Can anyone explain this bird behavior?
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Comments (8)I ended up binding the wing but once that was done she continued to fall over which lead me to believe there is an issue with her leg as well. Yes, it's a her and she is a female Baltimore Oriole. :) Even with her renewed energy, eating like a little pig (wax worms, mealworms, inchworms and fruits of all kinds) and using the bathroom, I was concerned about the extent of her damage and brought her to the New England Wildlife Center in Weymouth, MA. What a fabulous place. If you live near by, stop in for a visit. You can watch them taking care of the animals which are there until they are released back into the wild. Very cool. I have successfully raised baby birds, healed wounds and mended broken wings but I have never dealt with the tipping and leg damage so I thought I would hand her over to the pros. She's going to get x-rays and all kinds of good stuff so she can be treated if that is possible. They will keep me updated and promised to do everything in their power to make her well and release her back into the wild, keeping euthanasia as the absolute last option. I am okay with that. I hate the idea of her stuck in captivity. It's up there with being mauled by my dog quite frankly. I just thought you guys might like an update. I can't thank you enough for all your help. Here is a link that might be useful: New England Wildlife Center...See MoreConcert tickets-can someone please explain to me....
Comments (15)Hi Linda, I don't buy from stubhub but my coworker does, as well as ebay. She usually does that for sporting events since we both get all the emails when the concerts go on sale. I'll ask her if they are preselling. What I have read in my research is that they do in deed presale. Your question did send me on a mission because I didn't have the answer. Van Halen has no website to speak of and Live Nation and Ticket Master only list VIP packages for both our venues. They annouced the dates just recently and under my date of 04/10 it says TBD. Ticket master will list the shows once they have a date that the tickets will be in sale. It appears that they are releasing some VIP packages right now that will ship in April BUT Stub Hub shows specfic seats for each venue. It does not state when you would get you tickets so I clicked through the buy process a bit to see if there was a warning, but nothing obvious. To compare I clicked on NY which I know is on sale, and the stubhub website site shows as bold as can be "Electronic Delivery Available Immediately". Based on this, I still think I am right and they are not on sale yet. If you set up an account with ticketmaster, I bet you can score $49 seats when they are released. I'll check with my friend on Tues and I will let you know when they go on sale in FL....See MoreSevere behavior in my 3-year-old! Help!
Comments (6)Maybe this is overly simplistic, but if he seems to enjoy the attention he gets when he misbehaves, perhaps he is misbehaving to get more attention. It's a classic, common problem for young children, and while you sound very pleased (and indeed, fortunate) to have an experienced and capable foster mom for your son, she may not be giving him quite the same level of attention he would get from you. Honestly, that would be a lot to expect... The programs you are asking about seem to be "fix him" type programs. "Just play the tape while he's asleep and it'll all get better." or "Have him watch the video about how to be good." Yeah - right. I'd expect that only a very 'hands-on' program with a high degree of parental involvement would be really effective pretty quickly. On the bright side though, getting him back seems like a good and natural time to start implementing an effective program. 1-2-3 Magic is a great program. There's a video you can watch about implementing it that is 100% worth your time to see. Don't let anyone convince you that a 'quickie verbal 'how-to' is all you need. There are pieces of the system, such as being sure you have his attention, maintaining eye contact, tone of voice, making it 100% clear that you expect compliance and waiting until you get it -- SO many things that the video illustrates and explains that a 'here's how it works' talk will miss. So get your hands on that video. 'Natural Consequences' is a discipline philosophy that may or may not have it's own 'program video', but it's very effective with strong-willed children. The whole idea is that misbehavior causes bad things to happen, and that the bad things are a direct result of the bad behavior. Touch a hot stove - you burn your finger. So for the car-seat incident, a good natural consequence would be that the trip (if it's a fun one) immediately gets cancelled. "We can't go if you can't stay buckled in your car seat - sorry." Or if it's not a fun trip, stop now, but go again later, cancelling another fun activity because you have to run that errand. Or sit by the side of the road until he buckles up (however long it takes), then sadly have to miss a fun activity because of the time wasted sitting at the side of the road. You get the idea -- The bad behavior causes an unpleasant consequence. The flip side of this strategy is positioning a positive for right after an unpleasant chore. "We'll have our snack right after we pick up these toys." Another strategy that might work is called 'social stories' -- It's used mainly for autistic children to teach them appropriate social interractions and what to expect in situations that might cause anxiety, but basically, they're stories that explain in explicit and concrete terms how certain situations work and what the 'good' or 'appropriate' behavior for that situation is. For example, a trip to the dentist might include getting into the car seat and staying buckled, waiting patiently in the waiting room and playing quietly until it's our turn, sitting calmly in the chair and opening his mouth when the dentist asks and not biting the dentist! It would explain that the dentist uses a lot of funny-looking tools that sometimes make loud or strange sounds, and that the sounds, while strange, won't hurt, and that these tools are used to keep his teeth healthy and strong. Again - the basic idea is to explain about the situation, in advance, in enough detail to remove the anxiety-provoking 'unknown' and give the child a model of behavior to follow. It's amazing how effective these stories can be. And last but certainly not least -- One of my favorites is to catch him being good and offer explicit praise. "That was really nice when you shared your truck with Johnny!" or "You did a great job brushing your teeth tonight - thank you!" Praise and success are the best kinds of attention there is -- Best of luck to you --...See MoreCan anyone explain..?
