What is your Grandmother Name?
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Comments (9)Heya pirate_girl: I have some problems with Sans getting stalled too. A couple of my Sans-crazy friends say--once your conditions are warm enough--to water and fertilize almost like a tropical, and plant in a larger pot to let the rhizome grow in size. Sansevieria can get stalled when the rhizome is potbound. (Except S pinguicula which doesn't depend on the size of the rhizome in the same way.) And bottom heat keeps 'em moving... I hope that's not a repetition of stuff you've heard a bunch already. I'm still working on implementing those tips on my plants. Sometimes, to get a plant going, another trick is to make a full-strength batch of Miracle Gro (or even 1.5 strength) and let the plant soak in it--fully immersed--for an entire day. That's counterintuitive because we cactus & succulent folk often fertilize at 1/4 or 1/2 strength, but in this trick, we're trying to give the plant a shot in the arm. I have a big Sansevieria suffruticosa 'Spiral' 'Mutomo' which was exploding with stolons and offset when I bought it, but now it's stalled. I'd love to get it going crazy with more spirals and offsets now that summer's basically here. Also, I have some great S pinguicula that I want to start moving. I bought them a year or two ago and they just sit there looking pretty. Whaddya think? Is that in line with the kinds of things you've heard or you're thinking? -- DC...See MoreNow I know what happened to my grandmother
Comments (17)...my participation here is more theoretical than specific to this situation, only because the topic of family secrets is so interesting to me. So what's to gain from sharing a family secret "like" this one here? Really, it's about the relationshp between father and daughter. A secret puts up walls due to the shame. So being able to say "I know your secret and I still love and accept you" is really really a powerfully healing thing to the person who holds the secret and potentially increases intimacy between two people. Also, the assumption that the secret holder has put it entirely in their past is often false. People hold on to shame for years and years, and often it nags daily, silently, and bleeds into areas that are not easily detected. Another way of seeing this, rather than simply "He's old, why bring it up now" is to say "He hasn't many years now, he deserves peace". OF course, we don't know in THIS situation what is best for him, so we cannot presume to say that he "should" or "shouldn't" be told. The other thing I know about humans is that we gravitate to status quo. It's familiar, it's comfortable, and the devil we know is more attractive than the devil we don't. To be fair, I choose to keep certain secrets too. I have one that I'll go to my deathbed with - however, I HAVE gone to therapy for it, and a bulk of the shame of it has been dealt with. Certainly makes life easier for me. Hopefully this dad has been able to do the same. However, if someone approached me lovingly with the information and asked me about it, I would likely be scared but relieved as well. It's just not my secret to tell, if that makes sense. Maybe dad feels some sense of loyalty to his mom....See MoreWhat to call step grandmother
Comments (10)never had a step-grandmother, but I called my mother-in-law by her name, & she called me by mine. We were grown-up people, we had known each other before I met her son, & we both knew she wasn't my mother, although I think she sort of loved me (she & her son, my then-spouse, were too close for her to be entirely happy with any woman in his life). & when I was growing up, once I reached some age, I forget what age it was, I called my aunts by their names, without the "aunt". They always treated me like a human being with a brain (back in the day, adults often talked down to kids), & I had wonderful relationships with them. If kids are old enough to be aware of different relationships, they may be more comfortable calling step-grandmother "Doris". or they can call her "Sylvia". Tell 'em I said so LOL!...See MoreGrandmothers real names
Comments (17)In reply to Martha, I wanted to mention that my grandmother's sister (I guess that would be my great-aunt) lived in that small town in Iowa that her great-grandmother was named after (Nevada). I was pretty young when I would visit there and probably wasn't even aware of the state of Nevada. As I got older, I probably didn't look too smart when I would mispronounce the state as Nuh VAY duh! Great-aunt's name was Gertie. I'm afraid to say what grandma's name was, after the warnings about security and all....See More
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