Thanks, Tuscany!

So is it reasonable to have a little back and forth on the design initially with each PB before we choose which one to go with?

Maybe during that time time is when we should reach out to previous clients?

Get references and look at their prior jobs. Speak with the people who had their work done by PB's. Ask about their warranties for their work as well equipment warranties.

Absolutely make certain they have proper insurance coverage and have licenses! Ask for insurance certificate.

When we were getting ready to build our pool, I read every single post in the pools forum. Every single one. It took awhile! I made notes about everything under the sun: what to watch out for, what mistakes were made, choices about tile, slides, pool color, terminology, brands of pool filters, and on and on.

I interviewed 6 pool builders, and with my (intelligent!) questions, 2 of them never called me back. One of them was more interested in pushing their newish landscape design business (said I should budget $50K for that alone, um, gee).

I got preliminary designs from 3 of them. Two of them were responsive and I commenced discussions with them about details....and we ended up choosing the best pool builder. What did he/his company do that set him apart? His contract was professional, with everything set out clearly and was very organized. His quote for additional concrete decking and/or stone was set forth, plus a per sq ft number if we chose to add more later (we did). When I asked for references, he printed out the names and phone numbers of his last 50 clients, and said I could call whichever I wanted to. He didn't pressure us. And he was patient with my teeny-weeny detailed questions. Everyone's different, but that was what made us choose that pool builder. No regrets, and I recommend him to people all the time.

One of the things I show people is how much I loooooove the natural coping quartzite stones. The edges are subtly eased, so no swimsuit tears, and the grout joints are small...because the stone guys (pool builder's subs) were truly superior. When the pool builders take you on tours of pools they've built, ask them what specifically about the pool is a point of pride, and what they might've done differently. I got a good amount of information that way.

Mrs S that is great info thanks! I have read a lot of the posts here and another pool forum and have been doing so for the past couple of years in preparation. But now that the time is here I’ve gone blank haha.

I’d love to see pics of your coping! That sounds amazing.

coping and the decking will be big choices for me. My DH doesn’t care as much as I do about the details of the looks.

2 of the 3 PBs I’ve talked to so far were personally recommended by good friends. The other one is a small company that was recommended several times on here and the other pool site. If I don’t love any of them then I will meet with a couple more.

I can already tell their different personalities and need to think about who I’d prefer to work with. Learned that lesson building my house haha

Mystic Pool, thanks for your comment! They do all have licenses and such. Once I get more designs I’ll start talking to references. Plus I’d like to see their choices for decking and such.

Daisy, you mean a long bench and not just a tanning/Baja shelf? That is a good point, thank you.

We have two small kids but I like to just relax and hang out in the pool so definitely need places to do that.

Is that pebble tec or what?

I am seriously considering a salt water pool. I’ve wanted that for a long time but now am being discouraged by people over the replacement costs etc.

Have you had any issues with yours? What area are you in? I’m near the Gulf so high humidity. Not sure if that affects the equipment or not.

Here are some pictures of our stonework. If you like the natural look and use stone, I think this is really nice. Our pool builder was incredibly picky about the stone, sending back one load because it didn't match well enough, in his opinion.

Also, a photo of our baja shelf. We made it extra big, and I'm very happy that we made ours 18" deep. It's the right depth for a lot of things: just sitting there, sitting there watching a toddler who has a place to play, a safe landing spot for a dog who jumps in (yeah, our dogs like to swim, too, and all are trained to use the step there to get out...tho they are never outside unsupervised). We included the "island rock" and the kids love it. You could put an umbrella there, but we really haven't ever done that.

Lastly, I am very grateful to have read here in this forum, before we built our pool, to consider making the shallow end 4' deep. A standard shallow end is probably 3', but the 4' thing allows for better water sports, like the basketball hoop, like a floating volleyball net, and generally is just better and more comfortable for adults to hang out, imo.

Omg y’all are so awesome and helpful!

I really appreciate it. Real life experiences are so helpful.