Why are you thinking that you should, minjeeah?

Minj dear, no you were only being helpful its ok to leave it....not a good idea to start deleting stuff LOL.

I am as confused as the rest of you are. Sue-VA, do you want someone posting things under your name? Because if
you didn't post the Juile thing, I would be very concerned. I am not concerned about my Site here.

I'm actually more concerned that Sue just doesn't remember this. Theres a thread titled QUESTIONS

From May where she says she's had some medical issues and memory problems...So yes this is concerning either way.

It's possible that it was an accidental posting. You know, having your browser open and then turning your attentions to other things, setting your elbow down on the keyboard....yadayada..it happens.

Sue, I just wanted to say whatevers been said by me here was only out of concern.

Mama, we all forget something sometime. Not a big deal. Why bring up the other thread to draw attention to it? Considering....................that seems mean and I'm sorry to say a bit two-faced. That is just my opinion.

Sometimes, I think if someone is genuinely concerned, a private message may be more appropriate.

I didn't bring it up to cause trouble and its a shame someone had to turn a caring word into something else.

Sue if my words upset you in any way I'm so very sorry, it truely was not ment that way and had you not mentioned this yourself in a public forum I would never have mentioned it.

Let me ask a few of you...is there nothing I say that won't be picked apart, analyized, and considered inapproprate, mean, down right ugly.....some in the KT appear to have a real problem with everything I say. Just like this comment will be deemed wrong. But of course it will be justified as **everyone has a right to their opinion** Well in MY opinion it wasn't nice to change the tone of my post to mean something it didn't.

Mama, I most certainly do not consider everything you say inappropriate. In this instance, I can see someone being unnecessarily hurt. I think you know who I am referring to...............................

Mama, you're kind of like WYSIWYG, and its refreshing. We get to know the real you. When you stretch the boundaries of your personal life then its all well and good, and your business what you choose to put out there. But when it comes to other members its best to keep boundaries in mind. I don't think for a minute that you meant any harm whatsoever.

Also, I saw your removed post. Didn't really do much more than skim it. Nothing stood out as being creepy, just mamapinky WYSIWYG.

As to the original topic, just my humble opinion but it's is way too early to even think of your sweet daughter becoming engaged.

I agree, Irma.

Lol..moonie who or what is WYSIWYG??

mamapinky0....I'm sure there are people out there, that are armchair psychiatrists. :0) or concerned for your safety.

I appreciated the info that "she may have forgotton", it's a "let's move on" piece of info.

I believe there are many here that genuinely want to get to know "you & Amiee" and find you a delight. The world is full of good people or half empty of good people. Open conversations will include everyone....can't be helped.

WYSIWYG = what you see is what you get (pronounced= whiz-eee-wig)

Nicole Thank You.

As for WYSIWYG LOL.... I will have to think on it, but its probably accurate. Lol

I will also add that I have a very bad habit of speaking before thinking, I will have good intentions but sometimes I need to realize I can't save the world ..another personality trait of mine that's gotton me in heaps of dangerous situations.

PS....Amiee is up.

Mama, sometimes things seem -very weird- to me... and I'm not talking about anything you've said....... sometimes things are innocent, sometimes not. I just recommend caution?

Moonie Thank You. ..I'm no good at decoding code talk Haha. If its something important in your warning can you message me.

Minj in a few minutes

Minjeeah, this is Amiee I'm so happy to meet you! How have you been? Are you enjoying the summer? Have you done anything fun with your friends? Mom says your a very sweet girl maybe we can talk again soon.

I really can't thank you all enough for your interest in me its been helpful to mom. I want to clear something up, mom has never said anything that i haven't approved of. She always reads it to me before she even post it to get my OK in posting it. Except mom i know I'm not getting better.

PKponder, please take it easy on mom she is not only a mom to me but she is my best friend. She always has my best interest in heart, and yes i am her baby that is why i am Baby Pinky LOL.

YAY! I got my guy back!!!!! :D

Wish i could stay on longer but Kody just got here a few minutes ago and i need to eat cause mom will threaten to take my brownies off of me LOL. I will try to come back tomorrow but I really thank all of you for your interest, support and kindness. Hugs and Kisses to you ALL <3

I have known PK Ponder for a number of years. If there is a mean or judgemental bone in her body, I don't know where it is. She made her comment out of concern.

