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Time for an update!

8 years ago
last modified: 8 years ago

I know it's been a while! Since y'all have been such an important part of our journey I feel the need to let you all know what is happening.

Finally Wednesday we received the flood insurance check for our structure! That took a very long time, but it has been that way for everyone. Thankfully, they gave us the full amount of our policy as it should be since it was a catastrophic loss. This will make transitioning much easier for us. We have a contract for purchase of the house, we have been waiting for this check before going forward with the sale. The insurance company did not include Bank of America anywhere on the check, it was made out just for the 2 of us! Yes!!! We have not heard anything yet on the contents coverage check and if we will get it or if we will have to enter a legal battle with bank of America for not paying the premium out of our escrow as they were supposed to and causing us not to have our coverage.

Hubby's company has offered to move us back to Dallas if we are interested and have him work there again. We had not considered that because his desire is to retire shortly after the beginning of the year. We shall see. I have daily been looking for properties online in various areas around here. They are flying off the market as soon as they come on. So many people who are now homeless are all looking.

We had an issue with FREEDOM. We suddenly were flooding inside! Like we needed to see water ever again anywhere! I noticed it because the beautiful wood floors were starting to buckle. It was seeping in under the floor. We had to take her back for them to find what was happening so we moved back to my friend's house for a couple of days. They were great at finding and fixing the problem quickly. There was a bad connection in one of the water lines. They replaced the wood floors and everything that was affected. All in all we have been very happy and comfortable in FREEDOM.

Mamapinky had asked me about the washer dryer combo we have. I love this thing! I may have one in my next home, I don't know why more houses in the US don't use these. They are very common in the European countries. This one is made in Italy. It is a Splendide WD 2100xc and I will provide a link for mama and anyone else that is interested. It is so nice to just put clothes in and out one time!

I absolutely LOVE SunnyBella chair! I am so glad I decided to try a chair instead of a scooter. I can get around so much easier and faster. Hubby can assemble and disassemble it in just minutes. My friend and I take it with us shopping and the 2 of us can do it ourselves. The heaviest part is like 30 lbs. We have so many people stop and ask about it. I sold one Saturday, a gentleman came and watched hubby take it apart and put it in the back of the blazer. He said he had looked at one where I bought mine and he was trying to decide. I told him to stop and go get it for his wife. He said he was going to do that lol.

Mia and I have been having some health issues, stress and nerves playing a part I am sure. We have all lost some weight, but Mia can't afford to lose much. She has an appointment Saturday.

When I got that big check in the mail I thought to myself well that burying the money sure paid off this year lol!

We are thankful and just waiting to see what the next part of our journey will entail.

http://www.splendide.com/splendide_wd2100xc.htm

Comments (36)

  • 8 years ago

    Raven, I am so sorry you had to deal with flooding, yet again! Were you born under a water sign or somethin'?

    But, I am so glad that Freedom was completely repaired, that you received your check and that things are looking up. I hope you don't end up having to do battle with B of A; hopefully. If I were queen of the world, they would admit fault and settle with you.

    Your hubby must be highly regarded at his company for them to make an offer of a transfer to Dallas. Even though he plans to retire soon, it is nice to have that option on the table.

    Excellent news that the chair is working out so well for you.

    Now, that you have less to worry about, you and Mia need to settle down and put on a few pounds. That is a problem many of us would like to have!

    ravencajun Zone 8b TX thanked Rosie
  • 8 years ago

    Whoooeeee! A cheque made out in YOUR name instead of the dreaded B/A. For sure it will be smooth sailing from here.

    Is the house you're looking at still on the market, or are you having to look at several?

    Thank heavens Freedom was just a leak, and quickly fixed. Great customer service. Great news about the chair too. You'll be a national spokesperson for the company!

    Both Bud and I need to lose weight, but it would be hell, doing it the way you did. I just learned that cats should only lose 1-2 pounds per year. Their kidneys can't take it, losing weight faster than that.

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  • 8 years ago

    Oh believe me, I need to lose many more lbs lol but I am glad to see some falling off. I agree the stress diet is a tough one, but all of them are. Hubby has lost a dramatic amount of weight (4 pants sizes), and he was not a large guy. It has me worried. We are both scheduled for our blood work up and chest x-rays. I will be scheduling surgery very soon to repair my hernia which I have had to put off due to this mess.

