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Comments (32)Here is one more suggestion. I didn't read everything above so I hope this is not duplicated. About a year ago I was telling a single mom of 4 that I know how stressed i get over dinner. I felt pressure to be creative and cook sophisticated things sometimes...but it was hard to pick recipes, the kids (9,7,4) and DH are all kind of picky, and it was not fun. She said that she used a plan that would help but first I have to let go of the impression that I needed to be creative and have a lot of variety. My goal (according to her and I agree) should be first, to feed the family, and second, keep stress in the house to a minimum. Here is the plan she taught me. First, you pick a set of 4 meals that are easy, reliable, and well-received in your house. In our house, it is tacos, enchiladas, spaghetti with meat sauce or meatballs, and one chicken dish. Set a schedule using your list. At our house, Monday is taco night, Tuesday enchilada, Wed spaghetti, Thursday is chicken. Have easy veggie dishes always on hand. For us, it is always raw carrots and salad. Fruit is easy. So every night we generally have a well balanced meal consisting of a protein, 2 veggies, and fruit. It is easy to shop. With my menu being so ground beef focused, If I'm so inclined it is easy to prepare 4 or 5 pounds of ground beef on Monday and use the leftovers on the subsequent nights. This plan makes grocery shopping incredibly easy, too. We always buy taco shells, tortillas, taco sauce, shredded cheese, lots of ground beef, veggies, and salad. (RE: the cheese, I buy a ton whenever it is on sale and keep it in the freezer. no need to thaw - I just dump whatever amount I need into the pan frozen. it also melts pretty well in the micro if you need - just don't put the timer on too long). Once you have this framework in place, 4 nights are taken care of and if you want to be creative or take more time, you can do it on Fri, Sat, or Sun when (I hope) you have more time or a less rigid schedule. Or during the week sometimes I mix it up if I feel like it and had the time. One surprising outcome of this plan in my house is that EVERYONE is happier. I thought the kids or DH would object to it being boring, but at least at these ages the kids enjoy the predictibilty. Often they hated my "creative" stuff and now they know what they're going to get. Good luck to you! Oh, RE: the dishwasher, I have a lot of faith in a good husband. What would he do if you showed him your post? What would he do if you sat down with him when you're totally calm and not stressed and set a goal together of making dinners less stressful? State the problem and tell him you got a bunch of ideas from your friends here. Ask him to brainstorm with you what ideas would help make dinners better. If you approach it as a teammate with him and look for joint solutions, I would predict that the dishes thing will come up and you'll get buy-in from him. With my husband, a few years ago I had these expectations that if I was gone in the evening, he'd do everything with the kids and the house that I would do (ie, get them to bed on time, clean up the kitchen) before he moved on to his leisure activities. When I would arrive home and he didn't, I'd get mad, fights would ensue, blah blah blah. When someone is mad at you, it is very difficult to see their point :) So one day I wised up and I told him calmly that when I go out in the evening (which is rare) to relax and get away from the craziness here, I get immediately stressed again when I walk back into a trashed kitchen and a living room with crap all over the place. I'm not a neatnik by any means, but this was ridiculous! So once I told him without the anger what I hoped for, he did it. I was half amazed at the power of just being assertive and nice and asking for what I needed, and half depressed that I was so old before I figured it out! Again, good luck! anita...See MoreDesign Within Reach - Globus Chairs Hair pulling problem... literally.
Comments (4)What a strange problem. I am familiar with these chairs. It sounds to me that the rivets are not fully seated. You could go back to the store and see if all the chairs are like this. Are yours in fact defective or is this a design flaw. If they are all like this and you want to keep them, you might go to Home Depot and buy a small tube of clear silicone caulking and carefully apply a small bead of caulk around each rivet. You would only need a fraction of an inch around each rivet. The silicone might eventually fall out. A better product but hard to apply is called Quad (caulking) in the paint dept, only available in larger tubes that you will need a caulking gun. This product would probably never fall out but it tends to be messy. You might have to carefully tape off the inside and outside of the rivet leaving small space around the rivet and then apply it smoothly with the tip of your finger. You might want to wear throw away gloves as it is hard to get off your fingers. By the way, if anyone is interested, Quad for just about any exterior caulking, is superior to any other product, windows, doors, installing doors and windows, gutter sealing, under flashing, etc.. I have even re-glued torn roof shingles with it (cover the shingle under the torn shingle with quad but make sure the surface under the shingle is dry. You can dry this area with a hot hair dryer first. Press down the torn shingle into the caulking and then press on the outer surface of the torn shingle with a small board to force it evenly into the caulking beneath it). It stays flexible and is very permanent but it can be removed with a scraper and paint thinner....See MoreThoughts on my kitchen & pantry floor plan?
Comments (20)1) Does the dish drawer open towards the dishwasher? I like the idea of the work flow, but how will the island look having drawers/cabinets on adjacent sides? I'm having a hard time visualizing that. The dish drawer opens toward the DW--sorry, I usually use arrows, but forgot. The side of the cabinet facing the great room would have a panel. If the island is 8' wide, there would be enough space for three seats (24" per seat) along the back. Similar to these, but with drawers: 2) Is my kitchen really big enough for 2 sinks? How big is the typical prep sink? To be honest, I always thought they were luxury items. The size of the kitchen has less to do with it than the number of cooks, and layout of the appliances. A kitchen with an island is a perfect place for a prep sink--the cook/prepper can face the living areas while prepping (and if you have kids sitting at the island, face them, rather than facing a wall, with your back to the kids.) It also gives you extra spaces for prep, when your husband and kids can help, or room for helpers when you are entertaining. I'd suggest at least an 18" prep sink, although the one I drew looks more like 24". I have a second sink, and it's nice for someone else to be able to use it for prepping or hand-washing when the main sink is in use. I also use it to thaw and rinse meat, since it's smaller and easier to clean, and while my kitchen is not kosher, I like that raw meat doesn't get rinsed in the same sink I use for dishes and sippy cups. I usually post this link for newcomers, too, but forgot: New to Kitchens? Read me first. One other thing--I would not recommend putting a countertop MW on a shelf in an island. Think about bending over to set the timer, and then reaching in to remove the hot food. It might not be so bad for you, but your husband would be uncomfortable. If you don't want a MW on the counter, the only alternative to a MW drawer is one in an upper cabinet, and I like the windows on the back wall the way I drew them. It's more convenient to locate a MW near the fridge, but maybe it could go on a shelf above the DW, on the short wall, since dishes would be kept in the drawers in the island. ETA, found a new pic, just posted on the Remodeling forum:...See MoreDesign Within Reach Sial Rugs
Comments (4)I had the same problem. A guest spilled a cup of water on the carpet and I thought it was no big deal. After it dried the spot turned yellow. I used a high-end carpet cleaner and it still cannot remove it. The fibers are very fragile, every time I vacuumed the carpet, the amount of fiber loss worried me. I love the look of Sial, but it is definitely more of a showpiece than a functional one....See More- 8 years ago
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