I'M TIRED OF RESEARCHING RANGES!
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Comments (25)Early, quiet morning here and as I read, it takes me right back to the feeling of chaos that seemed to prevail during our remodel. Whole house really -- as of today there is not a room that will not have been "touched" in some way, not including the three level addition that had to be situated just so to "save" two beloved trees on our property. My GC just kept shaking his head at that one -- they are right next to the house and whenever the guys were working they would jokingly say -"Lord, don't throw anything out the windows, you know, you might hit a tree." We began in July, estimated finish date was Nov. -- last install went in 2 DAYS AGO! I spent yesterday madly unpacking boxes, just b/c I wanted to see our stuff again! While we had a fabulous GC, it did not lessen the pressure of making the "right" decision every single day for something. I was here most of the time and saw it all in minute detail, then my beloved DH would come home from work and say, "So, what DID they do today?" and expected a re-hash of each and every thing, wanted an updated timeline on a daily basis, wanted me to enlighten him on what "process" I used for each decision, etc. I finally said, "Look, you and I have talked this to death, I know what is important to you and you are just going to have to TRUST that it will happen." I was so exhausted at the end of every day that it was like re-living it all over again. He finally got it, and I tried hard to give him the Reader's Digest condensed version on a regular basis. I eventually convinced him we were going to be on the "holiday" schedule -- nope, not hosting Thanksgiving dinner at our house; there will be no Christmas office celebration here - unless they don't mind unzipping the plastic wall to view our Charlie Brown tree in the roped off corner of the family room; New Year's is out; Valentine's will be an intimate affair; St. Patty's Day will have to be celebrated next year; April's Fools' - yep we can do that, b/c there have been definite times during this that I have been a complete fool -- embrace it, just don't expect there to be any furniture to sit on; Easter Brunch for the relatives - nope, not happening; Mother's Day - not too sure about that, but we CAN celebrate the fact that the Port-A-Potty has been loaded up and carted away, the dumpster vacated the premises the next day, and the plastic storage POD that has graced our front yard since October has been emptied and removed! All furniture is piled in the front room, but at least it is IN THE HOUSE! A parent of a teammate on my son's lacrosse team asked me last week -- "We had such a great time at that picnic/party at your house at the end of the season last year -- do you think we could do that again?" "Um, let's see," she thinks to herself, "last game May 9th and you would like to do it that afternoon and....have families and sibs of everyone included - hhmm, back yard/field is currently a sea of red clay, boxes and furniture stacked to the ceiling to unpack/organize, but.....bathrooms work, kitchen is functional --- Oh, why not -- let's do it!" Nothing like a deadline to work toward, right? Hang in there -- it is so hard to see the forest for the trees when you are in the midst, but, it is not eternal damnation, although I know it feels that way at times! Hug your husband, partner, kids, pet, neighbor, grocery clerk, mailman -- whoever is willing to lend you a shoulder for a bit. This will eventually end and you will live in it and love in it and cry in it some more and have your life back to "normal"..........See MoreI'm tired of hunting & gathering! I want to START something!!!
Comments (29)Ya know, for some dumb reason mosaics scared me a bit, too. I jumped right into leaded stained glass (took a class), then taught myself foiled stained glass, then looked at the scrap pile from those two and said "Self - you are a tightwad and you CANNOT throw those glass scraps away - find something pretty to do with them". So, I started reading on the internet ... and reading library books... and reading message boards ... and still hadn't done anything. Finally one day I just said "screw it" and jumped right in. Frankly, my creations still look like I said "screw it" ~ lol ~ but it's the most fun I've had in a while! Just jump in an have fun hon and if your stuff falls apart, salvage what you can and start all over again with your new lessons firmly stuck in your brain. You'll get nothing but support and cyber hugs from the crew on these boards. It's the nicest learning place I've found on the internet in a l-o-n-g time....See More1 year 2 1/2 months on the market.... I'm tired!
Comments (13)RE: Motivation Personally I'd say that you need to look inside yourself at what you want (why you're selling the house) instead of where you are. I'm trying not to be too cold here but you really need to get over the motivation issue and just "get 'er done" If you're suffering motivational issues then you need to drop the price and get the deal over with. For example, if I said I'd have your house sold in a month but you'd need to pay X amount out of pocket, what would be the maximum X amount that you'd accept....there's your number. RE: House Condition This is a problem, people are looking for a home in most cases, no a house (investors or single people would be the exception). Would you want to buy a messy home? Surely you've read all of the tips on selling and have implemented all of them. A few of the bigger 'violators' that I've seen: remove personal effects (photos, family heirlooms, etc) RE: Showings Keep in mind that you can say no. I'd be frank with realtors and ask if they've prequalified their buyers and why they want to look at your place. Be warned however that some realtors will be offended and might not show your place in the future. If you agent has it together they should be making follow-up calls to their showing agents and ask why their buyers didn't want the place and what would need to happen to get an offer. Our realtor did this with our place and he was one of the best I've seen. What does a market analysis look like for comparable homes in your area? RE: Listing If the house is as large as you say I'd look for homeschool or other groups that have large families in your area and ask if you could forward the listing information to their email distribution list or drop off some flyers. Some of these organizations tend to be close knit and information will get around fast. RE: Contract Make the contract time as short as possible. There are many buyers holding out for 'the big drop' and the longer you wait the worse it will get as people see longer times on the market. Start of '07 with a bang and get it sold.........See MoreLast post was made when tired, done research, have a few questions :)
Comments (6)The first box should be lined w/ 2-3 layers of newspaper at the bottom to prevent fall-throughs. Subsequent tiers should not be lined so the worms can migrate up. The newspaper lining of the first box will eventually be consumed by the worms but it will help hold the initial contents for a while.I use a mixture of both shredded papers and coarsely torn cardboard for beddings. The cardboard I understand should be plain w/o tape/plastic coating. They hold their shapes longer than wet shredded newspapers and thus allow for better air-flow rather than collapsing and clumping like wet paper when moist foodstuffs are added. I'd give the shredded papers a quick dunk and the spray down the whole pile afterwards w/ a squirt bottle. The cardboard I'd leave dry. I don't think the exact measures are so crucial but it should include a couple handfuls of your garden soil to inculcate the batch w/ the local microorganisms. Similarly a couple handfuls of grit should suffice. Retailed vermicomposters come w/ a bag of diatomaceous earth. It provides absorbancy to prevent excess liquid pooling in the bin and cause bad odors as well as trace elements for the worms. The silica in the diatomaceous earth is meant as the grit in those manufactured composter....See Moregcpda09
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