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Comments (14)Hi, Frankie! I'm new here. :) Your strategy sounds great. I had not heard of it. I have heard the mantra (can't clean clutter) from FlyLady, but not the box idea. I absolutely think clutter is delayed decision-making. Sometimes with paperwork it is related to a task I need to do . . .like figuring out why my ins. is denying a claim or something, but most of the time it's true. One thing that stumps me . . .I tend to change things around in my house a lot, and do not know when something will come in handy deco-wise. For example, I had some lamps I bought 10 yrs ago and used them only 1 or 2 yrs. I stored them all this time, and was going to give them away several times. I didn't, and now I am using them again. Are they my FAVORITE lamps in the world? No, but I like them, and am glad not to have to spend money on new ones. The other obstacle for me is my kids' artwork. I don't want to keep everything-- do not want to saddle them with it when I am gone-- but I have a hard time picking what to keep. I have 5 kids (4 of them who currently "create," since one is too young) so you can imagine we get a lot. I have started getting rid of their work right away to make it easier, but I'm always sort of sad about it....See MoreDifferent types of clutter professionals
Comments (23)I appreciate the suggestions. I know it is hard trying to "solve" someone else's situation. I think maybe it is more moral support. MIL does not want, at this time, to set anything aside or take anything, other than perhaps some clothing, to Goodwill. She wants me and DH (who is her DS) to come and identify things we might want. I believe she probably wants the other available children and grandchildren to do the same. She says she does not want my visit to be used sorting into piles--just looking over and saying yea or nay, I believe. I'm certainly planning to nudge her a little on that when we go visit, as in, we're here, we're free, why don't we do some sorting? But I'm not real optimistic. What is frustrating is that I've already "reviewed" all of the china and many other items on past visits, but apparently that did not register, as she keeps mentioning the same items. That is just part of her letting go issue, though, I think, or kind of, this is your last chance! Yes, the company has a website, national listings, says it's bonded. Of course there is more that can be investigated to be sure. I'm not too keen on storing stuff--in their situation. I think the biggest issue is getting down to deciding do they think they need to have a "living" estate sale of the items they don't want to take with them. This is actually a big roadblock because a) it inhibits "letting go" of stuff, because it's being "saved" for the estate sale, rather than taking stuff bit by bit to Goodwill (or whereever) b) they can't really have the sale until they move out, and further can't have the sale until they've moved out AND removed a large volume of other stuff, like papers, and they're not working on that now and c) it doesn't make sense to tightly box up lots of stuff for estate sale (unless using one of those types of companies that holds it off-site),. So it may be possible for me to try to engage them in a discussion of, to have an estate sale, you would need to pursue strategy #1--estate sale readiness and also try to consider costs of doing vs. proceeds; if you forego estate sale, your de-cluttering strategy is then #2 approach. It's not so much that one is wrong or right, but just the pros and cons. It's interesting because, with all of their "stuff" and if priced right for vintage items, I think it would bring a fair amount of money, so you hate so sound like, oh, just give it away, when talking to people about their home furnishings and china and things of a lifetime. But, if you were to factor in a $10k fee plus estate sale percentage plus, perhaps, the constraints of the professional person , you then begin to ask, is the reason you need to have such a person, and such a sale, just because you think you need to have the sale, whereas,if you could just let go, your DS's and DIL's could be, and could have been, doing stuff for you all along the way....See MoreSelling an outdated, ill kept house, cluttered house
Comments (45)We were fortunate that we had somewhere to store all of our excess stuff before putting our house on the market because I knew our house would be shown on several MLS sites. I even thinned out our wardrobe to make the closets look roomier and thoroughly cleaned every inch of the house. I've looked at properties all over the US on the same sights and not only are people not cleaning their homes, but there's often too much furniture, knick-knacks and pictures of family on the walls. Even if the house is huge and the rooms spacious you can't tell because of all the stuff they have crammed in them. In many of the homes, they allowed their house to be photographed with unmade beds and dirty clothes and toys strewn everywhere. The also don't bother to make little repairs to a hole in the wall or loose trim and paint over the garish colors that their children's bedrooms are painted. These are the exact same people that will complain when their house doesn't sell or they get a low-ball offer. I realize not everyone lives in a perfect house or has the money to fix everything but at least clean up and declutter! Fill your garage or outbuildings with boxes of your stuff if you have to but if you want to sell your house, at the very least clean up!...See MoreClutter and combatting it
Comments (16)zzackey I agree Meanwhile, I am thinking of trying bonsai pots for AV's. Suyudor Part of the cluttered look is the display. My houseplants are all in cache pots, beautifully displayed. The violets are expected to be beautiful but not even all those flowers can completely disguise those orange plastic pots. I am collecting cache pots. Your idea of having all the pots identical may be a simpler solution. Speaking of pots, using all the available light spaces for Dixie Cup Horticulture..such as rooting leaves on the living room coffee table. Tacky Dixie Cup décor..the solution might be shelves and light stands in a closet. I am about to gather up all the plants, sort by size and tuck the Dixie Cups back of beyond. Then I can dress up the remainder in nice cache pots....See More- 5 years ago
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