Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I plan on being involved with, but not dictating, the paint choice. It is afterall, paint and can be rectified easily. I was horrifed when she first told me she wanted a purple room, especially since I spent the last year redoing the main level of my home to have color flow through out it. Don't think this goes with my color flow, but oh well. I do really like the idea of a stronger wall and three toned down ones. Interesting and may very well be used. I can see where the purples could easily get clashy and glaring. And her room is so small, I don't want it to feel closed in and I worry that too strong or too dark of a color with give it that feel. She's leaning the most towards the black artwork with the white and purple flowers which I found funny because she's wanted to get away from the flowers in her room for so long. I told her we'd wait till we got more of the room together before she makes a decision on something for behind her bed. I do plan on having her involved. We are DIYers here and the kids are used to being part of whatever is happening. She's actually the reason my bedroom finally got done; she helped me tremendouly and learned priming, patching, cutting in, rolling in the process.

Yes, too busy to do a teal on teal damask BUT I would consider a cream tone on tone damask. The stencil could be in a gloss to have it be subtle but noticeable.

ideefixe thank you for steering me to Delias.com. DD loved the "Starstruck" set. She has decided on turquoise/agua paint and if she really wants the whole room that color, I can live with it. But I'm still going to try for one wall and the rest a lighter shade. Anyways, the only problem. Everything in the set is sold out! It won't be available till Feb for most things. If they don't charge your account till then, I'm okay... but I can't pay for it now and not get it till then. X-mas is right around the corner and if the set doesn't come till Feb - it'll be a b-day present. Now, I'm on the look out for lighting. I really want something like returnqueen has in her DD's room. Actually that would be perfect. I think my Lowes/Home Depot has one. Maybe she can get that now. Thanks for the help girls Here is a link that might be useful: Starstruck

You can get a headboard the same color as the dresser, and match the night stands with it. And based on the photo below, you can use the grays tones instead of the green. dark gray sheets and lighter gray on the walls, with some decoration in wood style. And do the decorations on the blue that she wants, with pillow, a rug, curtains...