Giving money as a wedding present
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Comments (19)I bought a very nice pottery compost crock at Gardener's Supply. Quite decorative for the counter. But I agree with a lot of the above. Even if they compost, I don't think that would be a good idea for a wedding present. If they have a yard and are interested in gardening, a couple books on the subject of gardening and composting might be welcomed. Or a compost bin might be more appropriate as a housewarming present. But I've spent my life getting presents from my mother (and anyone else she could convince) that were what she thought I should have wanted in the first place rather than what I actually did want, such as the most expensive doll in the store when I'd never been into dolls, or a pink, polka-dot ruffly house dress for when I do dusting that wouldn't even look good on Ethyl Mertz (and it's 1978, I wear jeans, and I rarely dust). Ah, but that's another story. What they said. If the happy couple wants china, get them china....See MoreCollege Graduation Gift - what can you give besides money?
Comments (13)My DH just received his MAster's Degree this past weekend. I bought him a custom made frame for his Degree. The company is great to work with and the frame is gorgeous! Here is their website: http://www.usadiplomaframes.com/ Or, do you know what he'll be doing? Maybe a framed print for an office wall or something that represents something that he is interested in. When DH received his undergrad he received a beautiful clock from his Dad for his office. Just some thoughts, I hope they help! Gina...See MoreDo you give money to people on the street?
Comments (34)No because of the following reasons, as posted by an organization that does community outreach for the homeless in Maryland: Q: Should I give to panhandlers? A: Our experience at Bethesda Cares is that panhandling is not the answer and here are some reasons why: panhandling doesn't provide benefits like insurance, it is not steady or reliable income, in creates a dependence on others, and is a cycle that is hard to break even if someone doesn't intend to do it very long. Panhandling often feeds an addiction, be it gambling, alcohol, or drugs. Giving change to panhandlers does not solve the problems of the person. If you want to give to the individual consider buying food or coffee. Bethesda Cares has a card that lists our services that can be given out to those on the street instead of change....See MoreWedding - do we give a gift?
Comments (38)My own parents hosted my "big white wedding", and gave DH & I a check to purchase bedroom furniture of our choice. MIL & FIL gave us a honeymoon for a wedding gift. This was 35 yrs ago, perhaps things are now done differently? Despite that your DH is paying for his DD's wedding (assuming that it was his offer/agreement), I think that something thoughtful i.e., nice gift from you both is appropriate. The gift need not be over the top, just a nice family piece of silver or crystal, or alternatively, visit an antique shop and find something unique if you wish to give a small token-type gift. Thinking that a meaningful gift will not only acknowledge the marriage (big deal to the couple), but will go a long way toward keeping a good relationship with your SD. If you don't, I think the bride & groom's feelings may be hurt, as a lack of any gift other than hosting the wedding seems a little cold... IIWM, I would find something meaningful to give, even if you have to give some sentimental family piece. It's the symbolism, not the amount of $ spent that matters most. Be a good stepmother and take it upon yourself to suggest and then choose something that both you and your DH feel reflect your feelings toward your DH's daughter and her marriage. If money is tight with paying for the wedding reception, it isn't very difficult to find something that the bride will keep for years with a remembrance of your graciousness in acknowledging this milestone in her life. Please take the ex-wife out of the equation, since I am getting the feeling that the gift idea by your SD's DM, may have caused your initial reaction of not giving a gift other than the actual wedding. Congratulations on the marraige of your SD, but do remember that this is your DH's daughter, and your actions at this time will definitely speak volumes....See MoreBunny
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