What questions should I ask my father's financial advisor?
Sueb20
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Comments (6)Hi Taragirl, I know there are all sorts of financial advisors -- I'm looking for someone who can help us file our taxes (which will be more complicated this year), advise me on financial aspects of starting a business, and maybe even offer insight about buying land and construction loans and mortgages. Can I get this advice all rolled into one person? If so, what is his/her job title, and where do I find him/her? You're extremely unlikely to find any "Jack-Of-All-Professions" (and if you did find any to claim to be so, I would advise grabbing your wallet tight & backing away as quickly as possible...) Tax planning & filing = CPA (or tax attorney) Business books = small business bookkeeper (not typically a CPA's baileywick,) Buying land = high-end realtor, Construction loans & mortgages = high-end loan broker, Very very very few "asset & securities" professionals (people who sell & manage stocks, mutuals, etc. etc.) are knowledgeable at all about debt-versus-leverage and the best-practice structuring of them. Similarly, the "stock & investment" professionals generally ignore strategic aspects of real estate (if they don't actually advise you to sell yours & move your money into their stock accounts.) You *may* ultimately search and find a "Lead Advisor" who you find highly-connected and trustworthy to help be your "quarterback on the field" (with you being the team owner/manager) to know which plays to run, which specialists to hand off the ball to (and when,) and how to structure for defense (risk avoidance) as well as offense (investment growth.) Such an lead advisor "quarterback" could come from ANY position... the most critical aspects you'll want in this professional is; A) Deep expertise in their own field (as that will obviously serve YOU, but also will be critical in their respect from other professionals in ancillary fields,) B) Broad connections amongst highly varied fields, C) Balanced perspectives (able to serve clients from the CLIENT'S preferences (i.e. real estate rather than stocks, or insurance versus diversification, or the reverse, etc. etc.) *DO* be careful of placing too much weight on any certifications or distinctions... they have their place at the initial weeding of potential advisors... but they're pretty much only good for elimination purposes, and useless selection purposes. (I.E. from a large list of possibles, you may eliminate or handicap those who DO NOT have an advanced certification in their field... but it is unwise to make your final DECIDING SELECTION from the reduced list based on who has initials and plaques and certificates. In the end, all these really promise is that the recipient paid their fees and succeeded (at best) on a potentially slam-dunk quiz (if that.) Hope that helps! Dave Donhoff Strategic Equity & Mortgage Planner...See MoreHow to find a financial advisor?
Comments (8)Hi again, jbspook, When I worked as a personal financial advisor, I suggested to everyone that they needed to learn how to handle current income wisely, and assets for the long haul. Quite a few said that they didn't have any assets. I replied that one of the major issues in life is to turn some of one's income into long-term assets. Furthermore, you never know when some (even distant) relative may die and leave you with a nice nest egg. Best to have learned something of how to handle it - beforehand. Which would you rather find: -how to achieve about the same as current lifestyle for $1000. lower cost, or -$1,000. increase in pay? On the day that you received your first Dollar Bill - you went into business for yourself. You likely had, at first, one employee - with a face on it, named "One Dollar". Sometimes you were lucky and received a bundle of new employees, all in one package - probably when you were a kid the first one was named "Five Dollars" - had a face on it, too. Most business owners feel that it's very important to learn how to operate their business. (If they don't, quite often they're not in business long). Learning how to manage money effectively is a long-term enterprise, but not too difficult. You don't get High School graduation after a year of schooling - and you don't teach a kid Grade 10 stuff when s/he's in Grade 2. Some folks are afraid of such learning - too complicated. They figure that money management is so complicated that the very idea intimidates them. I say that when Mom brings home a loaf of bread from the store (or she or Dad makes it her/himself) they put only a few slices on the table at a time. If Junior, tired and famished from running around, tries to stuff one whole slice into his mouth at once, it doesn't work. But, taken a bite and a slice at a time, it doesn't take too long, even for an old fart like me, living alone, to get through a whole loaf. Learning how money works is similar. We in Canada have a non-slick mag www.canadianmoneysaver.ca that runs no ads, also carries no pics except plain ones of the writers - who, by the way, give contact info at the end of 2 - 3 page articles and welcome response from readers. The 36 pg., 11 issues per year @ CAD$19.95 magazine's sole loyalty is to the subscribers. A lot of good ideas there - some of them relevant for Canadians only, but quite a few of general application. If you go there, I'm not sure how much of their information you can access, as a non-subscriber. Take a look and see. Don't know if such a magazine available in the U.S. They asked what the subscribers wanted - first was seminars with the writers of the articles. They've offered them in several places annually: 8 speakers, 45 min, each, $20. ($30. for two). Second was an opportunity for subscribers in an area to get together - now available in 35 - 40 places in Canada. I've attended, with about 18 others, the monthly meetings in this city for several years. Cost, as meeting room (boardroom of major local shopping mall) is free - is nil. Just a bit of gas - and a nearby person and I often ride together. Check some money management based magazines in your library. You may find a couple to which you'd like to subscribe - or just read them in the library. In our library system, you can't check out earlier issues of magazines from main branch - but you can from most of the branches. There are a number of books in the library dealing with investments that you may find helpful. I've suggested that people write down names, phone, email of everyone they know, build information about them all. If you had such, and had heard friends talk of financial affairs - could call them to ask what their experience may have been. By the way - such a list should save you hundreds, more likely thousands, in your lifetime (unless you have one foot in the grave). When you need advice, a service, etc. - ask your computer to search. It'll find knowledge, skills, etc. that your friends have that you'd forgotten. Can you live on the income of the