adapting kitchens for people with aging/disability issues
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Comments (150)This is unconnected to Wolf, but an interesting observation. Thanksgiving day, I used the oven in my 30 year old Vulcan for the first time while using the burners. I have a 27" wall oven that I usually use instead of heating up the behemoth and uninsulated 36" oven in the range. When the oven was preheating (which takes forever, as you may be able to imagine), I could no longer use the burner that I use 90% of the time--just hissing gas, no flame even though the pilot ws lit. I moved over a burner, and was not able to simmer. I have standing pilots, so there was no clicking, but because I was familiar with this thread, I thought I'd post the odd experience. I just wonder if some of these issues are more common in all gas ranges and if the posts have made people notice them more (not that it makes it acceptable). From a standpoint of scientific curiosity, it would be interesting to have resolution/explanation. I have been looking at Bluestar for replacing the 60" monster in the spring. I'm guessing it's a foreign problem with them?...See MoreRetirement savings or long-term disability insurance?
Comments (4)Am in my late 50's. We don't have longterm disability insurance. It's a real gamble. My dad died young, was cared for at home by my mom--no real expense there. My mother just died this past November at age 85--she was at Thanksgiving dinner with us one night, and gone the next. Long term disability? Nope--she was still living independently in her own apartment. Now, note that in her 40's she had a number of health issues--anyone guessing would probably have figured that she'd either have died early, or have been disabled for a long time, and needed a lot of care in later years. Fact is, other than her regular check ups, visits to the podiatrist to care for her feet, and having her cataracts operated on, Mom hadn't had any serious medical treatment for over 20 years when she died. My father-in-law went very quickly, too--at age 82. He was still working as a plumber in November, spent a couple of months in the hospital, then died the beg. of February. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't get the insurance--only you can decide if it's right for you. But to my way of thinking, I don't see all that many people in my life who actually need longterm care. Most seem to either go quickly, or be able to manage their needs anyway. And the insurance companies are banking on the fact that their scare tactics will get lots of people to sign up--many who will never make a claim. For example, I've got an aunt who has had earthquake insurance for many years--no matter to her that we live in an area of the country that has never had a major earthquake in anyone living's memory. But they were more than happy to sell her a policy. I think she also has flood insurance--but she lives on the 6th floor of an apartment building. We also don't get floods of any size around here. That would have to be some departure from the norm for her to collect! And what about the safety of investing in an insurance company? What if the company goes out of business in years to come? Or waht if the funds are mismanaged or depleted by embezzlement. There is a huge scandal in the country right now regarding pre-paid funerals. People paid ahead to make sure their wishes would be taken care of, and many of the funeral homes have stolen those funds and families are having to come up with money to pay the cost of a funeral twice--the second time at a much higher price. Personally (and I'm not telling you what to do)--I prefer to save and control my own money. I'm not a fan of allowing others to take my funds--as in prepaid funerals, extra insurance, IRA's, etc. I do have one small SEP account, but only because I had a year where I needed some serious deductions, and that one was a reasonable way of keeping a few more of my own dollars. It's important to me to have the freedom to invest as I choose, and to move my money from here to there, depending upon what the economy is doing. I've just known too many people who have relied on others to nurture their savings, and lost everything. My sister is a case in point--worked for over 30 years for one company, was up in corporate management when the company was sold and dessimated by a larger one. She had a GOOD pension plan--but the funds were stolen by the new management, and when the company folded, she got a measely, one-time payout of $16,000!...See MoreThe price of kitchens in the new age of revised expectations
Comments (96)Beckyg, I love what you said here: "When the kitchen designers and cabinet and appliance makers are telling me to spend 10 - 15% of my home's value on a new kitchen, I automatically cut it in half... it reminds me of how the diamond dealers came up with the idea that a man should spend 2 months salary on a ring - OR ELSE! That's ridiculous. What an arbitrary number." Totally arbitrary, I agree. I specifically told my sweetie that he shouldn't spend more than two WEEKS' salary on my ring, and he didn't. I couldn't stand the stress of walking around with $6000 or $10,000 or whatever on my finger, and there was just no way I could see that it made sense to sink so much money into a piece of jewelry. I guess the reason I'm more okay with the 10% thing on kitchens... ok, well part of it is because our house is worth maybe $270k. Actually I think that's the main reason I'm okay with it! Because 10-15% of MY house corresponds pretty well with the maximum that I think makes sense to spend on a kitchen. Haha. I can't imagine spending $150k on a kitchen. But aside from that, a kitchen--assuming you're going to live in it for a good while--has a much bigger influence on your quality of life than a ring does. The spaces we inhabit really do influence the ways we live--like the poster who talked about molesting her marble (haha) and said her kids used the new island and socialized whereas before they would've retreated to their rooms. It does matter how living spaces are designed and how they look. The way they look and they way they flow and function influences not only how you feel in them, but what you do in them. That's why I am dead set on having a banquette and table in the kitchen instead of the ubiquitous "raised edge of the counter with barstools" that our ex-architect kept pushing. We're planning on having kids soon, and it would be what, six years or more before they'd be big enough to easily use barstools and a raised counter?! Whereas little kids can easily sit on banquettes, space to hold kids' toys can be built into banquettes, AND our friends can sit there too when they're visiting. Space matters!...See MoreWeek 133 - Do you judge people by their kitchen?
Comments (72)This is a very interesting discussion. I would say I generally don't, unless it's filthy. However, I will say that if I see a kitchen that I know was expensive and it's really poorly laid out, I do kind of judge the owner a bit. We were at a home recently where the original owners had lots of money and little taste, and some acquaintances bought the house and didn't change anything, even the garish paint colors and an over abundance of tropically themed décor in a part of the country FAR from the tropics. The kitchen was about the most non-functional kitchen I've seen for the size. There was a huge island off to one side, and the sink was way off to another side in it's own little island area with almost no counter space around it. There was very little storage. I kept looking at it wondering how she could stand to cook in there, and she's a good cook. @townlakecakes, I totally hear you on the friend who makes comments. We are building a house and have a BIL who is like that. We didn't even invite them over to see the build for a long time because we knew he'd make comments. His idea is that you should spend as little money as possible on everything (which is very evident in their own new home) and makes little comments on everything, such as the new washer/dryer I bought early to use here at the old house because my other washer died. It's really nothing fancy, and we got it way on sale, but he still acted like it was top of the line. We really aren't wealthy, but we've made choices in terms of schooling and job choice that has placed us at an economic advantage to them and another sibling. They are good, honest, hard working people, but just don't have much. It's a little uncomfortable building this place knowing how far out of reach it is for them. And if you saw it, you wouldn't really think it was all that exciting, definitely not high end anything. It's one reason I'm glad we decided to go with a laminate countertop. It's one less thing to worry about and one less thing for them to focus on. I'm sure there will be those who wonder why we didn't go quartz or granite, but we made the decision we did for good reasons and we're at peace with it. I have tried very hard not to talk too much about the build and definitely not complain about some of the issues that have cropped up when I'm talking to the SIL who struggles the most, but I'm sure there have been times I have slipped, so I get what you're saying, Aprilneverends....See MorePatricia Colwell Consulting
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