Fear of decorating? (non-snark)
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Hardscape: Static vs Non-static
Comments (32)I'm anticipating the threads coming up from the new literate gardeners who typically pick up from an article or discussion such things as these and will start with "I know I need to blend my static items with my non-static items, but I need help ...". This is one more phenomena, or tool, which we can choose to emphasize or choose not too. A great and broad subject, but we seem to be focused on minute bits and pieces objects and not looking at what else there is. What about a place like Central park that was originally planted with trees small enough to be moved and planted that would have been relatively small and delicate compared with the bulky stone bridges and other visually dominant structures that are now dwarfed by some of those trees and are being absorbed by vines and shrubbery? How about the subdivision that was brand new that you grew up in with dinky trees and dinky shrubs with the wide road and sidewalk that is now a canopied tree tunnel shading that once stark open road? Then there are those residential landscapes that we did 20 years ago that have the same walk and stone retaining walls and patio, but the growth has changed the whole flavor of the place. What about a place that you did three years ago? This project could have easily been described (and often was) as a wall with plants. Now it is more likely described as a garden that has a stone wall in it. This is the interpretation I made from the thread title. I don't know if I'm narrow in that, but concrete geese are too alien a notion of hardscape for me to envision on my own. They just do not seem to be items meant to be permanent and I think of "hardscape" as something that has the intent of being permanent (although nothing is permanent). It reminds me of some of the old photos from my area. This land was completely cleared by early settlers. Many of the churches were put on higher hills and often show up in old photos, even as unintended distant objects in the background. Now there are a zillion houses, but there are trees everywhere. One particular church in Yarmouthport can be seen from many places (Sandy Neck in Sandwich, Chapin Beach in Dennis, Exit 8 ramp in South Yarmouth, ...). It is now seen as a steeple sticking out of a tree canopy rather than an entire church in a barren grassy landscape. It is almost a measuring stick of time against a big landscape. I don't know that this fits into the discussion, but those are my thoughts. ... that and one of those plywood plumber grannies with the polka dotted bloomers, of course....See MoreCan you IMAGINE putting a six-year-old kid on a non-stop train?
Comments (18)A shallow grave was not uncommon when hand dug by one individual on private property, especially in winter. Vaults were not common either. There are cemeteries in southern Illinois containing graves without vaults. Sometimes this is evidenced by a significant depression over the grave. For example, I had a grade school friend who was hired to mow a cemetery one summer in the 1940s. He was merrily making his way across the landscape with the mower when he and the mower sunk into a grave. Now, this young man was on the superstitious side and he thought for sure that the dead was about to grab him. He scrambled from the hole and ran from the cemetery. It is only in the last 60 years that some of these communities have passsed ordinances requiring burial vaults. Before that, it was the family's choice. A number of families short of funds buried without vaults; Some did it for personal belief reasons: There is a passage in the bible when paraphrased reads: You are made from dust and to dust you shall return. The reasoning is: Why prolong something that is going to happen anyway. Without vaults, wood caskets eventually decay and collaspe. Sometimes, a collasped grave makes a void under the surface and is not apparent until someone steps on it. It is dangerous to the grounds keeper and to anyone strolling the cmemtery. A vault requirement has become commonplace to protect from this hazard. Your theory of murder of Dear Addy is very plausible, but consider other possibilities: 1. Addy keeled over from heart attack. The shocked husband did not know what to do and buried her just as she fell. He surmised that he would be under suspicion. She would have been fully clothed and with shoes. Embalming is not necessary if the body is buried within 3 days after death. In early America, embalming was a luxury and not commonly done. It became popular during the Civil War because it was necessary to preserve the body for a week or more to allow time to ship the body and for relatives to gather for the funeral. Many soldiers were buried on or neaby the battlefield where they fell - some in mass graves. These bodies were not emblamed. 2. Addy died by an accident. 3. Addy committed suicide. Such an event would have been hush-hush. The 6 yr old: I know it was possible to put a 6 yr old on the train and semd her from Denver to Chicago. I myself would have not done this. I would have required an adult escort. I guessing she was put in charge of the Conductor who would have seen to it that she got off at the right stop and to answer her questions. Passenger service was much more personal in those days. But if i had been that little girl, I'd been very afraid. I would not have sent her alone on such a trip. There are too many things that could go wrong. Maybe her birthdate is in error and she was older than 6. An Aside: In my family search, I found an ancestor who died during a harsh winter. The ground was frozen deeply and the cemetery crew was not able to dig a proper grave on time. (They did not have bull dozers, back hoes, or nimble tractors back then. In frozen ground, graves were dug by pick and shovel.) A wake and funeral was celebrated on scheduled. The casket and body was put outside to freeze. The "stiff" was left frozen until the grave could be deepened. He was interred about 2 weeks after the funeral....See MoreStainless Steel Cookware FEARS!! Need your advice!
Comments (24)You don't need Le Creuset for frittatas - get a frittata pan - an oven-safe 2-3-inch tall straight-sided pan with a cover. IMHO, the Le Creusets are best for slow-cooking stews and braises. If you are mainly a stove-top cook, SS-clad (not all-SS) pans (and the couple of nonsticks for eggs) are all you need. Here's a rundown of common types of cookware. As you see, SS is actually NOT a good heat conductor - that's why the expensive stuff is CLAD in SS but contains bottom and/or side layers of aluminum or copper: Aluminum Advantages excellent heat conductor relatively light in weight Disadvantages porous and relatively soft dents and scratches easily difficult to clean stains easily reacts to food oxidizes to a dull gray color warps easily requires a "nonstick" coating ---------------------- Stainless Steel Advantages extremely durable non porous, extremely hard smooth surface, easy to clean dent and scratch resistant does not react to foods easy to maintain mirror finish Disadvantages poor heat conductor ---------------------- Cast Iron Advantages relatively low cost holds heat longer Disadvantages extremely heavy rusts easily reacts to food ---------------------- Copper Advantages excellent heat conductor Disadvantages relatively high cost reacts to food (toxic with some foods) oxidizes, very difficult to maintain finish dents and scratches easily must be lined with tin, nickel, or stainless steel ---------------------- Enameled Steel Advantages colorful, fashionable Disadvantages very poor heat conductor chips easily rusts easily when chipped ---------------------- Carbon Steel Advantages low cost Disadvantages very poor heat conductor rusts easily ---------------------- Glass Advantages can be decorated or plain Disadvantages extremely poor heat conductor heat resistant if tempered...See MoreHelp me choose (sneaking a decor question in on this side)
Comments (21)Outside, yeah-- I think it's a little too pale. I had second thoughts and didn't order the Pier1 shower curtain. I REALLY like the quality of the John Robshaw curtain but I am just not sold on the design in my room. It is a big change so that may be part of it. I do like the design-- but it's overpowering. Tina.. I haven't worked a sewing machine in 30 yr. I'd have one made if I found fabric I like. And yes.. 72" is a little short (the one I am currently using is about 2" longer)...See More
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