Retire or not?
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Comments (17)I never saw this thread either, but have been to a gazillion military retirements, having worked for the Government most of my working life. My own civilian retirement was not quite as formal but it was still, for me at least, quite an honor and very moving. I’m so glad you went and experienced this honor for your nephew. As you discovered, for family of the honoree, it is usually business dress, or business casual for some, depending on the rank and where it is held. And yes, it is a very moving ceremony, no matter which branch of service is concerned. It must have been beautiful having the Navy retirement outdoors on the water. Congratulations to your nephew!...See MoreOwn or rent in retirement?
Comments (61)" Not many had heard of it " Maybe it's better known down here? When liquefaction happens from the shaking, the water/dirt mix in the ground becomes unstable, turns to what is described as not unlike the consistency of jello, and loses its rigidity and strength to support weight. Many areas of land around SF Bay are of course adjacent to the shoreline, including in SF city itself. Many of these areas are the result of landfill efforts to gain more square feet of land. Some of this dates back to the 19th century. Unfortunately, ground engineering and landfill techniques were unknown, and little more was done at the time than to pour in dirt, rocks, and whatever other debris was at hand into the near shore and keep adding material until it was high enough to stay dry. Landfill areas are very prone to liquefaction from earthquakes at much lower quake intensities, and in such instances buildings where liquefaction happens can collapse when nearby buildings sited on terra firma are undamaged. A non-trivial portion of the damage from the Loma Prieta earthquake happened 50 miles or more as the crow flies away from the epicenter. Many structures in between the two points but built on solid ground had little or no damage. Much farther north, where structures were built on landfill and with inadequate foundations not built down to bedrock, there were many instances of significant damage....See MoreRetirement. Any regrets?
Comments (44)I retired at 62 a year after my DH retired at 63. I was much more thrilled to have the ability to retire than he was. He loved his very long career in a specialized part of the space industry which began in military & continued post military retirement in private sector. I enjoyed my work in various finance businesses, inside & outside of personal & commercial banking, but was very tired of the stress of it. Part of the retirement planning we did was spending our prior 10 years researching & visiting places to decide where we wanted to live. We wanted a smaller city - and much smaller home - but still with good access to airport/medical/culture. We’ve loved our new smaller home & have made good friends here. Our neighborhood has quite a few younger retirees from many different places so we lucked into an easy route to make new friends. We’ve been very happy & content in retirement with 2 exceptions. Covid was a life game changer & our social scene hasn’t seemed to recover its former momentum. Everyone missed so much with their families too. The other exception is recent personal health events. First for DH in January which was painful but not life threatening & he’s back to top form. Second a major event for me just recently & from which I should be good to go in a few weeks. Roxsol, the timing of your thread is perfect & truly a day brightener for me. I’m celebrating being home from hospital & it’s been lovely to read what everyone is sharing and find the majority are good things happening in spite of life’s challenges. And, thank you for sharing your pictures of Chalupa! I am so sorry you lost her at such a young age. That surely was heartbreaking....See MoreRetirement home on a ranch
Comments (65)I was referring to the glassy breezeways posted as examples. I know what a breezeway is - and I know what a mudroom is - and I know that connections can be less than an entire wall’s measurement. OP does not want a detached garage, for any reason, yet everyone here is insisting that they should 100% have a detached garage because they’re the ”experts.” Expert professionals *listen* to their clients - they don’t dictate to them....See More- 9 years ago
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