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Comments (9)Mexico is great!! Warm, sunny, two blocks from the beach. The people are very friendly. I speak a little Spanish and am trying to learn more. It is a slower paced and more relaxed way of life, that takes some getting used to but is really good I think. A lot of things are less expensive. Sometimes Mexico now reminds me a little of the US in the 1950's when I was growing up. The culture seems a little more earthy and less intellectual. The people have a great sense of humor but it tends more toward knee slappers than puns. And music! This is a place where people still sing and dance all the time. And many of them sing very well, everything from, old fashioed crooners, to opera, to rock and roll. Even the smallest restaurants have live music....See MoreThe Road Less Traveled
Comments (24)Pesky, so glad you and your son have been able to get through these difficult times. Thank you for sharing your story. I think we all learn a little and may see things a little differently after someone has written about their problems. Years ago, I stood at the same crossroads as you, took the same path, and like you, the roads met up again, for a time. A year later they separated again, for good after, 13 years of marriage. Fortunately, there were no children to get hurt. We got married just after we both turned 19. We didn't know ourselves well, let alone each other. We didn't talk about the important stuff. The infidelity was a symptom of how disconnected we were. If we had met 5 years later, I don't believe we would have been partners. I hope I have been more open and aware with my current partner. I still find it hard work sometimes. Next year will be our 25th anniversary. I wish you a Happy Thanksgiving, and continuing hope and happiness....See MoreEvery time that we break one of the rules of the road
Comments (11)It's the nuances that seem to be overlooked. I think most people follow the "rules" of the road. Even here where people drive horribly! For instance, if one is going to drive slowly, even if it is judicious to do so (it's snowy), then they should try to get as far right as possible. Nowhere is that written, but common sense makes it obvious that people WILL want to pass (maybe not smart, but they will) and are stuck doing it on the wrong side if they're moving too slowly. So staying in the left lanes (unless one is turning left) could present a hazard. It hasn't snowed here during a work day all year, so I don't mean anything specific! My biggest wincing is for people who drive really really slowly to enter the interstate/freeway. I was in a driving class when the instructor asked how to best navigate that traffic. Some said slowly, carefully. He said NO! And ended with telling the class that the exit depositing them into traffic was for speeding up to the correct rate. You could see lightbulbs going on. Thousands of pounds of steel make for a death trap. Not a toy! :)...See MoreParenting young adults: Advice & Experiences Sought
Comments (40)Lest I sound like the craziest mother on the planet for the timing of this move. We discussed and encouraged DS to take a gap year and either travel with us, or go off on his own (this is not a new idea for him- I have always liked the concept and encouraged him to consider it before) the answer from him has always been the same though- no thank you. DS is in a huge rush to become an engineer- he was born that way. Also, I had always encouraged DS to go to school on the East Coast. This idea had very little to no appeal to him. DS loves traveling the world, but when it comes to the US, he loves Northern California best of all. East Coast schools were back ups should he not have gotten into his first choice (which he was admitted to early decision.) We have kept the house in the very same town DS will go to school in and it will be occupied by our housekeeper and our cockatiel. In addition I am planning on having the kitchen remodeled, so I will have an excuse to visit every month. However, I am very sure I am not the person he will be missing the most- that distinction will be held by DS2 who is only one year behind and working very hard to get into the same school. Frosh orientation begins Spt. 19. The brothers (DS 2-4) have a two week fall break around Halloween, so perhaps a long weekend in SF could be arranged- if that seems like a good idea we could absolutely do that. And then we will spend Thanksgiving in NYC all together- and then there are three weeks for Christmas and so on and so forth. The last mitigating circumstance is that DS has a very close relationship with a professor at the school already - I am pretty sure they will see each other at least weekly at Mass (this prof. was DS's Confirmation sponsor.) Thank you so much sheesh and Kim for your kind and thoughtful feedback. Kim, I am very grateful to you for your offer of help....See More- 8 years agolast modified: 8 years ago
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