  • 8 years ago

    This is very good news, Raven. This will allow you to fully move forward. Though I have to say that I have been in awe of your spirit throughout your ordeals.

    What is the brand of wheelchair you purchased? All I remember is that it's bright yellow!

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  • 8 years ago

    You need that lottery ticket.

    Thanks for the update. Hope your and Mia's health issues get better soon.

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  • 8 years ago

    Good news update


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  • 8 years ago

    Thanks for the update, it is nice that you can now really start to have a life again. Best wish’s for every thing to fall in place again for you and yours.

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  • 8 years ago

    So glad things are moving forward for you. The 'flying off the market' thing predated the flood, I had 10 offers in two days, sold my house on the 3rd day and it sold a couple weeks prior to the flood. Approximately half the offers were over the asking price.

    You have to be an aggressive fast buyer. Better yet, since you are such a nice person, find a realtor you like in your area who will call you right when a likely property is listed.

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  • 8 years ago

    Raven. Good news about the check. Yea! Good news about FREEDOM. Not good news about you and Mia not being completely healthy. Get to the doctor for Mia and you dear.

    Thank You for thinking about me in regards to the washer/dryer. I will read your link later today. I'm glad you like them.

    Good luck to Mr. Raven and you in your decision about the job move. This is for sure a important thing for you two to decide on.

    Get better Raven so you can truely enjoy your new life choices.

    I have you and Mia in my Prayers.

    ravencajun Zone 8b TX thanked mamapinky0
  • 8 years ago

    rhizo my chair is a Pride go go chair

    https://www.pridemobility.com/p/go-chair

  • 8 years ago

    I loved your beautiful home makeover Raven. It was the best of the best in every room! I'm glad your able to move forward, it would be very stressful. Mia is a little cutie pie. I hope all she needs is more treats. :0) Take care of yourselves. Good to hear your update.

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    8 years ago

    Do you want to live in Dallas? Do you have family there or are they all in the Houston area? I'd take the transfer. The housing market might not be quite as tight there. Do a bit of research online.

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  • 8 years ago

    Hip Hip Hooray! Glad you have the resources to move on. I hope everyone checks out okay.

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  • 8 years ago

    I wouldn't want to move to Dallas again. Too many people and very aggressive traffic. I remember Houston having terrible traffic too, 40 years ago when I lived there. I want to live closer to the beach (Gulf) but then we have the hurricane issues. I am just enamored of the Gulf coast of Texas.

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  • 8 years ago
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    We lived in the Dallas area for years and got asked to move here for my husband to open the Houston branch of the company. They are now well established here so he does not have to be here now. He would be going back to the corporate headquarters in Dallas. We have lots of friends there and great doctors but I don't care much for the traffic or heat. I like the Houston outlying area. Love the Gulf coast but after the floods and devastation I am not as fond of living there as I once was. If we went back to the Dallas area it would be north side. We lived outside of Plano before where every property was a minimum of 2 acres. I don't like really close neighbors. But he would have a much longer commute.

  • 8 years ago

    Please send me some of the weight you've been losing since I am now down to 80 pounds. All in all your update is good news....the check, the leak in Freedom fixed, etc. Perhaps you should get the vet to check out Mia just to be on the safe side and you get all of your bloodwork done too. I don't envy you the surgery for hernia repair. Continue to keep us posted on what you intend to do about moving or staying in the area where you are.

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  • 8 years ago

    Glad to read the update. TV stations were showing your area and how it's been three months and people are still suffering. Sad that the news drops coverage of areas hit by disasters. Hope next year is a way better year for you.

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  • 8 years ago

    Linda I sincerely wish that was possible because I have plenty to share with you lol. I have a vet appointment tomorrow morning for Mia. She will have some blood work done and get a good check up. She is due for one of her shots too. She needs to put some weight on, I don't like seeing her this thin. She is eating well and drinking but having tummy distress.

    This area is still like a war zone it's very depressing and I don't know if it will recover. Sad to see. I wish we could find out where those millions of dollars in donations for the victims went because no one I know got any.

