Request for Charitable Donation in Lieu of Gift. Do you Like?
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Comments (27)I bring them to work and give them to my co-workers. I do that with a lot of the extra divisions and seedling plants in the spring. This year I brought in 10 or so divisions of Siloam Doodlebug and 8 divisions of Snowy Eyes and a few of some others. I also bring in other plants, like Lady's mantle, iris, perennial geraniums and stuff. I hate composting perfectly good plants and I'm too lazy to sell them. Most of my co-workers are not die-hard gardeners like us and don't care about things like names and genetics - they're just happy to get a nice plant with neat flowers for free! I've been doing this for a few years and it's always fun to have people come back to me and rave over a plant I gave them a year or 2 ago....See MoreRequesting money instead of gifts
Comments (12)I think your friend is doing the right thing -- she isn't proactively announcing, much less sending out instructions, that she prefers cash to gifts. By telling just close family and close friends, the word will get around enough, and that's all she should do. The only thing that puts me off a bit is your comment that she is "concerned about getting those things that she just doesn't need." This is a "concern"? That someone might give you a gift you don't want? Like any other gift, for any other occasion, you accept it with gracious thanks. Then you can give it away, sell it, exchange it, or whatever you want. But you can't try to direct your guests' generosity in advance to something you want instead, whether it's cash or anything else, as if you were entitled to gifts of your choice (or to gifts at all, for that matter). The outer limit is to register items (and NEVER distribute the information except to people who specifically ask) and to discreetly inform your "inner circle" of your preferences as she did, and that's it. If you get something you don't want, too bad (it should only be the worst problem you ever have!). It is up to the guests to do what they want. Many guests, of course, want to know what would please the couple most, but ultimately every gift is voluntary, let alone size and type of gift....See MoreWhat do you "not" like getting for Christmas?
Comments (82)For those who like to give such gifts, and I am one, I find that people get more enjoyment out of the gift if they can choose the charity (unless you know of a particular cause they are involved in). My kids have a fundraising site on Razoo.com, which is a great platform with tons and tons of charities, and you can order (physical or e-form) gift cards from Razoo. Then they can go on Razoo and choose a charity. I am sure there are other ways to do it (not just Razoo), but the thing is you are giving a gift card that can only be used to charitable giving, but the charity is up to the recipient. I have done this with good success. ETA: Here is an article on the subject, see the table at the bottom. http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-news/charity-gift-card-tips-suggestions-1271.php...See MoreCharitable Giving
Comments (25)I give to a number of charities, many of them locally-related, but some national or international in scope, mostly related to helping people, especially those in need. One of the major international ones is the Canadian Foodgrains Bank and each dollar that I give is matched by I think it's $3.00 currently from the government's foreign aid program. A local church and farmer has a sign by the road that shows that the value of produce from some acreage there is to go to them. Most are social service, medical (e.g. hospital foundation, MSF/DWB), educational (library, univ., my seminary), multi-nation human rights (Amnesty International) etc., and some have my gift multplied by government support related to a multiplier of amounts of individual donations, e.g. CUSO (Canadian Universituy Service Overseas, that operates somewhat like the Peace Corps). In one situation a while ago I think that the ratio was $9.00 for every dollar that I gave. I've been thinking that I should do some checking as to how efficiently a number of them operate,and knew the names of some agencie to consult ... but my very active "forgetter" mechanism has been operatinal there, I fear. Do some of you Canadians know of some agencies that do that in our area? Some have told me that giving a major percentage of my income to charities seems unusual, but I say that I was giving quite a lot before, and the actual cost to me from recent percentage increase is the difference between my tax position before and what it is now. I redirected that portion of the money that formerly went to taxes to being used by those couple of dozen charitable causes. ole joyfuelled...See Moretheclose
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