Well, I honestly don't know, but I'm guessing she has help at her shows, especially with all those costume changes. For a red carpet event or a big night out maybe to help her with her hair and makeup? I'll bet she dresses herself when she's at home hanging out though.

She's certainly a beautiful woman whether dressed up or dressed down. She seems to have a kind of joy about her.

Pardon my ignorance, but who is she?

He is enjoying having her on his arm! Look at that grin.

Why is she wearing a cat around her neck?

Colleenoz, she is Jennifer Lopez singer actress with fiance Alex Rodriguez professional baseball player.

I'm sure she has stylists and 'shops' from their choices.

She looks amazing for 49. Could easily pass for 10-15 years younger. I guess the secret is lots of money!

I'm with Colleen. I don't even know who these people are.

Or care.

Not much of a life IMHO when you are 46 and are on #5 for fiancees. The numbers a guess. I know she has been engaged more than she has been married.....

I don't know why, but I like her! I try not to judge. That said, yes of course she gets help, as do all the other actors of a certain level.

I am sure though that she can put together a jeans/yoga pant outfit while running around at home.

A LOT of Jennifers clothes are given to her. Designers want to be seen so others will buy. She also buys outfits, put together on the models at fashion shows.

They are newly engaged. The ring was a million, reported to be less than when Ben Affleck proposed.

Yes, I care "what's in style". It's what drives the remodeling business. These people set the trends when they embrace them as their own.

Jlo is also a Joanna Gaines fan. Joanna is helping Jlo with a fixer upper that Jlo purchased.

Last time I saw her on a talk show, I didn't recognize her. Like Colleen, I didn't recognize her in the picture either.

I am really so not with it, as far as the who is who...

LOL

Moni

HE looks good. SHE looks like a sock puppet -- little head, no shoulders, overwhelmed by the fur.

Are they attending a fundraiser for the poor?

Designers give her clothes to wear, plus like most celebrities, she has personal stylists. While I've not followed her personal life, I do know she's worked hard to be where she is in her career. I wish them well!

She does have a clothing line that she designed herself. She's always been interested in design so it's quite possible she dresses herself other than the red carpet.

She is stunning. I'm sure she has stylists, I would too if I were a multi-millionairess with a fabulous career.

She was always a kind and helpful judge on American Idol. And she’s a great dancer and singer. I do believe she’s worked hard to achieve what she has and it doesn’t appear her success has ruined her humbleness.

I like her too. When I used to watch American Idol I found her appealing. Lovely to look at, she was always kind and never arrogant. My daughter and I watched her new movie, "Second Act," the other night. Definitely light fluff, but fun.

Re her engagement, I hope "Jenny From the Block" struck gold this time.

She always comes off as a kind person.

My guess is she has stylists that bring her stuff and she chooses from that. Her clothes are over the top for me, but I don't have her body either. If you get to play dress up every day, then you you can try out a lot of different things that are notthe norm for everyone else.

Is the question, "Do you think she dresses herself?" about this one specific picture? I did not know who either person in the photo was, but the question sounded like criticism. Is something wrong with how she is dressed? White in winter, perhaps? Is it that the furry stuff looks confusing or lumpy? I wouldn't get too bothered by how a furry scarf or long collar happened to fall on a single outing. Or does she repeatedly appear dressed in unusual way?

She has a stlyest, so does he. Good ones.

I find it sad that people say they don’t know who they are.

And sad when others say they don’t care. Why don’t you care?

What? Why is that sad?

It’s sad (too me) because some are not aware of what is going on around them.

I’m not a baseball fan but I sure can recognize A Rod. Jennifer Lopez has a had a long career, she has employed 100s (1000s?) of people. Not knowing what is current is a sign of ‘not caring’ about society to me.

Maddielee, perhaps you misunderstood what some of the ‘who cares’ comments meant. Mine meant ‘who cares whether she dresses herself’, in response to the question asked.

Maybe you need to chill. I keep up with a variety of current events but I am not glued to tv or my computer all day. I certainly could identify this pair. But I don’t find it sad that some didn’t.

Outside, I don’t need to chill. Believe me.

Why would someone post “who cares” on someone else’s post?

Someone who took the time to share something. If you don’t care, scroll by.

Just asking.

I don't really care about celebrities for the most part or what goes on in their lives. I happen to know her just from her music (which I like) and seeing her dance (and she's a great dancer) then on American Idol where her personality was revealed. I don't care if she dressed herself or pays a stylist.

What I care about is women constantly under scrutiny for how they look. all.the.time. I tried to say something in my first post about her as a person and not about how she looks or what she wears.

I didn't recognize either of them in the picture. I've certainly heard of Jennifer Lopez but I don't watch American Idol and I'm not the target audience for Jennifer Lopez so I doubt that she cares that I didn't know who she was.

Oh and does she dress herself - not for events but for going out and about, probably.

It’s sad (too me) because some are not aware of what is going on around them.

I’m not a baseball fan but I sure can recognize A Rod. Jennifer
Lopez has a had a long career, she has employed 100s (1000s?) of people.
Not knowing what is current is a sign of ‘not caring’ about society
to me.

Okay, I'll think about that response. Turn it over and meditate on it, examine it from all angles.

I can see how people would not know who they are, nor care. I follow pop culture because I enjoy fashion and I enjoy knowing what goes on in the world. Some people don't. But I do agree that making a comment like "who cares?" could be seen as rude. If you don't care, don't comment. I have had people make those kinds of comments on some of my pop culture posts, and it is a little hurtful. Don't worry, I didn't cry:)

I agree that some need to be more mindful in how they answer when addressing a question in a post.

The question was "Does she dress herself?"

A negative comment shuts down the conversation.

I apologize if my comment was out of line and negative.

I hope others will follow and do the same and reconsider their remarks about what she is wearing as well.

I didn't know for sure who she was...she is very beautiful, but it is sad because some people (myself included) "don't know what is going on around them"?? Oh, give me a freakin' break! I don't give a rat's ass about that. Believe it or not, I have better things to think about.

Not knowing what is current is a sign of ‘not caring’ about society to me.

Not caring about society?? I hope I misinterpreted your comment, Maddielee.

I don't think that just someone couldn't possibly care less about current music or sports that they are in any danger of turning into the Unibomber.

“Not knowing what is current is a sign of ‘not caring’ about society to me.

Not caring about society?? I hope I misinterpreted your comment, Maddielee.”

I probably could have phrased my statement better, but I do think people need to be aware of what is happening outside their own personal world.

And why not kindly ask who the people (or subjects) are? If they are interested enough, or taking time out from their busy lives to read through a thread, can’t they take the time to ask and learn what the subject is about?

When people post “who cares” (not talking about you Oustside, I’m still chilln fine), it comes across as an “I’m too important to care about something you care about”.

Sorry to hijack this thread.

Holy cow people - chill!

I think we all need to take a deep breath. I do think that there should be some form of etiquette when reading these threads.

Side story: Once I posted a dilemma I was having on deciding what to do about a social matter. I received lots of good advice, and as often on here, most wasn't what I expected. But, there was one person who felt obligated to stress how trivial my thread was! Why would I even take the time to post such a thing?

Here's why: The Kitchen Table is the place where you can talk about everything. Nothing is off limits from the silly to the serious.

What I believe is off limits is to try to shut down a post because in your opinion is should not have been shared in the first place.

For those who don't know who they are, nothing wrong with asking. Although I happen to know A-Rod, I wouldn't know most athletes as I don't follow sports.