Anyone else dealing with scoliosis?
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Comments (30)We have and Environmental Control Board, an Architectural Review Board and a Joint Coastal Committee. Just try to find somewhere in the village code that says what their specific functions are supposed to be. I did find out from a sympathetic village employee that the ECB is advisory only, but don't tell the chairwoman that. We appeared before her and her cronies twice. The first time, she told us that the permitted 30% lot clearing in the code "didn't really mean that" and that "we don't do things that way here." She told us that our property was "environmentally significant" but when asked who had made that determination, she named a non-existent county agency. For our second go-round, we were required to have an arborist identify every tree over 8" in diameter on a 3.5 acre lot. Then, we had to have him prepare an affidavit to prove that a number of trees we wanted to remove were a "danger to persons or property." Even when presented with it, she told us she didn't believe him ("hogwash" was the word she used) and told us we should hire her son's friend to evaluate the trees (we politely declined). She also had the nerve to look at photos of naked, leafless trees our arborist had certified were dead and told us "They don't look dead to me!" When I asked her whether she or anyone else on the board had any credentials that would qualify them to challenge the arborist's conclusions, she finally had to admit that none of them did. Then she asked us to agree not to put in a swimming pool down the road, even though 2 other board members have pools themselves. When she saw that we were also tentatively considering a tennis court, she and another board member went nuts, talking about how I was ruining the "environmental integrity" of the lot with my "oversized" tennis court. When I pointed out that all tennis courts are the same size, I was nastily told "I know how big a tennis court is." I cannot tell you how rude, nasty and obnoxious these "public servants" were. And before anyone says it, you're right -- we should have asked more questions before we bought. However, after pushing every button I have (as well as a few I didn't know I had), I stopped trying to be polite and get along (she does live directly across the street from me, and I had hoped to preserve some semblance of neighborly accord). I told her I had never heard such bulls---t in my life, and then told them how the zoning laws in my state are interpreted. When she then asked me whether I was "some sort of lawyer or something," I sweetly replied, "as a matter of fact, I am." Turns out, from all accounts, she is an unmitigated bully and everyone is heartily sick of her. By standing up to her, I got everything I wanted (which was nothing more than the law allows, BTW -- in fact, quite a bit less). However, she has called the village police on me 3 times already for perceived violations (all of which she herself committed when she built a few months ago -- don't even get me started), although she has been quiet for the last month or so. The building inspector has her number, though, and he's been enormously helpful. Sorry for the lengthy rant, but this brought back very unpleasant memories. I didn't sleep for days after that fiasco of a meeting....See Morescoliosis in teen girls--what should I know?
Comments (18)Hi folks, We're doing a dance of relief (actually, we made a Starbucks run of relief too :)) -- acc. to our doc, DD has less than 7% scoliosis, and her hips, shoulder blades, and leaning-forward-lineup (what do you call it -- when the person bends over and you can see if any part of the shoulders or chest rise up higher than the other) all check out within normal ranges! There's definitely a *tiny* amount, but less than 7%, which is what our doc said is the level at which it's formally diagnosable. I'm just a very vigilant mom, I guess. It shouldn't affect her running, and I think we'll try to address it with Pilates, since it's so slight. I will keep an eye on it, though, and if it gets worse I will take her somewhere else for a followup/2nd opinion. I definitely appreciate the advice -- the forum comes through once again!...See MoreI'm so upset but no-one else thinks it's a big deal!
Comments (139)Oh my goodness! I haven't been on here for awhile as it's been very hectic. I have at this point moved on from the kitchen cabinets. Dwelling on it is pointless and just makes me angry. Besides I've had other things on my mind (some of you may have seen my post regarding our backsplash disaster). Also, we noticed later that we didn't have any sockets on the island despite my having specified I wanted a socket on either side of my large island. KD said she didn't have anything in her notes about sockets on the island. Really??? And what do her notes say about the code for electrical outlets on a kitchen island to pass inspection????!!! Of course, there was NO room for us to add them in. Her solution: cut two of the drawer backs to shorten them, buy new shorter soft close rails for the now shortened drawers and then add sockets behind them. I. don't. think. so. We were left to sort that out on her own. Couldn't be bothered to deal with her anymore after that. Anyhows. I thought I'd give a quick update. I re-ordered the white drawer fronts and decided to leave the blue island drawers as is. The new fronts just arrived today and have yet to be installed. I still don't have any hardware on the blue island. I want it to be different but haven't really had time to properly look. I'll get there eventually. I think it's a good compromise. The drawers don't bother me as much on the island and I'm pretty certain that after a few months I won't notice it at all. Or as much ;)...See MoreAnyone else dealing with the new Covid variant?
Comments (94)I hope you are doing well now heritagehd07. I spent many hours during the pandemic with someone recovering from cancer. In his case, they caught if and did surgery just a couple of months before the shut downs and other rules went into place. But it was a difficult time non the less. He was doing his best to save his business while not knowing if he would live to see the outcome. We developed a deep bond of friendship developed during that first year. My best friend underwent a knee surgery to repair a botched procedure 3 days before shelter in place was announced. I was by her side right until they took her into surgery. Little did we know that would be the last time I would see for almost a year. She had to go into long term rehab since she had to be have her leg immobilized for several months before she could begin PT. No visits, food, not even prepackaged and factory sealed, everyone masked and vaccinated, regular testing of staff and patients and yet during that time Covid ran through the facility multiple times. A lot of people simply don't have an understanding of how difficult some of the policies for almost two years in some areas wreaked havoc on people's lives. Or, they refuse to admit it....See More- 7 years ago
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