Our good friends had their first baby. beforehand, we gave a shower gift which btw, was the most expensive gift on the mother's list. My husband knew this, as I told him I decided to give this gift. I couldn't believe that after the baby was born, he gave still another gift, which I was against. Anyone ever hear of giving both a shower gift and another (it was in the form of money) after the birth? Replies please, please. It's excessive to me. Oh and this family is not poor -- their income is about 25% more than ours and have no undue expenses (they have more than we have but don't really need any more).