MarilynC, how are you coming along?
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Marilyn C protect your racoons!!
Comments (17)I assumed it was rabid because it didn't exhibit what I thought was normal behavior. Do they always sleep with their eyes open like this one? I tried to run it off by banging on the back of the dog house. It wouldn't budge. Stayed curled up with its eyes open like you see here. I took a broom and (standing as far back from the entrance as I could) swished it around inside the dog house, thinking the coon would wake up and run out. It didn't. I finally drug the dog house to the edge of the back porch so that the "door" of the dog house was about 6" lower than the back side and tipped the house enough that the coon and the pillow came slowly out. The coon wouldn't run off. It couldn't stand up. I tried to prod it with the broom. It just fell over instead of walking. So is this normal behavior in October in broad daylight? And if it did have rabies, what should I have done? We live in the country...we ARE animal control....See MoreMarilyn C
Comments (17)He had money...and he gave most of it to me. I was spposed to get his ashes, but when they found out about the money, they wouldn't give me his ashes. Well, that's okay. I know what he would say. "It's just an old body. It doesn't matter." I told him that would happen...so, at least I wasn't surprised. He didn't want to go to a nursing home, and we made this agreement seven years ago. I promised him I would take care of him until he died. I am glad he didn't have to die, hooked up to tubes or forgotten in the back room, of a nursing home. They were talking bad about me...saying I only did it for the money, but let me tell you...I couldn't go or do anything without taking care of him, and it was a 40 mile round trip over there that I made every day at least once, and sometimes as often as four times a day. They were too important and too busy to be bothered with his care...so leave it to me...my time isn't valuable like theirs. I guess they thought I should have done this for free. It isn't that I wouldn't have. I couldn't afford the cost of driving over there and back every day...and the hours it took to take care of him. He did nothing. He didn't even flush the toilet. I took care of him, his house, his yard, his truck, his taxes, brought him a hot meal every day, and kept the fridge well stocked for him. I brought him books, magazines and movies and sat and talked to him. I treated him as kindly as I would want to be treated. The last 4 years of his life, he never stepped foot out of his house. I kept him alive....when they wanted him to die...simply by being there and making sure he was never around anyone who was sick. He had emphysema so badly, he couldn't walk to the kitchen without difficulty. He was a very intelligent man, well read but extremely difficult because he wouldn't do anything he was supposed to do...like not smoke, eat right, etc. I'm not a saint. I got paid for taking care of him, but if anyone doesn't think that is a burden to take on, and one that went on for years...think again. I have no regrets though because I was very kind to him, and he died knowing I was there, and in his own house and that is what meant the most to him. The week I spent sleeping on his floor, I had to bring all three of my dogs...so I was up at daylight, walking the dogs, and all around him, live his family. They had to have seen that or my truck in the driveway all night. You know they had to have realized something was wrong...but not one of them called or came by. Probably afraid I would ask them to help do something....See MoreSpecial note for Marilyn c
Comments (6)Sure. I always have baby possums. I have 12 of them right now. This year I raised my first really tiny one...just barely had any hair down his back. He would have been a good one to follow, altho it is a miracle that he made it. I lost his 4 siblings, and almost lost him several times. Funny thing...today I was at a nursery with a friend and fellow rehabber and she told me it is against the rules of our organization to post any pictures of the animals on the internet. People within the group are very hesitant to email pictures of the animals to each other. I don't understand that at all. I mean, I can understand people not wanting to put the pictures of their children on the internet, but animals...especially if you stress that they aren't being raised as pets...I don't get it. I have always posted pictures of my animals, and I don't think I will stop now. If anything, I see it as a good thing because it helps to raise awareness about wildlife...especially possums which aren't pretty and get a lot of abuse, simply because people are ignorant about them. I have received many emails from people requesting help that came to know about my interest in wildlife from the forums. One lady wrote me to find out what to do about a possum that had made his winter home on her back porch. Since she lived in a northern climate, I told her it would be kindness to let him spend the winter there. She ended up doing that, and putting out special food for him and becoming very attached to him. He left in the spring, and she never saw him again, but another little possum has started coming around, and she enjoys watching him. So that's a good thing that has come from writing about the animals and showing their pictures on the internet. You know, the way I feel about it....if they don't like it, they can come pick up the 38 possums that I have here now. I don't think they want to do that....I think they need me to keep on doing what I am doing. I am not really anxious to take on another baby that needs such round the clock care right now. But, really, I take what shows up. The only reason I took Vernon was because the woman who had him, was keeping him in a box with a 3 week old skunk and a 4 week old raccoon. That was just horrible. She said he liked their fur, but they had sharp claws and he would have been raked to shreds. That is the only reason I asked for him. Later I went back and asked for the skunk, and she gave him to me. I didn't write about him, because he died before he even made it through the night, and the reason he died was because he wasn't being fed properly or often enough. He should have been fed every 2 to 3 hours and she said she fed him 4 times a day, so I figure if she said that, then he probably got fed twice a day. I could use a little break right now, but if something else comes my way, I will post pics and tell about it. Thank you for your interest in them.......See MoreMarilyn_C, you hunkered down?
Comments (10)I'm okay. Not worried. We will be here unless we find out that it is definitely coming our way with force. In that case, we will go to a nearby town and spend the night with friends. We won't go very far away because we have to get back in to see about the shrimp boat and the animals. They have a big house...just remodeled after a fire and haven't moved in yet, but said we could stay there. I will take my dogs in crates and a couple of my cats. The possums that are small or non releasable, I will put in crates and bring inside and my cats can come inside. They will be okay. I am sure my house will weather the storm okay....I just don't want to be here if the wind is very, very strong. For absolutely, 100% certain...we will not get out on the highway with the rest of the people running from the storm. Too many people in this area and it would really get on my nerves to sit in traffic for so long. The last hurricane they said was coming here, about 2 million people tried to evacuate and it was total gridlock. They never talk about the more than 100 people who died from heat exhaustion, in traffic that ground to a halt. People traveled 10 miles in 24 hours. Running out of gas, panicking...animals dying. The whole nine yards. Anyway, everyone left...except us and a very few others. We got some gusts up to about 40 mph and a quarter inch of rain. My husband works on a tow boat, and I was afraid he wouldn't be home, but he came home tonight, so he is here to help me. We'll be okay. Thanks for your concern, though....See More- 7 years ago
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