Comments (22)banks (as with all big and small businesses) are forced, ruthlessly, to follow the aggregate consumer's rules as enforced (often brutally) by the economics of their favor. Well, actually, the "aggregate consumer's rules" isn't really rules, it's "market forces." Different thing. Rules are the laws that are passed saying you can't trick Grandma into putting her rent money into a penny stock you own so you can dump your shares at a profit, leaving her to be evicted. There should have been regulatory oversight all along by the government to keep this debt Ponzi scheme from getting out of hand. The Fed dropped the ball. But they'll also expect the taxpayers to bail them out--like the airlines--instead of letting them go bankrupt. Last time I checked http://ml-implode.com/ there were over 230 CEOs dissapointed that you're not correct ;~) They tried. Paulson's attempted bailout of SIVs. He expected too much monetary contribution from the banks, so that scheme died. That check we're all supposed to get later this year--that's a taxpayer bailout, maybe not of the banks directly, but of the economy. Not that it will work. I expect more bailout schemes to crop up thruout this year. They'll foreclose on homes and let them fall down from neglact rather than accept a lower interest payment. Funny how that NEVER occurs... *ever.* Whenever banks foreclose on a home they try to clean & turn it on the open market IMMEDIATELY... usually at whatever price the realistic PUBLIC free market will actuall pay for that home, in order for the bank to regain some of its investor's funds Tell that to Buffalo and Cleveland. Perhaps you didn't read those threads. The short version--the banks aren't bothering to pay property taxes or maintain houses, and the cities are suing to force them. (that would be YOUR money from your retirement accounts.) The fact that retirement money has gotten mixed up in all this incredibly speculative derivative debt mess is exactly the problem that the govt should have been paying attention to and not allowed. See the link below for more depressing news about pensions. You need to make up your mind. Bankers are EITHER money-grubbing profit driven capitalist whores... *OR they are carefree money-tossing spendthrift "pig-headed" ne'er-do-wells that can't be bothered to do something that will actually conserve & retain their investor's funds. Can't be both simultaneously now... Well, actually, it's quite common for people to be both greedy and stupid. In fact, that seems to be the qualificaiton for getting on a company's board nowadays. Letting--what is it currently, $100 billion?--evaporate from the financial markets in a matter of 3-4 months IMO qualifies as careless, money-tossing, and stupid. Negligent even. And since all these banks and insurance companies are supposed to be so financially sophisticated, one has to wonder how they ever thought that building a skyscraper of debt on top of a sandbar of assets (some estimates run as high as $30 'value' per $1 of actual assets) could ever possibly NOT collapse in a collosal mess of disaster. If they'd asked me, I would have told them in my mother's immortal words, 'that doesn't sound like a very good idea.' And yes, all of us are going to feel the pain from this collapse for a long time. But the ones who came up with these slice-and-dice debt derivatives are going to get their million-dollar bonuses (on top of the ones they've already gotten), their golden parachutes, and their lucrative lobbying jobs. As will the politicians who let them get away with it. Look, there's nothing inherently evil about capitalism. However, it needs to be controlled by laws. As Gordon Gecko said in his famous speech, capitalism is nothing more than self-interest. But self-interest unfettered by laws governing behavior results in the strong robbing, killing, and raping the weak. (See the Dark Ages, the Vikings, and certain areas of the modern world, ahem Rwanda) We live in a society. One might even optimistically call it a civilization. Such behavior is not acceptable. It's irrelevant if the exploitation/victimization is physical or financial. Since today survival is based on money, not one's ability to hunt game or herd cattle, people's money needs to be protected from predation by others. That's where the government must step in and impose regulation. None of this stuff happened before all the deregulation that took place in the 80s (i'm obviously not including the pre-Depression era, which inspired the imposition of securities laws to begin with). Most of those years that make up the "history" people refer to when they say "the historical return of the stock market" took place when the market was much more highly regulated than it is today. Over the last couple decades, we've been moving more toward Roaring 20s-style markets. Not a good thing. Yes there are some new laws, like Sarb-Ox, but they're pointless. They impose costs without protecting anything....See More- 7 years ago
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