Coach is becoming Tapestry
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Coaches: please stop living through your kids!!!
Comments (11)My son also participated in competitive sports starting at nine. His sport was track/field. He went on to become a 3 time Gold Medal Junior Olympian (plus one bronze). He attended a small, private high school & the principal & track coach convinced him to run high school track "for the sake of his school". He became team captain in his sophmore year & a couple of his indoor records still stand. He also coached Special Olympic track kids while still in high school. Coaches...OMG! On the competitive team they pushed so hard our son went down on the track & ended up in a cast from stress fractures when he was eleven. At age twelve, on the way to a meet in CA from CO, the coach stopped & had him run in Death Valley in July. He had to run behind the car for 3 miles. We'd taken the route from Las Vegas to LA because the kids all wanted to see Death Valley & Scotty's Castle. If I'd have known the coach would have DS run in that heat never would we have agreed to that route! DS ran the 4x800 relay for several years. Once, Dustin (3rd runner) dropped the baton trying to hand off to DS. The coach had Dustin carry the baton with him including the shower, school, in bed, everywhere for an entire week. He was ridiculed at school. They were 10 when that happened & preparing for the national Hershey's Track & Field event in Hershey, PA. That was the relay teams' first national qualification & they took a bronze. The coach also had the kids on a diet that was troublesome. It was just too much food even for growing boys running 20 miles +/week. We had frequent tummy issues & upchucking of meals. I honestly don't know if the competitive team or the high school team was the worst. There was lots of pressure from both. Punitive punishments were common & public. Overall though, DS hit the deck running after college graduation knowing & understanding rough competition. Now, he's a volunteer/parent soccer coach for my granddaughter. I haven't watched him coach but am told that he's like a pied piper for the kids. So, I'm guessing he learned a thing or three from his own days of having fiercely competitive coaches. I'll ask him about it over Christmas. It's also about time I took the boxes of medals so he can store them instead of us! /tricia...See MoreAnyone here use a Life Coach?
Comments (17)Sometimes outsiders see things in us that we aren't aware of ourselves, or only dimly so. Not merely negative things, but worthwhile potential strengths in us that we might develop. Sometimes it's useful to run our lifestyle and ideas past someone who's rather knowledgeable about life, to have them provide feedback ... then carry on a dialogue, not freighted by criticism and blame. If that person is perceptive about us, so much the better. With a skillful coach, that person would have a certain facility for letting us know that we didn't need to be afraid of her/him, that his/her job was to help us have a good look at ourselves, and look at various possibilities that might be available to us, along with some discussion of how to get where there might be a possibility for us to go, should we so choose, plus how to start on the journey of getting there from here. As you became more familiar with that person, you'd like to see her/his face, for here has been someone who has helped you see yourself more clearly - sort of holding a mirror up before you, then wiping the fog off with a cloth, sometimes you, sometimes that person, a bit at a time. You were working on building a vision of whom you might become, in future. And this person is rooting for you, not criticizing and tearimg you down. Helping you get a better, more complete picture of yourself. And that not only as you are, dealing with strengths and weaknesses and how to deal with them, making them more productive, but investigating some possibilities along with how well equipped you might be now, or might be able to become, to bring them off. Maybe sort of like map-making together of various roads that you might like to travel on your way through life. Helping you find and polish the gold that's been there inside you, unrecognized by yourself and others. And I rather dislike making that mercenary allusion. Any comments? Hope you've got a good start on building a great year, that's coming, for you and helping those near you work toward the same. But ... twisting arms not allowed! ole joyful...See MoreAck! I got a Coach purse and wallet as a gift
Comments (31)I just bought one. I have never spent that much money on a purse but it is so cute. I saw someone with it at Kohl's and fell in love with it and went home and found it online and bought it. I love it. Use it Nicole and enjoy it. My mom jokes with me that if someone steals it, they can keep my wallet, just give me my Coach purse back lol....See MoreTapestry Wall-Hanging To Bring Ambience To Your Home
Comments (5)Guess I should check my spelling. Ha! "There" best seller. LOL How about "Their" best seller....See MoreUser
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