Minjeeah, I wouldn't really take the brownies off of her LOL..but I did threaten to haha. Actually she eats very well all night loooong. haha she should look like me with the amount of food she eats.

As you can see from her history she's not on Houzz much. I hope she takes an interest here and actually gets to know some of you fine folks (folks lol) I sound like I live in a small dairy farm community oops I do.

Amiee has only even been in the laundry room a few times, but she dearly loves Larsi from over there.

PKponder, Amiee laughed when she read your creepy post and said I completely misunderstood what you ment and besides you hopefully haven't had to be in such close daily contact with a sick daughter so you might not understand, in fact she told me to cut you a break and try to understand where your comming from...

PKponder I'm putting my hand out in friendship to you...I hope you will accept it.

Minj, do you play any games online with XBox gold membership? Amiee says she forgot to ask and if you do maybe you two could play a game sometime???

Well, since I somehow happened to be mentioned again, I want share a bit about me. Been a Garden Web member since I got my first PC. Can't remember the date, but it was when Spike was here. I first found the Garden Party, read there that he set up the Kitchen Table and I was one of the first 3 who joined right in.. Been here ever since, even when we had to pay. So you see I'm not a stranger here. I know the rules and regulations. Why my name became tied to remarks concerning the unknown Tom JUILE is a mystery., and I really do not appreciate having the suggestions made by some, that I made "an error in typing," or that my memory is so bad that I forgot something that I had done., or that I best watch out and not end up with problems on my site.

Sue, I'm sorry, I didn't mean any ill, but none the less I have upset you, I'm very sorry....so it must be someone managed to get into your account which isn't good. Hopefully you get it figured out. Again Sue I'm sorry.

Holey Moley. What a cluster this has become.

Back to the OP and the original topic. Congrats to Aimee and Kody and best wishes as they start the exploration of what their future may hold. You have challenges, but every new couple does. My very best wishes to you as you work through them and explore your possibilities. Love is strong, and can triumph; it takes work, though. Fairy-tale endings are few but happiness is achievable. You have the basis - go for it!

Suzieque, Amiee will read this tomorrow or later tonight she's playing a card game with Kody.

Your right this turned into a cluster. I think I've lost respect from a few people, but gosh I don't know how to be something other than who I am. I guess its true you need thick skin when you involve yourself in a forum along with just agreeing with everyone LOL. Problem is I don't have thick skin and I speak before thinking than for the life of me I can't figure out what I said wrong because in my mind I say it out of concern or with good intentions, but its not accepted that way by some....oh well Suzieque Thank You for listening to me ramble on...haha

Mama, I see that you have made close to 11,000 comments. Realistically I don't think you should expect that everyone will agree with all of them. LOL. We are a very diverse group here.

Irma of course all of my comments are not going to be agreed with, that would be silly for anyone to expect. Its not disagreeing with me that bothers me in the least its the tone of the way some people disagree.

I should have just let this thread disappear as I said above. Too much here isn't even about the subject. Theres to much misunderstanding to make this beneficial in any way.

Mama, you came here to share your joy. Don't ever feel bad about that.

Too much here isn't even about the subject.

It's OK. That's the way a verbal conversation at an actual kitchen table happens.

Mama, If you want this post to be allowed to die, just start a new one the next time you have something to say about Amiee & Kody. Then this cluster will just move onto a back page and the important news you share will be the focus. ((((Hugs))))

Perhaps the moderator should be asked to delete this entire thread.

Elizabeth I don't know how to contact a mod. Lol

Down at the bottom of the page is a link that says contact us.

Click on that and proceed from there. Just fill in the info and add a message if you want to.

Elizabeth Thank you I sent a message.

Minj. Sorry but not that I know of as her phone has been acting up.

Do to continued stress in this thread im no longer going to post here. . I thank all of you lovely people for your interest and will update you on Amiee another way.

Let this thread die a natural death. It has gone way beyond the original post.