Hi katycat24- You mentioned a messy child and a grubby dog. Will this be your family room? It is important to be realistic about the wear and tear the fabrics on your seating will sustain. Have you thought about a more casual look for this stage of your life than velvet and have sturdy washable (and even bleachable) slipcovers made for a couch, loveseat and easy chair? This way you and your family and guests can enjoy your room and relax just as you want them to. Why not have a look at The Slipcover Maker on this website https://slipcovermaker.com/fabrics/  that I found just by chance. A well-made slipcover fits neatly and doesn't look sloppy at all. Here's another unrelated thought, I don't know how long you plan to stay in this house, but sometimes people buy a sectional, and then when they move, or their needs change, the sectional doesn't fit the configurations of the next place they live or another room at all. And do people really want to squash themselves in the corner of the sectional? Maybe a sofa and a loveseat will do the same thing, or a sofa and two chairs, and a big ottoman besides. Just a thought. Your rug is beautiful. What is its origin? If you do a light colored (washable in the washing machine!) slipcover you can have vivid throw pillows to mach your beautiful rug, and also coordinate your wall art.

Love your room! Fine minimalist design. I agree with everything Glo said about size of rug and switching the plant and the sofa. I'd like to see the sofa and chair connected with both of them touching the rug.

What are the measurements of the Anthropolgy mirror you are returning? I think it was a good size and would be inclined to get either the first or second choice RH mirror depending on your preference. They will both look great with your chandelier. The third is not worth whatever the additional expense and I don’t think the lines of the fourth mirror are hefty enough. When you refer to the green room pic, do you want to look for a paint color that shade or are you just referring to the pic in general? Also, do you love the fabric on your chairs or are you just going with what is there? I had the seats in my dining room chairs reupholstered a few years back and it was not expensive. I bought the fabric myself and gave it to my upholsterer, which also saved. He came to my house, unscrewed the seats and took them with him so he didn’t have to load up the chairs. I think your fabric is absolutely fine, nothing wrong at all. It just seems like you are looking for a bit of bold in the space and that could be any easy place to get it. Remember if you are placing chairs on either side of the buffet, they are very visible and the seats can add a lot of look, or not to the room. No right or wrong.

I feel like when I post something I like, I get told to just go in person and that I'm not being helped to go forward and how it's not helping when when I just posted stuff I like. Ideas thrown here has helped me. I agree with those who are saying go with neutral, quieter, go with what you like, so I feel like I am moving forward. So it can get discouraging/overwhelming here so I don't know...I might take a break from here. Bluemarble, is exactly right. I've said before too. I'm not interested in shopping in person for many reasons including the pandemic. Even if it wasn't for not going out, I've still always been an online shopper mostly when it comes to furniture and what's what I feel comfortable with right now. And bluemarble is spot on that I knew I didn't like the table the next day I got it and it's what I felt threw me off and once it's gone, I'm trying to go back to neutrals/cozy and what I like - earthy colors, minimalism, metallic, grays, neutrals and yes......a cozy feel. Even if it's industrial or farmhouse, scandinavian, or boho, I can't worry about that. As long as I can focus on neutrals/cozy room idea, then I should be fine. As lindacottonwood says, there are too many irons in the fire. Thanks for everyone's help.