I don't know why this mask made me uneasy
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I don't know why, but bulbs totally overwhelm me.
Comments (5)I'll tell ya what's the BIGGEST pain w/ bulbs. And this error in judgement was made our first planting season in our home (which is our 1st home). Hubbie insisted on landscaping fabric. Because as much as I LURVE gardening (read: addicted) from time to time, I get too immersed in other aspects of life (family, work, etc) and can't get around to weeding for a couple weeks. So, like I said, he insisted on landscape fabricing ALL the garden beds. Which is great in theory. A gi-normous PITA (pain in the *BLEEP*) in practice....particularly when it comes to bulbs. 'Cause low and behold, some bulbs seem to multiply. Like, crocus bulbs. And, apparantly, daffodil bulbs. So this past spring, I happen to notice these mounds of mulch in my beds. What's that?, I say to myself. Move the mulch only to discover tenting of the landscape fabric 'cause, yep, I've got new sprouts from new bulbs desperately trying to find their way out. **sigh** So this fall, I've gotta dig up ALL the bulbs I can find and transplant them to non-fabric'ed areas. And I must admit, as much as I love tulips, I haven't been all that jazzed about having them in the gardens. For what I planted in the last couple years I haven't exactly been thrilled with the result. I also think I made a BIG mistake w/ bulbs in general. I wanted color "here and there" in my very new garden beds (which equates to most of our yard). So I spread them out a bit. I'm finding that's not the way to go. So when I transplant, I'm going to do so in clumps. The lone bulb here and there (be it crocus or whatever) just doesn't paint a good picture come spring. Honestly, what I'm really considering is focusing on early/late blooming perennial purchases for the front yard and moving ALL my bulbs to the back yard. Having 'em all over the place doesn't appeal to me for some reason....See MoreI don't know why I can't love my stepson
Comments (13)"his ex hates my husband she is not sad they they are not together. She likes to cause trouble though." I didn't mean that she is pining away for him, but you said, "My husband was fooling around with the mother of his other child for years on top of everything to start off. I stayed with my husband because I believe in love and 2nd chances." & I thought you are saying that he was fooling around with the mother of this 8 year old & if he was doing that while he was seeing you, then yes this child saw his parents 'together' at least in some way, unless they were so sly that they hid it from their own child. And even if the mother hates him & is not sad, that does not mean she does not let her son know how angry she is (anger is also a feeling that is much easier to express than hurt, so who knows if she truly hates him or is hurt he finally ended it with her and married you) but I'm sure the child picks up on those feelings because children are little sponges & know more than most people give them credit for. If mommy is angry all the time at daddy, of course it's going to affect how he feels about daddy's house & the new wife, baby, etc. "I think that it's good to be proactive and encourage my stepson to be nice to my son. I don't try to force it upon him. To me to encourage him to love his brother should be a good thing. I agree that yes he is eight and may be frustrated which is understandable. I just don't think that it should be ok that he takes it out on my 2 year old son. If their our any mothers out there you know how you are protective over your children no matter who it might be. If it was my neice , my friend son. I would not stand them to be nasty to my children." If you want to protect your 2 year old, then never allow the 8 year old to be alone with him. It's THAT simple. If dad refuses to acknowledge the problem, then it rests with YOU to protect the baby & make sure he's always in your sight when big brother is around. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a happy little family, but if he (the 8 year old) does not want that, it is going to backfire to force it. I believe he does know right from wrong & he has anger, resentment issues... maybe from how his mother expresses, directly or inadvertently. He is manipulative if he changes face when dad comes around the corner & I agree with Sylvia that is a dangerous child that does that. (reminiscent of "the good son") Lovehadley has a great point that leaving is probably not the best idea since the child only comes over every other weekend and leaving could place the younger child in jeopardy when he would visit. The bottom line is that unless mom & dad are willing to work together to find out why their son is so aggressive & deal with it, then the only solution is to never allow your baby to alone with him. Yes, he was part of the package as you & your kids were part of a package, but YOU and your DH accepted each other's package... the kids don't get a choice. He didn't choose the package so how can you expect him to accept you as you've accepted him. You are the adult....See MoreI don't know why we can't get caller ID
Comments (30)Ang, most likely it isn't the rollover lines but the phone system itself. My office phones are powered by a PBX board, an old one that I put in the office the day I opened it in 1989. For me to get caller ID requires that I add on to the board, to the tune of $1100 per line (6 lines) so that isn't going to happen anytime soon! (you indecent little hussy, you!)...See MorePlease help me. I don't know what I am doing.
Comments (18)I might look for a lamp that could move forward on the chest enough (without danger of toppling off) that the shade just hides that thermostat. Place it just a couple inches to the right of where it is now, or move the whole chest to the right a bit. It won't affect the functionality, esp if you use an LED bulb = no heat. Then look for a large piece of art, or a couple of stacked pieces to fill in over the right side of the chest, as shown above. Another idea is a gallery wall incorporating the thermostat: I would trade you those beautiful folded blankets for the star wars lego decor my grandson has decorated my house with! eta: I was just looking at it again and think Cyn's idea to switch the cabinets would work. You could then place the floor lamp in front of the thermostat and just ignore it....See More- 8 years agolast modified: 8 years ago
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