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Rachel Brubaker
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Comments (2)You need to find a local agency with social workers who can fight for you, as you can't do it for yourself. You need people to help you find out what your rights are and help you get them enforced. You should NOT have a baby in those situations and if you need to go to a shelter you'd be better off. You sound as if you're completely lost and must find help - do not remain at the mercy of those people and do not allow your daughter to be in the middle of it....See MoreNeed technical advice please, ASAP
Comments (8)So here is the informal report from the GeoTech Eng. and we now have to run cost estimates to see which are even feasible. Developer is saying we can't switch lots either. I don't want to be impatient, but it could be August is we wait for the watertable to recede. We are think Option #4 is we can afford it. Builder is running costs. Based on my visit to the site ant test pits performed this lot has a groundwater problem along with soft alluvial soils on the back 2/3 of the building area. The back line of the house was located along a drainage way for the subdivision and the water is flowing in from the west on top and below the surface through this area. The soft soils on the rear portion of the lot in the building area need to be removed and replaced if the house is to be built on this lot and the drainage will need to be permanently directed around the back of the lot away from the house. To deal with the soil and groundwater conditions, OMI has comprised the following approaches to proceeding with construction: If wanted done Immediately- Undercut the soft soil and place 1-ft of opengraded stone in the wet areas. Then place a filter fabric over the stone and put in compacted fill up to subgrade elevation for the house pad. The footing will be normal construction bearing in the fill. If can wait for a window of opportunity- Undercut the soft soil. Let the lot drain naturally until the lot starts to dry out to the point the water is outside the building area. Place fill up to the subgrade elevation for the house pad. The footing will be normal construction bearing in the fill. Wait until the driest season of the year and allow the water table to subside. Undercut 2-ft and compact the surface soils before placing 3 to 4-ft of soil over the back of the building area. The footing will be normal construction bearing in the fill. This approach may not work if the groundwater has no outlet. Alternate Immediate approach-Place fill on the lot as needed to provide the proper elevation for building area and proper surface drainage. Dig the footings down to firm residual soil and pour flowable fill up to planned bottom of footing depth. Normal foundation bearing on the flowable fill in the back and stiff residual soil on the front. Select a new lot that does not have a drainage area running through the building area...See MoreNeed job advice, ASAP, please!
Comments (26)Thanks again, everyone. Your replies truly made a difference in defining what was important. I brought up the work environment/what makes you happy discussion with DH as soon as he started looking for work. He didn't know. Even after interviews, he wasn't sure. However, after checking out the company last night and having the interview today, he was finally truly excited about the work itself and environment. Whew. I completely agree about the insurance issue-- there are options. I have also experienced enough to know that ins. is never a sure thing (as it changes yearly), and with the new health care laws, could change even more. Hopefully for the better but nothing is without downsides. I am also glad so many of you suggested option #2-- I was also leaning to that, but the "old school" thought it always permanent is better than not . . .but as we all know, in today's world there is really no such thing. I think DH felt reassured by your words, to take a risk. So, option #4 won. It's not quite as close as some of the others, but completely within reason. It is work that is exciting for DH. It is a long-term contract but with good insurance (and very affordable) and the best pay out of any of the options, though #2 upped their offer. Snookums, we never dreamed he would have these possibilities come together like this. Frankly, these last several weeks have been trying and stressful and I am worried about what else is waiting in the wings. He is in IT. Thanks again. Now I just cross my fingers that the hard part is over, but that's not life, eh?...See MorePaint color advice needed - asap please!
Comments (17)I think you have to go with what feels right - you're standing in the room, we're not. The problem (IMHO) is the math is off for the entire room. Lord, that's sounds awful doesn't it? lol! But it's really not that tragic. :) It just makes it harder to balance and distribute contrasts, texture, color, etc. Math is a wonderous thing and is key in any kind of design whether 2 dimensional in a graphic or artistic sense or 3 dimensional in an architectural sense. Get the math right for stuff like crown widths, door height, mantle height, where light switches are placed, or whatever and it's a lot easier to decorate -- things just seem to *fall into place* with little effort or stress. Thing is your room is (I'm guessing) just like the majority of rooms out there. The math is off. Happens for various reasons. Original drawings are altered to fit the lot, carpenters do one part while masons do another, and on and on. Often there isn't one person involved who knows about golden ratios passing calculators out to everyone and double checking this to that. The trick to use wall space with varying widths of trim is a good trick to make moldings look more expensive and substantial but probably not necessary in a room with 9ft ceilings. Because the math doesn't work out right. That's why I suggested just taking the small bead of trim off. But ya can't. So absolutely try it the way you think will fudge everything into feeling right. It can come out just fine and no one will be the wiser about the stuff that might not add up perfectly by the numbers....See MoreRachel Brubaker
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