Stephanie, I know what you mean. I want to be fun and spontaneous but sometimes it's so hard when she won't eat her vegetables, or doesn't clean her room, to give treats and not turn into the "Mommy Monster"! Finding a balance between being the enforcer and friend. I feel so guilty so much of the time, I'm not doing enough, I could be doing more. It's really hard for me. This morning I thought I got out of the house before she woke up, but just as I left, here she comes out of her room "mommy mommmy" and my heart went two directions. Irritation (that I would be late to work yet again) and absolute love. Of course I had to spend a few minutes with her, getting her out of sleepymode and into the morning. I felt like I was abandoning her! I want her to know that it's not my choice that I'm not with her every second of the day. That I love her so much and that being a Mommy doesn't come with a rulebook, we're just winging it and doing the best I can.

The other contender is golden crema a little costlier - Once more there is not much information about this one. (I now have a snap of it though). If you can point me to some more information on this one, that would be good too

In response to Eve72's post, the Kraus 16-gauge stainless steel sinks do not rust. When rust appears on stainless steel it is because something external is on the stainless steel's surface that is rusting. You can use Barkeepers Friend to remove it. Let's clear up the ignorant statement about stainless steel sinks rusting. ANY stainless steel sink can show rust if steel wool like Brillo or other steel wool pads are used on it. I repeat, ANY brand of stainless steel sink, not just Kraus. When you see rust from steel wool, it's from the iron residue left by the steel wool on top of the stainless steel. I'll quote from Franke's website: Steel wool or metal scouring pads should never be used to clean your sink as they will leave a residue of small iron particles. They may not be readily visible, but they will lead to rusting and corrosion of the sink. As to Kraus faucets, I don't have direct experience, but in many years on this forum, I have not seen complaints here from Kraus faucet owners. I have seen Live_Wire_Oak's alarmist posts on this, but no one has ever stepped up in response and said "yes, I have a Kraus faucet which failed". I have seen many posts over the years about faucets failing, and they were often American-name faucets bought at HD. If anyone is worried about Chinese faucets, they better check their own Kohlers, Danzes, and Moens, many of which are made in China. I advise the OP to check out reviews of Kraus products on overstock, as there are quite a lot on that website. Here is a link that might be useful: Kraus Faucets on Overstock

New Hampshire Seacoast! LOL we always joke about that. I had no Idea they even named it. It must be about a mile of seacoast that poor state gets! I went to get a map to show you, and this one came up: https://smile.amazon.com/Posterazzi-Collection-United-States-Josefina/dp/B07NWXVT9J/ref=asc_df_B07NWXVT9J/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=492296907568&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=2175888936393275893&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9003451&hvtargid=pla-1158797446545&psc=1&sa-no-redirect=1 To add insult to injury, this map abbreviates New Hampshire as "NE," which, is, umm, Nebraska. Maybe they meant Nebraska Seacoast ? NH ("NE") is the pale orange one cozying up to VT. Maine and Massachusetts hogged all the coast. They left them a port and thats about it. Though Portsmouth is cute!