What advice would YOU give your grown self when you were 8yo?
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Comments (19)Wow... again! LOL... Such responses. It's taken me the better part of the day to absorb it all. I'll try to take them in order. Guapogardener... I'm trying to do the whole xeriscaping thing. I am not one that likes to spend copious amounts of water when it's not available. Also since all of the watering done will have to be done by hand, it's a lot of work to do for this entire lot. My old garden in Portland was large, but not as large as the lot I have now. I can't imagine planting labor intensive flora in the long run. I am looking for 'substitutes' so to speak. I feel it would be strange to try to put in plants that thrived in Portland here in Orlando. Additionally, there are all these beautiful tropical plants to choose from - I can't imagine picking something as 'mundane' as a rhododendron when I can have crotons. I would actually *love* to get rid of about 40% of the lawn I have now. Not just because it's a hodgepodge but I'm just not a big lawn person. Mowing, edging, weeding blah blah blah. And in return... a lawn. Now I know there are those that love lawns, I'm just not one of them. Also in Portland a brown lawn in the dry season is a badge of honor. It means that you are doing your part to conserve water. Countrynest... thank you for the welcome. :-) I intend to be asking many questions. Especially on plant identification. There's a couple plants I've seen that I'm really finding attractive. I just need to go out and get pics of them to post here and ask. Gardencpa... The nickname is actually from my boyfriend. I have a lot of Irish in my background and because of my hair and skin, he calls me that. I have to admit I like it. *grin* Watering... there are plenty of nozzles available for hoses. Which is a good thing in the establishment phase of things. "only the toughest plants survive"... there must be a lot of tough plants here. It seems like everything grows so well... almost too well. It confuses me because of the sandy soil and the heavy rains that wash away minerals. Yet... everything grows like wildfire. Is everyone fertilizing like mad or did too many people bring in too many plants? The skunk vine... is that the name of the very delicate looking vine that's very invasive? The one with the clusters of small white flower with magenta throats and small pointy leaves? I'd love to know the name of it. You know what they say... 'know thine enemy'. ;-) Ill_mannered_ache... I think you are so right about starting small. If nothing else it makes sense when trying to establish plantings. Instead of driving the water bill sky high by trying to establish new plantings all over, it seems better to so a bed or two at a time. Not only for labor but because you do have to water things that you're trying to establish. Lakeron... I sooooo know what you mean about microclimates. I've noted so far that I have at least four... not just for the four compass directions either although they do play a role. The western sunset sun is much more harsh than the eastern sunrise sun. Also the southern side is much more prone to have things wither than the northern side. I'm glad you posted because it made me think of sectioning off parts in the yard into individual areas. I've got more than enough space to do it. Lacoquina... One of my big concerns is planting 'bad plants'. The ones that can get out of control, be invasive, have environmental issues etc. I am glad you posted about the passion vine simply because I'd been looking at it. I think I am better off with a different flowering vine. Any suggestions? :-) Fawnridge... I'm trying to go with the approach of creating 'islands'... I'm not big on water features simply because... well if it's a fountain and it runs it makes me have to go to the bathroom. *grin* Anna... thank you for posting. I'm still confused about things growing so big/fast and the condition of the soil. If the sand is so bad, why do things grow so well? Susieq... a sidenote... that's my sister's nickname. :-D My oleander hasn't bloomed much for the past months, is it possible that the bugs are eating the blooms? What product do you use? In Portland I used natural controls for bugs - alliums, marigolds etc but I fear that natural controls may not be enough here. Whew! Thank you all for your feedback. I'm watching this thread like a hawk. So much knowledge in one place. It's like I've found nervana for garden info in Florida!...See MoreDid you or your grown kids play with toys when they were young?
Comments (20)Bumble, you might be my DD's biological mom LOL. Her (self imposed) goal this summer is to cook more "real meals." She already bakes a lot, with some supervision, and makes pancakes independently. Her real obsession these days is duct tape. She has made a variety of wallets, purses, etc. She usually makes at least one a day. She has probably 25 rolls of various colors and patterns at the moment. I honestly don't think I could make one of those wallets myself, and I'm fairly crafty...or used to be! She has her own glue gun. Tish, like you say, she's not a great speller or much of a reader but she can read complicated directions or a recipe and figure it out no problem, so she's all set!...See MoreWhat advice would you give your newbie self?
Comments (44)Hi Kristine. With all of the amazing experts and great advice on here, I bet you got more than you bargained for! Are you still reading? ;-) My advice would be a little different, but also similar to what has been mentioned. Researching roses is great... and fun! But if you have a public rose garden nearby, walking the grounds and getting a feel for what roses look like in your actual climate is probably the most helpful. Seeing a rose in person, smelling it, touching it, these are all important things to me (being a very kinesthetic - touchy feely - person). Also...Don't feel Iike you always have to follow rules or common knowledge, unless you want to. It is your garden, your time, your hard work and your money after all. Simply enjoy yourself and enjoy learning more as you go. I would also tell myself to always braid my hair before doing any gardening. ;-)...See MoreDid you eat at your friend's house when you were -
Comments (46)I grew up in the ‘50s and 60’s, and we were generally off playing in the neighborhood unmonitored, and expected to be home for dinner. Somehow we always were, telling time by the sun, I guess. If a kid was at our house (for a play date situation, ie not a kid who lived in our neighborhood) at dinner time, they were always invited to join us. I can remember the thrill of eating (forbidden) snacks at other kids houses, like potato chips, cookies, soda or (gasp) even candy! Once I had dinner at a friend’s house and liver and eggplant was on the menu. That was an eye opener!! My BFF from 8th grade on is Japanese American, and her mom made delicious tempura, sukiyaki, and other Japanese dishes, so eating there was a bonus. (Aside: She and her husband were here for lunch yesterday! We’ve been friends for almost 60 years.)...See More- 7 years agolast modified: 7 years ago
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