one who's not to be the stay-at-home-look-after-the-kid(s) parent? Now's the time to start getting used to that. You'll find a lot of advice about how to live as you'd like - but more frugally - on the "Money Saving Tips" forum here. Quite a few of the posters offer the possibility of contacting them personally and I'm sure that most of them would welcome your inquiries (likely feel flattered that you asked). As Dave said - one type of financial planner is compensated by commissions on the stuf that s/he sells. Commissions are often at different rates on various types of instruments that s/he sells - which may colour their recommendations. They may receive ongoing "trailing" commissions annually on some products, as well. Most of them are allowed to offer only a limited number of financial products - so their knowledge is most comprehensive on that type of goods. Further - they may not choose to recommend stuff to you that they must send you elsewhere to buy. You should interview a number of prospective planners before choosing one. Inquire comprehensively as to the range of goods that your prospective plannner can handle. Are they the kind that most interest you? You should inquire fully about what training your prospective planner has taken, and what ongoing training is undertaken. What financial experience has your financial advisor had - in terms of advising others? What kind of experience has s/he had with regard to the growth of his/her personal portfolio? For example, one local writer says that he does not recommend financial goods to clients that he does not invest in himself. As he says, "He eats his own cooking". I'd be substantially interested in what general life experience my planner had had, as well. Lastly - you'll be carrying on a long-term relationship, relating to issues that are close to the core of your being. You need to choose an advisor with whom you feel at ease - who is compatible with you. Which is better - saving $1,000. in ongoing expenses at minimal impact on lifestyle - or $1,000. increase in employment income? The increased income of $1,000. will be a lot less than that - after you've paid income tax ... but $1,000. cash in hand not spent on goods is after-tax money. Enough for now. Again - good wishes in your search for financial management skills and such a highly skilled planner. joyful guy...See MoreShould I be worried about father?
Comments (5)My parents' neighbor, a man I've known my entire life, lost his wife after her illness of a couple of years. Within a few months he was married to a woman we found out he'd evidently been seeing either before his wife's illness or met during the illness. To say the least I was SHOCKED! He is about the same age as your father. I haven't talked to his children about it, but he signed his home to the kids and walked away to be with the other woman. If it were my father, I would be concerned because he is not able to make good decisions due to a stroke and several illnesses. But you describe your father as a competent person. I'm sure he misses your mother and wants companionship. This person might be looking for financial support, and knowing your parents for a few years obviously knows your father can provide it. If you are worried that she is going to take everything from your father, maybe you should just talk to your father to ask the questions you are wanting answers to. My father is 83 and we have a good relationship, I can say pretty much what's on my mind and he can do the same. If one of us gets mad or gets our feelings hurt, we are adult enough to let that be known too so we can find compromise even if we disagree. I guess what I am saying is if I were in your position I would go to my father and tell him my concerns and hear his side. If he has valid enough points for you, then let it be his life. I am at my parents' house several times a week and don't always call before I go, maybe you could drop by when you are in the neighborhood and catch the both of them at home and you can have your get together, even if it's impromtu. Good luck with whatever you choose....See MoreWhat should be my financial goal to have a nice home built for cash?
Comments (44)OP - I really think you need to sit down and rethink your position. You have a lot of ideas swirling around, but they're not well defined or mutually consistent. First, you need to define much more concretely what kind of house you really want - you say simple, unpretentious, but then mention 10 foot ceilings in the basement, multiple living/family rooms and perhaps even a cupola. You don't need separate rooms for every function, which is what your wish list kind of comes across as: you might want to consider re-doing your "needs" and "wants" not in terms of rooms required but in terms of the functions you want your house as a whole to perform. Rooms that can do double duty would save you square footage and money. Second, as I mentioned previously, you need to get a handle on housing costs where you live. That may mean going to open houses, surfing Zillow, talking to local agents or having a sit down with a contractor or architect. Third, I think you should put aside the idea of paying for the house in cash. While I'm all in favor of getting rid of that mortgage asap for many of the reasons outlined by Mrs Pete (you cannot put a dollar value on the feeling of security you get if you grew up in a less than secure housing environment, but finally pay off your own home), nonetheless it makes a lot of sense to have a low-interest mortgage and put your cash into higher-return investments, especially if you're more or less "starting out." Fourth, you need to think about your personal financials, particularly once you have a better idea of what your housing costs are likely to be. When I bought my first house, I took out a mortgage that was about half of what the bank approved, because I knew I could pay that amount without having to chip into my contingency fund (at the time, 3 months salary) and while still contributing to my retirement fund and my regular investment fund. So, I bought a smaller, simpler place than my bank would have allowed, simply because it suited my long term financial goals better. I'm much older now, have built up a decent portfolio, as has my better half, so we did pay cash outright for our last house - but again, we built a house that was less than we could afford, but allowed us to leave savings and retirement funds intact (we did have to sell one investment property as well as our old home to make it happen, but that was no great sacrifice!) People talk a lot about dream houses, but sometimes a dream house isn't all marble floors and a backyard swimming pool or 5000 sq feet of space. Sometimes it's living comfortably and affordably in a good area, and enjoying a retirement that allows you to enjoy life, restaurants, travel, and friends. The dream life is more important to me than the dream house....See MoreSueb20
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