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My wife's sister accusses me of molesting her
Comments (12)This is one of the most disturbing posts I've ever read here - in fact, it's been haunting me since it first appeared. I don't know which is worse -- the idea that you molested your wife's sister, or the idea that you didn't and she claims you did. Either way, it's a horrible, awful mess. For what it's worth, I find it very hard to believe that a young woman who behaves anywhere near appropriately would have been molested by 2 of her 3 brothers-in-law... Of course, there's no way to prove either side of the story, since there wouldn't have been any witnesses. So it all boils down to a question of character, history and reputation. If your character is above reproach, your story should be believed (though perhaps quietly, since it's likely D is emotional, dramatic and vocal) and this should all blow over in a few months. If your character hasn't always been above reproach, let this situation serve as a warning that you need to monitor your behavior a little more carefully, and that in the future, you should not to let D get within 10 feet of you. Without knowing any of the parties involved, I would have a tendency to believe that there was some truth to each side, with exaggerations and distortions likely on both sides....See MoreCutting YA Children From Cell Payroll
Comments (48)I wouldn't call it cruel, Roarah, either. My 14 y/o ds manages just fine without a cell phone. He actually has one, just a regular phone for calls/texting, but he never uses it. It is always either uncharged, turned off, or forgotten when he leaves the house. He wants an iPhone, but at this point, he's not getting one for a variety of reasons. I have to say that when my kids were younger, I felt the same way as you. I was totally annoyed that the parents of my dd's friends were all giving them iPhones. I didn't necessarily have a beef with a regular phone b/c I could understand for logistical reasons why they might want to even if I didn't necessarily agree. I didn't give the full story here as to what ultimately led to our decision to give dd the iPhone, but the short story was that she was really struggling socially. You can do what you want obviously but I've had to eat crow several times with opinions I had when my kids were younger but have evolved as my kids have gotten older. As I said before, My dd is now a happy, well-adjusted, straight-A student, who is respectful, mature, well-mannered and basically I couldn't ask for a nicer kid. And knowing what I was like at her age and the relationship I had with my mom as a teen, I feel truly blessed. She contributes to her phone and seriously has no sense of entitlement. I can't say the same for several of my friends' kids the same age (this is part observation but mostly opinions my friends share with me). FWIW, the texting in the car that was going on back when dd was suffering? Not a common occurrence now, two years later. She and her friends have great conversations in the car when I'm driving them around...in fact, I learn quite a bit about them and what's going on in their lives. I cherish these times in the car...no disrespect and ill-mannered kids buried in their phones. Just last night while taking dd and her friend to the movies, we had a great conversation about their recent final exams, group projects and how to handle kids not pulling their weight, their quirky Latin teacher, etc....See MoreGood morning!
Comments (9)I never really slept last night, and I realized I missed a medication that would've helped at 3:30AM. I had to get up at 5, so I said to forget it to myself. I got up at 4:30 and potted up seedlings. sigh. Yesterday, I dug up my oregano since it was looking ratty from pest attacks, but there were enough little pieces looking good that had roots (where it touched the ground) I could make a bunch more plants. I settled on nine seedlings, hoping at least 7 make it, and I can plant 3, give away 4. From one to three and free gifts. Cool. Since I left it all outside in this 30/40 degree weather, and I won't bring it in, it'll be an interesting experiment. It was outside to begin with, and I am pretty sure I transplanted it at the very beginning, a long time ago, in late winter. . I'm really remembering just how long you can have flowers in the south now that I have my own garden again. It'll be something every month when I get back up to speed. Some months are far more bloom filled than others, but still, even in December there's a Rudbeckia with blooms, the butterfly bush has color, Snaps are still dotted with blooms, and the pansies are absolutely blooming. My stocks and schizanthus are sitting out on the deck all nice and bushy bearing the winter wind's howling just fine. No blooms yet, but even just the foliage is nice to see. The stocks on the side of the house became some deer snack. Grr. . Son has two more exams tomorrow and he's done until January. Must be nice. But it means there will be no traffic since schools are out. The next three weeks are my gimme weeks. All I have to do is show up. No one is there. No one wants anything. You get caught up on all sort of things, including year end stuff. It's easy peasy. I save vacation for summer and swimming. I think of this is my "banking it weeks". Or for me, the slide into home plate....See MoreElder Care and the stresses it creates (long)
Comments (105)when my grandmother was 75 she met her son, who lived 60 miles away, at the door on his weekly sat morning visit, she was dressed had her bags packed and told him she'd made arrangements to live at an assisted living facility about 20 miles from her home, no one was aware of her decision to go there at this point. she had been in a wheelchair for 25 years and felt that even if they house was on fire she'd not be able to get out of it.....at any rate, they were expecting her and if he didn't take her she'd find someone who could.....so off they went. sure enough, they were expected and her room was ready. on the way past the nurses desk, she told the nurses she wanted to be moved to the corner room between the living area and the common areas as soon as it was available (not a quiet place) but exactly what she wanted. She would sit outside her door in her chair greeting people as they entered the building, doing handwork every single day. Never once did she mention "going home." She lived there for 8 years before having a stroke and being in a coma for several months. Even then, people who came to visit would drop by and speak to her in her unconscious state. The facility was about 45 miles from my uncle's home and about the same from ours. She was one in a million....See More- 9 years ago
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