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My wife says she's NOT my wife?!!!
Comments (18)I am a lawyer in California and the reason nobody can help you so far is that you have left out information that is important. If you were divorced in California go down to the courthouse and pull the file. Look at the entry of judgment--what is the date of the divorce? Whats the date of the new marriage? If you were divorced in another state, get the record, its not difficult. Bring that info to a family law attorney and they can tell you what your rights are. There is no common law marriage in this state but there may be some help anyway. If it was an error in the record, maybe it could be corrected. You are not a domestic partner unless you register as one in this state and there are restrictions. You may need to approach this from a real estate legal standpoint, if its not a valid marriage. The name on the deed probably was changed during refinance, it could happen. You probably signed a bunch of papers you didn't read, but the next time you sign anything that gets notarized and you have to put your thumbprint in the notary book in California I suggest you go out for coffee instead. If you have a realtor friend, have them pull all of the deeds back to when the property was purchased. Take all of this stuff to a family law attorney who also knows something about real estate. All of these documents are important, no attorney can give you any advice until they see them. By the way, its not so easy to throw you out of the house. I would want to know why your credit was bad and hers wasn't. Don't you file joint tax returns? I suspect there is a lot of paperwork that you never look at. Start now. Pick an attorney near where you live, this is an involved problem and you need to solve it now....See MoreBernie Madoff's wife/son interviews...
Comments (21)I watched it last night and watched the Today interviews as well. She knew, or at least suspected, and I think the only thing that they regret is that all came to light. I noticed the change in her appearance, did you? On Friday she looked more made up, there was a lot of comments made about it. Last week she looked well maintained and I noticed the clothing as well. She is not a fool. I think the same about the sons. Why would you not insist on being shown ALL the operations of the company? Fear or suspicion, they were not fools. I feel the same way about the way the book is being presented. These people are sly, I cannot figure out why the fiancee was even there, she never opened her mouth and the author of the book is Laurie Sandell, not the fiancee. Tho I too am positive that Matt Lauer made reference to the fiancee having written the book. I keep thinking about the people they bilked. And nothing, no one, would ever keep me from talking to those I love the way Ruth claims that her attorney did in keeping her from her sons. There is way too much wrong with this story to me....See MorePhilomena: Book and Film
Comments (14)Martin, I don't know if you caught the documentary on BBC TV last week where Martin Sixsmith tried to help a few of the many women and some men who had contacted him since the release of Philomena. The prog travelled between Ireland and the US interviewing the unhappy victims of this child trafficking. It appears that upward of 2000 children were 'sold' to US parents. The only criteria was that the couples should be Catholic and wealthy. Many prospective parents didn't visit Ireland and either used an intermediary or just chose a child from a mail-order catalogue. One woman described how a photographer arrived, toys were produced, best clothes were put on and nuns posed with kiddies sitting on their laps; everyone smiling. Unfortunately an important 'middle-man' was a very high-ranking LA priest later found to be a serial paedophile who arranged for boys to go to the homes of his like-minded friends. One woman was chosen to act as a companion to a slightly older girl. After a happy few years the 'real' daughter left home for college and the adopted one was told to leave the house. Now in her 60's her life became wild. All the victims had similar stories to that of Philomena, so when they tried to find out about their real Mothers, or Mothers tried to find their children, they were stone-walled by the different groups of nuns who lied and lied again. An interesting piece which I heard on RTE (Irish radio which I somehow can pick up while I do the ironing!) explained that the nuns in these institutions were often from very poor, ill educated families glad to give a daughter to the 'Church', who in some contradictory way were jealous of these 'fallen' girls and therefore glad to give them a really bad time and to continually point out to them how worthless they were in the sight of God. Everyone in that radio prog and writer John Banville in the Sixsmith piece said it had been fine for Irish men to carry-on with girls, but not the other way round . . .twas ever thus. This post was edited by veer on Mon, Sep 22, 14 at 9:05...See More'Boy books' vs 'Girl books'
Comments (44)Russ, I think men can write "girl books." Herman Wouk's Marjorie Morningstar is very much a girl book, I think. While I know they are not great literature, a number of Gothic suspense novels have been written by male writers under feminine pseudonyms -- I guess the thinking of the publishers was women prefer to read Gothics by what they think are women writers, which I think in the case of most female readers is bosh. A number of female writers have written quite effectively in the traditionally male bastion of war stories. Olivia Manning's recounting of the Battle of El Alamein in The Levant Trilogy is every bit as good as any male writer's, and Pat Barker's The Regeneration Trilogy is much lauded by both male and female readers. However, whatever the inroads female writers have made, I'm afraid that there's a certain segment of male readers who will pass over their books simply because they are females. An androgynous name, such as Barker's, has probably pulled in some unsuspecting male readers. As for the classics you mentioned, Russ: Tolstoy's and Flaubert's books -- even when their protagonists are women -- are more likely to be read by men than Jane Austen's novels are. Anyanka has already talked above about this disinclination of boys and men. I know present male company is excepted, but it's hard to say it's untrue of male readers in general....See More- 7 years ago
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