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Comments (1)Yes. Almost as much as when they don't tell us where they live or what kind of grass they want to have. A polite word of thanks would be appreciated if only to let us know that the communication went through. I don't expect everyone to keep us informed as to how things went for them, but I can say that I have learned the most from posters who do follow through and explain what they did and what happened....See MoreDoes Mosaic Disease bother you?
Comments (14)I do not keep any roses infected with Rose Mosaic Disease in my garden. They never perform as well, and are never as healthy as those that are not infected. They also tend to have short life spans. I get very angry at nurseries that knowingly keep propagating infected stock for sale. It's totally unethical and irresponsible. As far as I'm concerned, they are ripping people off. I would rather do without a rose than to buy one that has virus. It is spread by either grafting an infected scion onto rootock, or by using infected rootstock for grafting the scion onto. Once infected, any cuttings taken from the rose will also be infected. It can only be cleaned up with a heat treating process called indexing. It is generally thought that it cannot be spread from plant to plant with pruners or by insects. There is a possibility that there can be some contamination through the ground through root grafting. However, there is a doctor that I have spoken to, through an Eliza lab that I have used for testing, that believes there is still a chance of contamination by leaving the roses in the ground. His advice was to remove the roses involved, and to get as much of the roots that I could out of the ground for dispoasl. Not everyone wants to remove their roses even if infected, as the chances for cross contamination are very slim, but I will never take a chance and leave an unhealthy speciman in the ground. Keep in mind that a rose can be infected and never show leaf symptoms. They usually are not very healthy roses though. It is absolutely amazing to see how a non-infected rose performs compared to the same exact one that is infected. I don't feel you need to overwhelm yourself and rush out and remove all your bushes in a frenzy. I feel you should demand a refund from wherever you purchased the roses. When it comes time to get more roses, and as you have the time and energy to replace them, a reputable nursery will tell you if the rose in question has been tested and certified clean, and/or has been virus indexed (heat treated). I think you will be happier in the long haul if you plant as many healthy roses as possible. I would like to mention that heat treating cannot be done at home. It is a very specialized and controlled (and lengthy) process. Good luck. I feel very strongly about the sale of virused roses. I've been the unhappy recipient of many. Even with several of them being refunded, it did not compensate me for all the work involved, or my time. sandy...See MoreWhite Molding/Trim, but Off-White Cabinets...does this bother you
Comments (12)rdas, Have you thougt about lighting? In my kitchen the lighting effects the color of my paint. My cabinets are a shade or so warmer than the bright trim throughout the rest of my house. But, the lighting that comee in from the windows changes the color of the cabinets throughout the day. Slightly of course. And at night the glow from the undercab lighting and the accent lighting also has an effect. My paints appear so close they look like they match. Only I know because I ordered different paint colors. Can I see a difference up close? Not really and this may be because they are by the same paint manufacturer and truly just a shade appart. You will be in a different situation because my cabs are painted and yours are custom ordered. I can only imagine the stress you are under trying to match. I also have the factor of the The Tan Coat wall paint color draws the eye away from whites fighting with each other. Sorry there are pieces of trim missing in this pic. Still trying to finish the kitchen. I hope this can give you an idea that whatever you do choose will probably be closer than you realize. You have excellent taste and I know your kitchen will be amazing. ~boxerpups...See More"You guys"...does it bother you?
Comments (77)TG, it's not a Texas thing (that's just what that particular study was focused on), it's a human thing. When we want to fit in, or just be well understood, in a group who speak differently, we tend to pick up bits of their accents (unconsciously--though I'm sure Mimipadv is right about the pandering, and could add con men to the list who do it on purpose), and if it's an accent from our native cultures, even if not our normal way of speech, we tend to go in for the whole thing to the degree to which we want to fit in. If we want to establish ourselves as the real deal, the accent may actually be stronger for than the people who always speak that way. It works the opposite way too. People who want to retain their senses of who they are find it difficult to lose their accents when speaking in a foreign language. They may have surface thoughts that they really want to speak more like a native, but in their hearts they don't want to let go of their own ways of speaking. There's often an element of classism in that. You've heard the old saw about everyone attending Oxford University coming out with the Oxford accent? I don't know that that's true anymore, and in the past there have been people who have worked hard to shed it, but, in general, when anyone with foreign or lower class accent was there, there would be such massive social pressure to change that it happened and stuck through their lives. Similarly, when people feel the opposite of wanting to fit in, especially if they feel that their origins are superior to the group they're among, their own accents are less likely to soften. That doesn't have to be class based, or alienation, however, and could just be retaining a sense of identity to their origins and selfhoods. Or something like that. :) I have a friend I rarely see in person (we e-mail a lot), who is from D.C. I noticed last time we had dinner together--here in California--that I was stretching words at the end of an intonation (I think that's what it is) in the D.C. way. I guess that was my unconscious way of embracing her. :) My own accent pops out most when I'm with people who speak with a Western drawl, but it retains that, um, well, "surfer" bit....See More- 8 years agoMarilyn Sue thanked dcarch7 d c f l a s h 7 @ y a h o o . c o m
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