A very upsetting afternoon in the neighborhood.
9 years ago
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So upset, and I should've done more.
Comments (30)Isn't that unreal? Yes, I've been asking around for years now, since hearing that, and they do have a problem getting adopted. I suppose it could be a regional thing. The shelters won't let them go (or any cats, I think) around Halloween, either, because there are people out there who do bad things to them. That's when they're in demand. I hold my guy even tighter when I think of that. Just for the record, mine has brought me nothing but love and joy : ) Well, maybe not enTirely! as that mischievous young boy used to chase my little girl mercilessly when she was still with us. He's not too good with the girls, but my other female eventually fell in love him, anyway. I guess she likes those Bad boys, lol. He's draped across my chest right now : )...See MoreI am very upset. I need some kitchen friends
Comments (150)boxerpups - such a sad situation for that young girl - and surely her sister too. it does sound like she is acting out and I do agree that you should contact the teacher. maybe someone can intervene with her. life is tuff enough for young people today and that girl has more than any one young person should have working against her. i don't think i'd go the court route (don't think you will either). in the end it could cause more trouble for your dd and your family than it's worth. i'm not saying the young girl isn't worth it or that we don't have the right to be upset when someone damages our property. but in the end, a fridge is a fridge and hopefully will be fixed w/o much expense. OTOH, I do think the young girl needs confronted about it. for her good! and i think it is something you could handle. holding someone to account is not mean, it is the more loving thing to do for them. short term upset for long term gain. it might not show in her in the near future, but it will be going around in her head that someone was more concerned about her future than a material thing. it sounds like she has been raised to think that things are more important than she is. until you decide how to fix the fridge door, i think i'd use it as a prayer reminder for that young girl. and a thank you for the blessings you and your family have in each other. and as for getting a new puppy after the loss of another very loved furbaby, my belief is that the best way to honor my precious gone to heaven furbaby is to find another furbaby in need of a loving home and lots of spoiling! i think that makes them very happy!...See Morei am soo upset.......
Comments (16)I found a neighbor's cat in the road right next to their house, which was a corner house on a fairly busy street. I stopped to take it out of the road, thinking it was dead, and discovered it was still alive. I took it to their house, only to discover they were out and a babysitter was there. She didn't want anything to do with it, so I told her to have them call me when they got home, and I took the cat home with me. I called a vet, but he said he wouldn't treat the cat without the owner's permission. I told him I couldn't get ahold of the owners, but he refused to treat the cat. This was a long time ago, and for some reason I don't remember, I either didn't know about emergency vets or something, I decided to just put the cat in a box in a room by iteself, to reduce the stress and fear it might have from being around someone it didn't know. The cat passed away shortly. If the same thing happened now, I would have taken it to the emergency clinic. At least I got it off the street so it could die in peace. One can't always avoid hitting animals, it happens. I have hit birds before, but luckily, no dogs or cats. I once, recently, nearly hit a group of 3 people! There were two people walking, one of which was pushing a man in wheelchair. It was night, and they were walking down the street, next to the curb. I was just edging closer to the curb to make a right turn ( the street is a wide lane street where people will pass others making turns, and pulling over makes it a bit safer, usually), when I saw these people right in front of me. Luckily, I had time to swerve and brake to avoid them, but they were basically invisible in the dark. Yes, I had my headlights on, but for some reason these people were just hard to see. They were wearing dark clothing, and I also just wasn't expecting them to be there. There are sidewalks along the street they could have used. Whew! I know that's not about hitting animals, but you just can't be too careful, and sometimes it just can't be helped. Sally...See Morea very nice afternoon...
Comments (6)There are not many colleges with men's squash teams when one compares it with sports such as basketball or football. And most are highly competitive ones such as the Ivies. Squash scholarships are few and far between - NO athletic scholarships at all in the Ivies. Most of the scholarships go to the top junior players in the world, with many from Egypt. It used to be Pakistan that had outstanding players, but for the past 15 years, players from there have great difficulties with visas to travel to tournaments all over the world. DGS intends to major in math in college - won the State Science Fair last year with a math/statistics project - and will either do a double major with economics or a minor in Econ. He wants to work on Wall Street and make a ton of money! Both his parents went to Cornell. Father owned a couple of companies - both went belly-up around the time of the Recession and he's been a SAHD ever since. Mother is Dir of Hospitality for a company of boutique hotels. DGS started playing in tournaments in 7th grade but did not have multiple private lessons each week (too expensive) or a coach who travelled to tournaments with him (again too expensive). They stuck to tournaments within driving distance. Many junior players have tens of thousands of dollars spent on squash; he's done this on his own natural ability and initiative. In the end, most of the college coaches want to know a player's SAT scores before they'll look at their videos. Each coach gets 2 slots for players who might not qualify on their academics - most are top 20 players in their age group. DGS's best ranking was 90 this year do he must qualify academically. It's a good thing his father doesn't work as choosing the right tournaments and figuring out the points possible, is a full time job! Non-income producing sports don't have the clout with admissions as those that make a lot of money for the schools. I went through this with my son, who played water polo in college! He's already had informal visits at 3 universities and will have formal ones this winter/ spring. He's aiming very high. Fingers crossed....See More- 9 years ago
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