  • 8 years ago
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    Raven, since everything flooded so bad and all the sewers backed up, do you think she could be picking up something when she walks outside and then licks her feet?

    ETA: Missing donations. That's why we wanted to donate directly to you and Marilyn.

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  • 8 years ago

    You've both been through so much. Retirement may be more tempting right now, but...there's a lot to be said for NOT retiring. Might you move somewhere in Dallas that is not a terrible commute for now? Then you could leisurely look for a home *anywhere* when 'the commute' is not an issue.



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  • 8 years ago

    Sherry, I have definitely considered that and it sure could be possible. We had everything power washed and used the solutions that were recommended to try to neutralize everything but who knows. That is the main reason I want to have her checked for any type of bacterial etc infections in her tummy. She had a bacterial infection once and had similar symptoms. I even bought her some tiny doggy shoes, but that was a waste of money lol. She would not move just stand there in a frozen position. Then kick her feet like she was doing the Hokey Pokey lol.

    Hubby was trying to retire last year when that flood happened so he has been ready for a while now. He has been with them for 20 years, but they don't want him to retire.

  • 8 years ago

    Please let us know what the vet has to say after Mia is checked. And let us know how your bloodwork turns out too. I will be praying for good results for both of you and your hubby too. I know you take a lot of vitamins, so I sure hope you are taking some immune builders. Let us know also when you are scheduled for your hernia repair.

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  • 8 years ago

    No, none of ours would of walked in shoes! Ever! Get them to check for giardia. Maybe, just wash her feet when she comes inside. It is probably just nerves, but it doesn't hurt to be sure.

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  • 8 years ago

    We are back. I definitely had them check for giardia and they think she might have it again. They put her on a round of flagyl which works well for her. They took samples to send off. She has lost weight. She was 7 lbs and now is 5.8 lbs. The vet thinks that the changes in environment and the turmoil have a lot to do with it.

    Thanks for the the good wishes!

  • 8 years ago

    Hugs to you both.

    ravencajun Zone 8b TX thanked Sherry8aNorthAL
  • 8 years ago

    I'm so glad things are moving forward for you and your family. May they continue in good health and no more leaking waters.

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  • 8 years ago

    Oh, Raven. It is so good to hear that some things are looking up for you and Mr. Raven. Am glad that Mia is on meds now. Hopefully, she will get well and quit losing weight. Love your washer and have bookmarked the link. I might want one of those in the future. They would be great for a small laundry room, too. And especially nice for singles. Your chair looks like it is fun to ride in and maneuver. So glad to get your update.

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  • 8 years ago

    I only mentioned the retirement part because it is a major change for many men. Some people love the change immediately; some feel lost for a while without that 'normal'. Anyway, it's very nice to have the *choice*!

    I hope Mia perks up soon.

    Hernia repair isn't usually a snap recovery, so I hope you can get more permanently settled before having it. You don't want to be tempted to be moving stuff around!

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  • 8 years ago

    Raven thanks for the update! Take Dallas, as a temp option. Park freedom and start looking for something permanent. Maybe hubby can hang around as a consultant and only work a day or two a week?


    Moni


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  • 8 years ago

    Glad to hear things are looking up. This has been stressful for all of you including Mia. What does hubby want to do? I know some people that say retiring is the best thing they ever did, and others who never want to retire.

    Linda, 80lbs? I can't remember when I weighed that little.

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  • 8 years ago

    Thank you for the update. I'm happy to read that things are beginning to look up for y'all. You've been on such a long, rough road, with still a ways to go, but hopefully a smoother path is in the near future!

    Rusty

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  • 8 years ago

    Is Mia doing any better?

  • 8 years ago

    Yes she is much improved. No more diarrhea. I think she is feeling better. I have medication for her for several days. Thanks for thinking about her.

  • 8 years ago

    I'm glad to hear things are looking up for you. You've just been through so much.

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  • 8 years ago

    You just keep on keepin' on Raven. Sorry about the setback with Freedom, glad it is taken care of. Great news about the check. Can't wait for the day you say DH is retired and you are both totally free. Then it's on like Donkey Kong lol.

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