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Rosie1949
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SD's birthday (I just need to vent !!!!)
Comments (19)Hi all, I just wanted to update on SD's birthday party. It was today and it was GREAT. After telling SD that BM told us she was going to do something with her on a different weekend, SD hadn't asked again about her mom or sister coming to her party. Her mom, of course, didn't call her at all this week and called her on Saturday (her real birthday) and talked for about five minutes. She actually cut off SD when she was telling her something and said she had to go. (her boyfriend's kids had a baseball game so that might be why. Then, her sister called her in the evening while we were out to dinner. Then, today was her party and just about an hour before it ended, BM's mother drove up with SD's sister. We were cutting the cake and my MIL asked her to come sit down. She told her, 'no, we just came to drop of a present. We weren't invited so we can't stay.' We gave SD's sister a piece of cake but grandma declined taking a piece. Then they left. A while later, SD told me she gave her sister a ring pop and I asked her why she didn't stay. SD said, 'I thought she wasn't allowed' and I told her 'who said? It's your party and they could have stayed.' SD looked puzzled and said 'oh' and wasn't fazed. She had a great time and said that her friends told her it was the best party they'd ever been to. SD had a wonderful time and she's so happy. (I also have to add, that BM's mother drove an hour each way to drop off her present. She brought her a bouquet of tulips and a Toy's R Us gift card) and I just wanted to add a picture of her cake. I spent two and a half days baking & decorating it myself......See Morewhat do i need to know to mail my invites (post office stuff)
Comments (4)Since your envelopes may be a non-standard size (most square ones are non-standard), you definitely need to take one to the post office and ask a clerk to tell you how much it will cost to mail each of them. If they are large squares, they will probably cost the equavilent of a 37 cent and a 23 cent stamp, or 60 cents each to mail. You would then purchase as many 60-cent stamps as you need and attach them at home. The problem occurs when brides assume that all envelopes only need a 37-cent stamp. Then, they receive all of their invitations back with big postal stamps saying "additional postage required" all over them, ruining the look of the invitation. If you purchased your invitations through an invitations dealer, they should have told you if you would need extra postage for the size envelope that you chose. If your invitation has a bow on it or anything else that causes the envelope to not be perfectly flat, then all of them will need to be hand cancelled. The postal clerk can tell you if you need that or not. Most mail is run through machines, but the machines can only handle flat items. Items that need to be hand cancelled are cancelled one-by-one by a postal employee, not a machine. In some small communities or places with unusual wedding-related names, such as Bridal Veil, Oregon, you can mail your invitations and all of them will be hand cancelled with a cancellation containing the name of the post office. Your postal clerk should be able to tell you everything that you need to know to mail your invitations without problems....See MoreI was invited to come to this site...and thanks
Comments (63)I'm so very very sorry to read this postingand my sympthy goes out to you. I've been absent for sometime so wasn't aware until just now. It isn't easy being a step Mom and probably isn't always easy for the children either, but they should try to dwell on what made their father happy. The love we have for our children will always be there, but it is not the same type of love we have for our spouse, in my opinion. One does not take away from the other. I lost my partner very suddenly in the Dr.'s office 12 years ago. It is hard but you will cope. I have 10 step children. My thoughts and prayers are with you too. I have great feelings for the strength of prayers. Glad you have joined the Kitchen Table. It is such a wonderful source of help and compassion....See MoreWedding Invitation - weird, or just me?
Comments (23)Since I am looking at this subject as a mother who has just recently completed a guest list with my daughter and her fiancé for their wedding, I would like to give your nephew the benefit of the doubt. Tough job. Who knows what was going through his mind when he invited your mother but it was probably meant to be kind. We are more worried that we will be offending people that feel they should have been invited. But you can't invite everyone you know. DD and fiance said from the beginning that the bride and groom's Aunts and Uncles and their spouses would be invited. And their kids and spouses/guests. Otherwise you are gonna pi** somebody off. Well the groom has 14 paternal Aunts and Uncles. And 8 maternal Aunts and Uncles. Big family. And my DH and I also have lots of sibs. Cuts down on the number of invites and you find yourself crossing people off the list. Anyway, I guess my point is...I think that most of the time there aren't that many invitations to go around and if all of you...and your mom got one, it' probably sincere. Call me naive too :-)...See MoreAnneCecilia z5 MI
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