I enjoy mine... especially at tax time!...See Morehypothetical question, use cash or finance
Comments (16)Hi billl, Just a note on "principal-guaranteed" products. There is no such thing as a free lunch. Of further note; COMPLETELY agreed. HOWEVER, there ARE currently principal-guaranteed products that are both significantly cheaper, safer, and better in performance than the alternatives in non-guaranteed securities (money market accounts, CDs, managed investment accounts and index mutual funds.) You can't get high guaranteed returns and no risk. Unfortunately, we can't have "no" risk anywhere, actually... but the exposures to risk *CAN* be dramatically reduced by proper reserves management by the firms, and conservative hedging. These are individual companies "guaranteeing" their products. That brings its own level of risk that isn't easily quantified. Pretty easily evidenced though... all one has to do is look at the historical track record of the firm offering the gaurantees (and especially in comparison to the non-guarantee security firms... if there are any that have remained in business long enough to have a history to compare.) The principal safety track records of insurance deposits are equal (if not better) than the track records of the FDIC & NCUA ('better' in the manner that the insurance deposits are guaranteed at much higher balances... up to twice as much as FDIC in some states... and the rate of failures of the insurance companies themselves is virtually zero in comparison to the banks & securities firms that have been dropping like flies.) The overall investment is ultimately only as "safe" as the underlying investments (ie stock market) even if there are multiple levels before it gets to the final investor. The risk is only being spread, not eliminated. Dead on! Risks exist, always, and need to be properly avoided. Risks that are competently managed so well that firms can offer principal-guarantees, and show a track record (often of CENTURIES) of never defaulting on their guarantees... that works! The non-guarantee security (stocks, mutual funds, bonds, notes, etc.) world *COULD* cobble together a complex structured offering that might come close to the safety and tax efficiency... but the internal expenses would be so high it would destroy any chance of competitive returns. I used to run a hedge fund that offered a principal-guarantee to our partners (just like the insurance companies do.) I discovered its too expensive to try to beat the insurance world at its own game *UNLESS* you accumulate enough in assets to actually BECOME insurance-regulated as a carrier (and can then offer tax-free status ALONG WITH the principal guarantees.) In addition, its always been illegal for your common stockbroker to guarantee principal (or guarantee *anything* really... but to take your money,) and with financial regulation of hedge funds its not even legal today to offer the kinds of guarantees we used to ON A PRIVATE basis. If the regulatory world shifts to make it plausible for non-insurance managed accounts to beat fixed-indexed resetting accounts, I'll fire up a new securities division immediately... but I am definitely NOT holding my breath on that. It *ALL* boils down to; A) who carries the deepest reserves (so they can always honor their guarantees,) B) who manages risks the best (so they can outperform the other guarantors.) Of course, the tax-free growth & access adds nicely to the benefits. Cheers, Dave Donhoff Leverage Planner...See MoreInstead of cash I use------
Comments (48)Snidely, I'm an accountant. I believe I have a pretty good grasp of debits vs. credits. In fact, I said in my post that there is no credit attached to the card, which should indicate that I do understand that it functions as a debit card instead of a credit. And if I didn't understand the difference, I think that the fact that I see the money coming out of my checking account vs. getting a monthly statement from the card company would have probably tipped me off. I well understand the difference between debit and credit cards. I realize that any card connected to your bank account is not truly a credit card regardless of how it is branded. The cards my bank issues are branded Visa cards. The money is coming directly out of the bank account, so it functions as a debit card. But because it is a Visa and not simply a bank issued debit card, our liability for unauthorized purchases is $0. Plus we can run it without a PIN, which you can't do with a card that functions only as a debit. At one point years ago, our bank had only bank-issued debit cards attached to accounts. This post was edited by kittiemom on Sun, Jul 20, 14 at 9:23...See More- 6 years agolast modified: 6 years ago
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