Am I too unreasonable?
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tile guys, am I being COMPLETELY unreasonable?
Comments (36)We're done with the herringbone. This is the border on top of the running bond on the walls that he's having a problem with (figuring out how to cut it at - you guessed it - the crease again). He got one side and I can't figure out why he couldn't figure out the other side except that he's screwing with me. I really don't get it. I also bit my tongue until it bled but after the third question today that was basically "help me figure out how to lay tile" I "slipped" and told him that I can't explain to him how to do his job and the only way I could figure it out is to get up there and mess with it and just do it. I told him to go take a lunch break while I did that and he said he doesn't take lunch and grabbed his stuff and stormed out. I don't think the herringbone messed him up per se - I was explicit about that from the beginning and he was okay with it. At this point I think he was just asking me every stupid question to make some kind of a point, like "okay smart@ss, you figured out the ceiling, now figure THIS out." I really TRIED to be patient but I just wasn't seeing the problems he was seeing. It sounded like he was making a mountain out of every molehill he could possibly find. Maybe he was just looking for an excuse to walk out on the job when it was obvious that he wasn't going to get done in one day like he wanted to. I really don't know. I don't get people sometimes. There is so little left, I'm wondering if I can work with my contractor to finish it up. He's done some tile before, he's just slow and this job was just too big and complicated for him. At this point so little is left i can't imagine any real tile guy coming in to do it. Part of me wants to do it myself but after how hard it was to do the part I did do, there is no way DH is going to allow a repeat of that. I think grouting it all will be a bigger deal than setting the rest of the tile....See Morenew hardwood floors--am I being unreasonable??
Comments (4)I have found the exceptionally smooth, furniture finish on most prefinished flooring to be a drawback with the product. Dents and dings show up immediately, just like they do on a highly-finished new automobile exterior. I have also found that many engineered prefinished floors are just not as hard as their solid counterparts. Perhaps yours is one of those. Dropped objects impart very high momentary impact loads to the surface they fall on. Dents and dings are just going to happen. However, if you have flooring that 'hides' these little acci'dents' (pun intended), then they will unnoticed for a very long time....See MoreAm I being unreasonable?
Comments (43)mybrowneyedgirls, I checked and the tile is from Florida Tile...I'm sorry, I could have sworn the box said American Olean and my husband has cleaned up the garage so I can't find it. Anyway, the name of it is Retro Classic Flair and the color is "Green". It's 3 X 6. Everyone, I called the tile store this morning and it *ain't* over yet. My salesperson ordered the colored (flexible)caulk for the lowest grout line replacement and was surprised to hear that the tile man had never returned my call. She understood that he had. Hmmm. She said his normal practice is to run the tile out to the countertop edge...and I said he didn't do that this time. She says he can certainly redo it, but when I asked about financial obligation, she said she'd need to speak with her boss get back to me. Story continues....I'll get back to you if/when there's a resolution. Again, thank you everyone....See MoreAm I unreasonable to think that I should be notified about showings?
Comments (13)Different areas have different types of lock-box access abilities. It's bad form to not let someone know if you are showing a home. I have lived in areas where the selling agent was required to be present for any showing due to thefts and break-ins. That was city wide. It wasn't a function of the neighborhood. Other areas, it's much looser. As an appraiser, we always left our business card on the kitchen counter to let the owner know we had viewed the property. With the advent of Zillow, many people will look at homes before calling a realtor. If I know from the listing pictures that the house is vacant, I don't have a problem driving into the driveway, getting out and walking around the exterior. It lets me know if I want to pursue an appointment. If the house is occupied, I'm just going to drive past very slowly....See MoreFlo Mangan
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