Let me tell you that if I saw pictures of my DH in bed with another woman, even fully clothed, he'd have lots of explaining to do. But, after finding these pics and seeing as how she was hiding her phone and finding out why....I'd just wait it out and see what her future and current behavior is. If she has plans, meetings or outings that are out of norm for her, I'd check those out. If her appearance changes as far as weight, hairdo, clothing...I'd look into the reasons why. If she went looking elsewhere because you're stubborn and a non- talker, then change your style because it ain't working for you. If you want things to work, then you both need to meet in the middle. She may have slept with this man. but if she did and you love her and don't want to lose her then just deal with it. It may have been just a fling to prove that someone else found her attractive because you didn't make her feel that way. if she's got what she wants at home, she won't go looking elsewhere. Hope it works out for you.

Barbara is definitely a blessing in my life. We don't see each other often, but we talk and email. We were born a month apart, and call each other "Sis." We'd be twins (but not identical) if she hadn't been born a month early! My gifts to her went out in today's mail....just two wrapped presents in a boring box. But at least one of them was handmade. :-)

lady_alicia said, "And is there a way to lock your Ideabook so that others can edit it??" Ummmm...do you mean so that others cannot edit it? At any rate, no one can edit your ideabook. lady_alicia said, " I just bookmarked it so I could go back to it sometime if I needed to. It's just that the "title" is the subject of the post/thread, and I wanted to label it instead so I know what it's all about. I may figure something out." I know what you mean and just checked mine and see that I cannot change the name of the discussion that I bookmarked in Houzz. Besides bookmarking some things in Houzz posts, I also sometimes bookmark threads in my browser. Those threads are sorted and put in folders. I have one browser folder named GW learning posts. another browser folder named GW recipes. Of course doing it this way, will save the entire thread, but that works for me, and I can rename the threads saved. I also have a browser folder with bookmarks to all of my favorite forums, and the link to ALL of the GW forums, and to ALL of the Home Site forums....oh, and I save my member page to a GW folder too.

Whoa. I wasn't able to check out your Ideabook until this morning, dviolet1. That is so beyond a simple inventory list or the Excel spreadsheet I use! It is truly a database - complete with reports. You have put your obviously considerable skills into creating something that covers everything (and more) one could possibly record about one's violets - and looks very pretty while doing it. That said, for me as a hobby grower it is overkill. I just don't have the inclination to spend that much time with record keeping for my own use. And there are some things I would not want to know (i.e., the initial cost of every plant in my collection - yikes!!) Joking aside, where I work we transitioned to a very busy software system earlier this year. The big boss likes it because he can see any minute detail at any time - reports are his life. We on the front lines hate it because everything simple has become over complicated and data entry now takes three times as long to accomplish the same result on the working end. But reports? Oh, baby - we got it covered. Probably it is the frustrated and disgruntled employee in me that makes me see your efforts in less than a desirable light at the moment, so please don't take offense at my comments. Thank you for inviting me to look at it. It's very nice; just not something I feel the need to adopt in my personal life.