Do you know why your family moved to America?
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Comments (18)NEW PLAN: Didn't get to the address book yet, but I bought Christmas cards and I'm going to re-do it as I do the cards. There are enough empty pages in the back that I should pretty much make it through the alphabet. And I'm brave enough to admit I will probably staple the old pages together and throw them in a desk drawer in case I ever wonder what street grandma used to live on. Wow, Holly, your grandmother was definitely organized. I have often thought of writing my own obituary since my husband pays no attention to what I do once I walk out the door. P.S. Sometimes I have this tiny mean streak. One day as I was leaving the house, my husband asked where my meeting was that day. This is the same meeting I have attended on the 2nd Saturday of the month for 3 or 4 years, and he can never even remember the name of the organization. I knew he had NO CLUE, so I just said "same place as always" to see if he would admit he didn't even know what city I was driving to. He just said "Oh"....See MoreIf you have a serious illness do you tell your family?
Comments (31)A hidden chronic disease, there are so many of them. Mine are migraines. For others, it is back pain or arthritis, or inflammatory diseases of various types. Hard to determine what others responses will be. Say you have migraines to someone who has them or has experienced them, and they will instantly understand, know how to help you, and be supportive. Others think you are making it up to get out of things. I met a guy once who got migraines, and he said, "Yeah, I know, most people think it is made up or a "girly disease." We commiserated. Another similar story, I moved for a job once, and someone I worked with offered to let me stay at his house until I found a new apartment. The first night we were watching TV in his family room and he said, "I hope you don't think I am too weird, but I have to do these back exercises or I can't function. I do them while watching TV." I said no problem, I totally understood and then I relayed my migraine experience, so I knew what it felt like to have a disease that many people thought was weird or "all in your head" (literally). So he told me that even his DOCTOR thought he was making it up about the pain or was just overly sensitive, UNTIL the doctor himself started to have back pain and back trouble. Then he realized how unfair he had been to his patients all these years. Some say suffering teaches us compassion. While there is not necessarily nobility in suffering, it can sometimes teach you compassion. Depends on the rest of your psyche and life experiences. The way I see it, there are some folks out there who have the capacity to care and support others, and some who do not. Ya just have to forgive the ones who don't and appreciate and bless the ones who do! I know I really bond with folks who have lost someone rather tragically, as I recently did my mom. Sometimes ya just have to experience it to know what it means. I have always tried to be supportive, but now I am especially aware of things I could do to reach out. Oh, and speaking of appreciation, I want to give a moment of thanks and remembrance to one of my Gardenweb friends, Tricia Evans, who also suffered from some "hidden diseases" and was one of the kindest souls imaginable. She gave me so much advice and help from the Cooking Forum. She turned me on to the book, "Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired." Love you Tricia, thank you God for putting her in my life!...See MoreWhat do you remember about moving into your home?
Comments (40)DH was born and raised around the oil fields of Oklahoma and wanted land around whatever future home we bought. We’d (or I’d) looked at over 100 homes and lots when a patient of his told him about a lot in a mountain community with incredible views AND gas lines and internet ( a VERY BIG BONUS out here!). He packed us a gourmet picnic lunch ( with chilled white wine, my fav) and drove us out here. Smart guy! As we dined, he has gave me his vision of our future dream home on this multi-acre lot, surrounded by thousands of acres of pine trees ( and other homes). As I was born and raised in the suburbs north of Detroit on a lake, he knew he'd have do for some serious sweet talking to get me out of the suburbs here! I caved. . . with one caveat: we had to have multiple covered portals (patios) so that I could sit and relax in the shade somewhere, no matter what time of day. We built our dream home on this very lot and 27 years later I’m still loving it! But, I am very thankful for the many shady portal we have . . . and our drop-dead gorgeous mountain views!...See MoreSo do you know your family history?
Comments (27)We never knew much about my father's paternal ancestry, as his parents had divorced when he was young. But my brother was able to access ancestry information through his career, which made tracing our father's roots, far easier than any of the rest of us would have been able to access. He traced it back as far as the 1500's to my father's great great (I don't recall how many generations) grandfather in England. My father was the direct descendant of an Englishman named Robert Cushman, who was one of the men responsible for the Mayflower voyage to America. He had to de-board the Mayflower on it's first leg, before it crossed the Atlantic, but did get to America soon after, where he preached the first sermon at Plymouth Rock. Within 2 weeks, he left on what he thought would be a short return trip to England, to bring them a document that detailed the first explorations of where the Mayflower passengers had disembarked, and a description of the new settlement at Plymouth Rock. This document called 'The Relation' (now a very important 'first' American historical record) was safely brought to England, but unfortunately, Robert Cushman passed away from The Plague, before he could return to America, where he had left his 13 year old son, Thomas, in the care of Plymouth Rock's first Governor, William Bradford. Upon learning of his death, Governor Bradford adopted Thomas, but had him retain his surname of 'Cushman' in honour of his father, Robert. Thomas took over for the first elder of the church there, and held that position until his death at 85. His daughter Mary was the very last survivor of the Mayflower voyage. A monument at Plymouth Rock for Thomas Cushman, replaces the original plaque from centuries ago, for the Cushman family members, given in recognition of Robert Cushman's part in securing the Mayflower's voyage, and his family's involvement in many aspects of the first settlement, for its passengers, in the new colony. But the funny thing is, in the 1800's, some descendants of the original Cushman settlers, emigrated to Canada. So it was pretty surprising, after always assuming my father's family had come directly from England to Canada, many generations ago, to learn that upon leaving England, our family actually could not have been more American! http://massandmoregenealogy.blogspot.com/2011/11/thomas-cushman-ca-1607-to-1691-plymouth.html...See More- 9 years ago
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