Oh, WAAAHHH! Aging Skin Woes
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Comments (28)In my 50's, I guess. (I'm 61.) I have a bad knee and it really slows me down, but still, I think I am probably healthier than most people I know who are my age. I don't have high blood pressure or high cholesterol or any reason to take medication, except an occasional pain pill when I know I am going to be on my feet all day...due to my knee. I still get up and put in a full day around here, and keep on keeping on. I certainly look older, and my answer to that is to not look at myself any more than I have to, and keep doing as much as I can. I may be slowing down, but I'm not going to give up....See Moreanyone go thru CRF with elderly kitty?
Comments (45)I am soooo relieved that the Miralax is working for Casey (and I'm sure she is, too)! I feel the same way every time I see one of Billy's nice long tootsies. Constipation can make them feel so miserable and sick. You have vastly improved Casey's quality of life with Miralax. I definitely think you should take your neighbor up on her offer to administer subQs for you at home. I know you're having a hard time believing that Casey will be more cooperative with less restraint, but hopefully your neighbor will be able to demonstrate the validity of that for you. I do understand your misgivings, though. Billy is extremely short-tempered and does NOT like to be messed with, so when he was diagnosed with both CRF and hyperT, I was dreading having to medicate him, much less having to eventually administer subQs to my potentially violent old man. To make matters worse, my housemate moved out right before Billy started needing subQs, so I was faced with having to administer them without any assistance. I had nightmares of lying on the floor bleeding to death with Billy firmly attached to my jugular vein. But what choice did I have? Billy needed subQs, and I was the only one here to administer them. I knew my only chance of surviving the procedure was to keep it all as low key as possible. Billy had chosen a diningroom chair as his favorite sleeping spot, so I rigged a way to hang the fluid bag from the curtain rod next to the chair. While he was napping, I quietly hung the bag, sat down next to him (which instantly woke him and caused him to stand up), and slipped in the needle as quickly as possible. To my utter amazement, Billy didn't object at all. He stood there while I silently stroked his face until the administration was finished. I was stunned at how easily it all went. Things have changed a bit since then. It didn't take Billy long to figure out that the diningroom chair was where he got his fluids, so he abandoned the chair and started napping elsewhere. Now I have to find him and carry him to the chair for fluids, but as long as I do so quietly and carry him carefully, he usually doesn't do more than grumble softly. Sometimes if I don't get the needle exactly where he wants it, he'll start growling in mid-administration. I have to be VERY careful at that point NOT to touch him (other than to hold the needle in place), or he'll attack me. So I just hold my hand an inch or two in front of his chest so that he knows I won't allow him to leave, and he stays put and growls until I'm finished. If I get the needle in a comfortable spot, however, he'll generally sit or stand without objection until we're done. I can absolutely guarantee you, though, that if I did anything other than use my body position to restrict his movement, he'd fight like a demon during subQs. There is absolutely NO WAY that a restraint bag would do anything other than increase Billy's fight instinct, and I suspect the same will be true for Casey. You need to reduce the stress response, not increase it, in order to be successful with subQs. A restraint bag is likely to feel a lot like a carrier to Casey, so she may very well have the same stress response to the bag that she has to her carrier. Casey's also likely to be in a considerably happier (and hopefully more cooperative) mood now that she's not dealing with chronic constipation anymore. Don't worry. All of this will work out, one day and one procedure at a time. Laurie...See MoreFixing to reserve a room across the hall from BM...
Comments (58)You wrote..."If you know kids at all you know how mean they can be." I agree, see my statement above "Do I worry? Yes. Because kids are mean. And it doesn't matter what color you are." I understand not wanting your children raised around kids who are living in crime-ridden areas. I'll bet most of the mothers there feel the same way. But with strong enough parental influence children can overcome. And it sounds like you are very involved and strong. I was called a F*$*%*% Haole my whole life growing up and I didn't turn around and call names. Like you said, my mother raised me better. It just gave me a better perspective on human nature. Had I gone to a school my entire life where the parents of all the kids were middle class and highly educated things would have been different, I'm sure. What ended up happening though is I got a first class education in human rights and dignity. I have zero tolerance for racism because I have experienced it first hand. And, by the way, the kids in my rich, white prep school (that I went to my last two years in high school) were the ones with the drugs, because they could afford them! "they will have no clue how to react. They are not use to violence." Thank goodness. No one should be used to violence. But our culture is a violent one, especially for kids. How else will they learn how to react? I'm not suggesting you throw your children to the wolves, but that you give it more of a chance than saying "They have no other children there that they can culturaly connect with. They are NOT going to fit in." before they've even gone to the school. What culture do you mean? My point was not to attack you (and I'm truly sorry if you feel attacked. Your statements touched upon a very tender spot for me.) but to say from my experience this can be valuable for them rather than you worrying and fretting before it even happens. Because from what you're saying, there's no way of getting around them going, even if for just a short time. Explain to them what to do when faced with different circumstances. Role-play. Let them know they're valued. Volunteer as a room mother. Meet other mothers in the area so they can have people they already know when they start so they aren't the "new" new kids. Find out what sports/activities there are and talk to the coach. I think you could really make a difference in this kind of environment with your experience dealing with low-income families. Best of luck to you. It sounds like your plate is really full. I can't imagine going through the family turmoil that you are dealing with and I'm sorry it's so hard, especially while you are pregnant. I know I was really emotional when I was pregnant and things seemed overwhelming. You can do this, your girls will be fine. Your baby has two parents and a place to live and will have enough love and enough to eat. Remember that while some can spend $5000.00 for bedroom sets and you need insurance, some are walking miles for clean water and scavenging for food. I support you wanting the best for your children. You are not alone!...See MoreBeyond the pale ...
Comments (98)A friend told me I looked tired one day about two years ago and I still think about it, wondering what made me look so tired! I didn't find it insulting exactly, just puzzling because I wasn't feeling tired! I often think it's time to spruce up my look with a little more makeup -- with age I have acquired paler lips and fewer eyelashes. But I'm too lazy most of the time. My makeup routine takes about 3 minutes -- tinted moisturizer, blush, a bit of concealer, and done. Before I leave the house I add some lip gloss, which I reapply a few times usually throughout the day. If I want to put in more effort, I'll do a quick swipe of eye shadow and mascara. I know I look better when I wear a bit of eye makeup, but usually I just can't be bothered. Fortunately I have dark eyes, lashes, and eyebrows, so nothing disappears when I don't wear makeup, but I do look nicer when I "enhance" my eyes. I wear makeup to prevent others from being scared of my face. I was makeup-free for much of today (working at home, waiting for a delivery) and when I glanced in the mirror, I found myself scary. I have noticed as I get older, too, how much what color I wear (in clothing) affects how my face looks. For instance, I look much better if I wear a bright pink or orange/rust shirt than I do when I wear a gray shirt. I have been trying to be more conscious of that, and I really do feel better when I wear color. (And I probably look less "tired"!)...See Morehonibaker
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